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As promised, I’m having a giveaway just for the Spinners this week. Why? Because we love our spinners and we don’t do nearly enough to celebrate them!
One of you lucky ducks is going to win one full pound of our luscious, buttery 100% Cormo Combed Top AND one full pound of our absolutely lovely Kid Mohair/Cormo Blend Roving. That’s enough premium spinning fibers to keep you busy for a good, long time.
Here’s the deal: Leave a comment on this thread telling me the best and worst parts of moving. Why? Because I am in hell over here people, and I want to hear stories that are worse than mine.
But there’s one more thing you have to do- tell your spinning friends about this giveaway. I don’t care how you do; email, twitter, facebook, blog, post on ravelry or tell your guild, but somehow you need to let them know that Juniper Moon Farm is giving away a spinners stash.
Entries close at midnight EST, on Sunday, October 11th, 2009. One winner will be chosen at random and the winner will be posted here. The winner has 24 hours to claim his or her (but probably her) prize. Sound good?
Good luck!




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I may have one of the worst moving stories you’ve ever heard. In a nutshell, my moving van was STOLEN. Yep, stolen. Our stuff had traveled nearly 3000 miles, gotten to its destination in CA, and then the driver had to transfer it to a U-Haul to get it into my apartment complex, because the big rig couldn’t negotiate a corner. He loaded the U-Haul that evening, went to sleep, and woke up to find that the U-Haul had been stolen from the hotel parking lot.
I can’t believe it… I’ve been contemplating a move for a while – although I love the VT lifestyle, I do NOT love the VT weather. I like it hot, I like it dry, I like it sunny. So I started to look South. I wanted a place that still has 4 seasons, a place that wasn’t too crowded, and a place where the sun shines and it is warm more often than not. Last April we took a trip to C’ville and fell in love. I couldn’t believe it when I read you are headed that way!!!
As for the move, ugh… that’s tough. The packing is the worst part of course, and learning where the doctor’s office is and a new grocery store is no picnic either – but the PURGE has gotta be cathartic. Packing/weeding/tossing/donating the stuff you don’t need/want in your new life/space has gotta be the best. A fresh start in a great place – it’ll be worth it, and I wanna hear how much you love it so that I have the nerve to do it myself after living in my home for 13+ years and this area for 20. Best of luck, and I’d be happy to lighten your load of fiber by a coupla pounds
The best part of moving: starting fresh! New places to discover, a new home to make. It’s exciting!
The worst part of moving: the boxes of miscellaneous crap at the end of the packing process. The last box I packed during my last move included spices, boxing gloves, pens and pencils, and dishtowels. Sigh.
The worst part? Packing and unpacking.
The best part? Being done.
(The worst part of having moved is trying to create a new network of friends, doctors, hairdressers, ob/gyn… all those people that we feel comfortable with. The best part of having moved is having friends in yet another place in the world.)
Hang in there.
I hate moving so much that I plan on dying in this house. And I only moved a few times in my life!
As for the spinners stash, I’m learning how to spin, and I would really love getting a stash to use– thanks for the opportunity!
-Perry-
P.S. I tweeted you!
Best part: New place! Unpacking and rediscovering everything! Finding homes for everything! Learning all the quirks about the new place!
Worst part: The actual MOVING of the THINGS. And that end part, where you only have things left with no specific box to go in, and you’ve lost all steam. (send in new recruits to help!)
I’ll be moving soon also, but the best thing about moving for me will be my husband and I to finally get a place of our own. We have been living with his parents for a while and it’s time that we had our own place.
Worst thing: having to re-potty train the dog :/
As much as I don’t want to spread the word and thereby decrease my chances of winning this amazing contest, I did because you asked so sweetly. I posted about it in a local Rav group.
Okay, best part of moving is making a fresh start and meeting new friends. I like purging all of the unnecessary junk that I’ve accumulated.
Worst part– I hate packing. I don’t have any moving horror stories, though, sorry. I had to live with my in-laws for 6 weeks while our house was being finished. Does that count? A beautiful crystal vase that was a wedding gift mysteriously disappeared during that move…
The worst thing about moving? That point where you’re totally sick of packing and your husband offers to help, filling boxes with bizarre combinations of fragile memorabilia, heavy books, mateless shoes, your toothbrush, and maybe, if you’re lucky, a few rocks, a bug or two, and some perishable food.
The best part about moving? Not being able to find the dishes and having a solid excuse to eat out!
Hmmm, the worst thing about moving is that EVERYTHING has to be debated over – do we keep/sell/throw this?
The best bit is that you move into an empty shell, unpack all the stuff that you decided to keep and move and make the empty shell YOURS by personalising with all of your possession. You get to find the perfect place for pictures, bric-a-brac and ornaments!
Just think how fabulous it will be once it’s all done!
I stopped counting moves at 40 and that was about oh, 15 moves ago (thank the military and HIS, as in the great He with a sense of humor for all of them).
The best part is the adventure of moving somewhere new, a new adventure.
The worst part? The packing, the move, I hate hate hate do it yourself moves (can you tell I’ve done several?), The moves where someone comes in and moves you is the best, but you HAVE to watch the packers like a hawk. Not because they will steal anything, but because they will pack ANYTHING that isn’t nailed down and they have nail pullers for that.
We had one move where no one in the family was available. It was an emergency move from Germany back to the US after my ex’s father was injured severely. We were in the states and it became apparent we were staying so one of the ex’s military co-workers was assigned to “supervise” the movers/packers to send our stuff home. Thank goodness I had the presence of mind when we were flying out fast to be at the hospital to take out the kitchen trash!! The packers packed the trash from the bathrooms, and office!! Oh and they very VERY carefully packed all our toothpicks! Argh!
I always seem to lose things in a move…not an item or two, but a whole box. Must be genetic because when my folks moved cross country they lost the box with all the photo albums. Ouch! No baby pics of me.
Oh, I forgot the moving horror story – first time I moved, I put ALL my best clothes in one trash bin liner. Of course, as we loaded the car, no one thought to check whether it was clothing or trash
Worst: Never knowing what your thing (that THING! The one you really need, this minute!) is. For months. Because no matter how well you plan, you could have never predicted that you’d need that thing.
Best: a new, clean place. Knowing that (eventually) all your blankets and bags will be where they belong and that new place will be clean – under the bed, the couch, in the deep corners of the closet. Clean! New!
We moved just a few months ago. Part of the problem (ie worst), for us, was that we hadn’t seen the space we moved into ahead of time. This resulted in many complications, including: other people living in adjacent space didn’t meet their move-out deadline, the kitchen had no cupboards or cabinets, and we had no shower.
On the other hand, we moved from the South, and we’re looking forward to having more of a real winter (including snow, theoretically). Plus, our expenses are now within our income.
DH says 3 moves are as good as a fire. What he means is that eventually (especially if they are in quick succession) you purge all the extraneous stuff out of your life and are pared down to the stuff you really need and the stuff you really love. So, although the process is hellfire, the result is priceless: peace and freedom.
Thankfully, I don’t have any real horror stories (oh, maybe an irreplaceable, cherished heirloom got broken, but nobody *died*) but I have moved my share of miles around the country as a military dependent. Yanking up emotional roots regularly as a kid really helps me treasure the bonds I make with friends now. Like the Aunties, we go deep and we go fast, with friendship. That rocks.
The best part about moving is unpacking into a ‘new’ kitchen!! I love that…all the drawers are crumb free and the spices are all organized…ahhh…
The worst is the waste that the boxes and packing materials create…I hate the piles and piles and piles of trash.
The best part of moving is the possibilities! I love looking at empty spaces and imagining what they will become. The best time of a move is getting in to my new place, laying on the floor in an empty room and just dreaming. it is the epitome of hope. Everything, at that moment, is possible. The worst part of moving is saying goodbye to the place that holds so many memories. Fortunately, memories pack up easily but it is still a letting go. Gosh Susie, I can’t imagine how it must be for you right now but I truly hope you are focusing on the possibilities. Us shareholders are by your virtual side.
Good luck with your move! That’s huge. I won’t give you worst/best because I prefer not to think about moving, although I will likely do it again some time.
If I win the fiber . . . well, draw again and I’ll buy some from you next year. I’m writing a book and don’t have time to do my own spinning for a while, and there’s nothing like fresh fiber. . . .
Sending very good thoughts for your transitions, and I’m so glad you went to see that last farm on the list. That may be the best thing about moving: knowing where you are going.
Probably the worst part about moving is trying to pack everything/pare down/not break anything. And I always always always pull something or strain a muscle!
But the best part of moving is definitely having the new space there in front of you, teeming with possibility and positivity. I love the feeling of a new start, a fresh space, no preconceived notions about where things can and cannot go. So freeing!
By the way, I think you’ll love living in the C’ville area. I spent 14 years there and adored every minute! It’s a lovely area with many creative types. I envy you!
Oh my! Best part of moving=a great reason to purge and get rid of all that crap you have laying around that you don’t really need. Worst part=not being able to find anything for weeks on either side of the move. Oh, and discovering that thing you just purged is actually something you need/want and its too late to get it back.
Well, the best thing about movinmg is being forced to comb through your stuff and get rid of (donate, gift, recycle) all those things that you don’t need dor use, but that take up space in your life.
The worst, moving those boxes that you can’t bear to sort through or get rid of but have rekained unopened SINCE YOUR LAST MOVE!
My worst moving story – the two 20-something boys that Two Men and a Truck (the moving company I hired) sent to move me and my partner from separate accomodations into our first home together. They kept setting things down to play with them (like the elliptical trainer). They were too stoned to actually work having snuck (not very well, as I caught them) off to go smoke pot in the middle of the move…
While I am not a spinner and don’t want to be entered in the contest, I couldn’t help putting my 2 cents in about moving horror stories. Years ago, I had to move out of my old apt. practically overnight w/ everything prepacked and hidden in closets so as not to be obvious. You see, this landlord was a real pr–k and very creepy. He would suddenly just burst in w/ bacteria for the septic any time he wanted–no privacy whatsoever. I always got the sense he was peering in the windows. Anyway, I understood he never returned the security deposit when anyone left. Oh, yeah. . . I simply withheld my last month’s rent and essentially zoomed out of there one evening while he threatened to throw all my stuff all over the lawn. Fortunately, I had already called all my girlfriends and fellow renters to be present when I broke the news. What a wacko!
I hope you are at least packing in peace and wish you well in your new home.
The worst part of moving is realizing how much stuff you have accumulated and trying to get it all packed up. I am sure that this is the stage you are in right now. The best part of moving is getting to start in a nice clean place. It is so much easier to clean up a house when it is empty. (I wish I could empty out my house just so that I could clean it some days.) It is so nice to start fresh.
Good luck with your move…enjoy getting to know your new surroundings!
The BEST part of moving is walking into your new place and imagining all of its potential! The worst part of moving is waking up the first morning and not being able to find the coffee making!
Moving sucks for the most part. At least in my experience. However, the last time I moved (14 months ago, and I am STILL not unpacked), I had 1 entire month in which to paint and plan and think about things. So I was able to go find my PERFECT wall color and put it up on the walls. I got my bedroom and front rooms painted. Then I had movers show up, help me pack the rest of my stuff and lo! I was off…
The downside, however, is that my new place is so small compared to my last place that I couldn’t move around the house because of all the boxes. I still don’t have a living room, because it’s covered floor to ceiling in boxes. It’s hard to unpack because there isn’t enough room to unpack in. And the movers had buried my yarn, spinning supplies, and all of my other crafty things in boxes that aren’t labeled or are in the bottom area of the pile of boxes. So I’m still trying to find all of that and that is very depressing and distressing.
But I think it was still ultimately a good thing, since I now own my condo and while it isn’t a HOUSE, it is a good stepping stone towards a real house.
Good luck with your move!
i just moved about 6 weeks ago. the best parts: landing my dream job, finding the PERFECT place to live, and discovering new good things to love about where i live (which, incidentally, is the same place i grew up and went to college). oh and finally having a good reason for my honey and i to start cohabiting.
the worst parts: learning how to live with another human (cats are one thing, people are something totally else). figuring out that you have too much crap. wondering how you had all that crap in a 1-bedroom apartment… and wondering how the hell t all FIT in there. merging households of 2 very independent, very set-in-their-ways people … wondering if you can make it thru the winter without killing each other LOL
thanks for the opportunity to win some awesome fiber. i’m a new-ish spinner (like i really need another hobby for the “craft room!”) and am always looking for fiber to spin spin spin!!!!
Gosh – after so many moves, it’s hard to tell the worst one! I’d guess it would be the one where we bought my parents house telling them to take what they needed to move into their apartment and we would deal with the rest. My husband and I were recently married, so he had a house full of belongings, I had a house full, and we tried to cram box after box after box into a whole that was still literally crammed with belongings. (Can anyone say packrats?) Now, 13 years later – we STILL have unpacked boxes in the basement and under the stairs.
Worst moving day: the full truck getting stuck in an overpass through which it did not fit. Compounded with screaming and vomiting cats. But the worst part about moving is the way it seems to take forever. Moving day –whenever it occurs– is the actual “Longest Day of the Year”. Oh–and not yet knowing where the good pizza or sushi is in the new location!!
The best part about moving: being GONE from the old place. Fresh new rooms to (try to) set-up. All that possibility. Getting to Start Over. And being where you really now need to be.
Best of luck on your move, Susie! May it be smooth.
The best part and the worst part are kind of both sides of the same coin. On the one hand, you’ve got years’ accumulation of JUNK that needs to be packed, carried to the truck, moved, carried into the new place, and unpacked. On the other hand, if you’ve got the time to put into it, it’s the perfect opportunity to downsize your belongings. For any item, you can ask yourself seriously if keeping it is worth the bother of moving it…and in a lot of cases the answer is “no”.
I remember one move – DH was in the new place working – I was at the old place with a 2 yr old and a new baby waiting for the house to close. It was so stressful! Finally got packed up, drove from S.Carolina to Alabama with the kids, dog and cat (dog on tranquillizers but still hyper and the cat peed on my foot as we pulled in the driveway). New house, but no furniture or household goods, just what we could fit in the car. The good part – DH had made “beds” on the floor for all of us and also bought a tricycle for the 2 yr old. Went to sleep contented that night with the whole family finally under one roof.
The worst part of moving is most certainly the packing, and then the unpacking. I also hate the first few days/weeks when you can’t find anything because you can’t remember what box it’s in/what closet you put it in. I think the best part is the new beginning. I like making a new place feel like home, incorporating old favorites with brand new things.
To me, the worst part of moving is having to say goodbye to everything familiar (friends, grocery stores, libraries, etc.) and start learning where to find those things all over again.
OK, I haven’t thought about moving (blessedly) in quite a while, but I think for me the worst part of moving has been what would now be called the “long tail” of the unpacking. When we first moved into our new house, which we were still building, we basically put all of our stuff into the barn and figured we would unpack it as soon as the house was ready. (Heh heh.) Now, almost ten years later, all of our books and who knows what else are still in the barn. I *think* we’ve found all the kitchen stuff and clothes. I *hope* mice don’t eat books. I have completely forgotten what most of those boxes contain. It will be like Christmas when I finally get to open them again (OK, the awful kind of Christmas where people give you large smelly boxes of things that you don’t want). Blessedly, I wasn’t knitting when we moved, so there was no stash to deal with.
The one thing I did right in all of this was to make a database as I was packing, with an inventory of what was in each box. Although as we approached the end of the packing process my accuracy may have declined (ahem) nonetheless this has turned out to be a real life-saver; it means you don’t have to actually open every box to find the one that has “Naval fiction and bestsellers” or “OED and encyclopedia” or “low-priority kitchen stuff”.
The one funny thing that happened to us (and I still don’t know whether this was the best or the worst part of the whole moving process) was that when we finally arrived with our UHaul truck in the dead of night at our not-yet-finished house, it turned out that there was no place to sleep–the entire house was full of ladders and plaster dust and big heaps of extension cords. So in the end we made a nest on the balcony from our dog’s two beds (luckily he’s very large) and the blankets from the moving truck, and we all (including the dog) slept under the stars and listened to the owls. After a long day it was sort of surreal and also sort of wonderful.
Oh, yeah, and back pain. I practically lived on Tylenol during the packing/moving process.
Hang in there, Susie, and just know that it will all be over before long!
It’s not the worst story, I’m sure, but it was sheer hell at the time. Closing and moving into our house the weekend BEFORE christmas. as in we had 1 weekend to not only move our stuff in, plus three kids, but to decorate the entire freaking house. Not to mention that this is in Maine… in the middle of the winter. Ack!
I have moved once at least every year for the last four years. I am a college student and that seems to be the burden we carry. The worst part of moving is that you have to do some much work. All the packing, actual moving and then the unpacking is a month’s worth of work on its own. Not only do you have to move but there is the rest of life that must be tended to.
There is an upside to moving though. You get to get rid of all those things that you had been meaning to retire a long time ago. All the cabinets get sorted through and there is the excitement of getting to make a new place your own.
I will share a horrible moving story. Two years ago when I first moved off of campus my two roomies and I moved into a house that was older and in need of some love. We moved in and the first thing that we noticed was that everything was covered in cat hair. We cleaned the carpets and there was seriously a pile two feet tall after emptying the vacuum and the carpet cleaner out of cat hair. I am allergic to cats so this was less than pleasant for me. We also didn’t know that the hot water heater and furnace were gas powered so we had to wait three days to have hot water before we could get the gas turned on. To add insult to injury, the AC didn’t work in the beginning and so we were just laying around in the middle of June in Missouri sweating to death and we could not even shower. Probably the worst time of my life. Everything got sorted out eventually and all was well but I feel your pain with the hassle of moving.
I have been following your blog for a while and I am happy that you have found a new place you are so excited about.
I love moving. You get to start fresh, clean out the clutter, decide what is important to you and what is less so. You take your good friends and good possessions with you and leave the baggage you don’t need. There is a new place to explore and new things to do and learn!
Moving:
The best part is the fresh start.
The worst part is realizing how much stuff you should have thrown away years ago and are still packing up to follow you.
The worst thing about moving is finding the boxes that you never got around to unpacking the last time you moved!
Best thing about moving is the feeling of being physically lighter after all the tossing and purging you do in the course of packing. The worst thing about moving is unpacking, hands down. Especially those last four or five boxes that hang around for a year or so afterwards.
To me, the best part of moving is getting to start again with an uncluttered space (not that that lasts long…) and the worst part is having to figure out how to make new friends.
Moving is miserable. Completely miserable. But I have to admit I love the opportunity to take a fresh look at all my stuff and decide if I love/want/need it enough to pack, move, and unpack it. Donating bags of clothes and housewares to people who really do need them feels so good.
And the worst part? Every single other thing.
Yumm! More spinning!!! Moving – we have had pretty decent moving luck except for RAIN – Loading up in the rain is just nasty! Also packing – we actually packed a full trash can…..Love the purge – very chatartic but I am SO NEVER MOVING AGAIN – in fact we are going to build crypts in the basement!
Kisses to feenat!
Off to chat about you on the blog.
Worst part of moving: the freaking packing! Ugh, especially the kitchen.
Best part of moving: the wonderful fresh start feeling of walking into an empty house and knowing you can do ANYTHING with it! Plus all the new local restaurants, shops, and places you get to explore for the first time!
One move (we made many in the early years) my husband had to start his job before we were able to move, and left me to deal with the movers and drive 3 children (5, 3, 1) 5 hours to NY (and I have a phobia of driving in the city) to a place I had no idea how to get to. The kids all had scarlet fever the week before, and 2 days before I was due to leave I came down with it also – I was shaking so hard from fever in the middle of the night that I couldn’t get the bottle of tylenol open. But I’m here to tell the story.
Best thing about moving, you get to start over-decorating, new ideas, new places to visit, new neighbors (hopefully they’re good ones!). Worst has to be going to the chiropractor after all moving and hauling because you put your neck out, and you’re body is sore for almost a week, then you have to get caught up on everything that had to be put aside, and then you need to make sure your mail gets forwarded, and you contacted somewhere in the vicinity of 100 contacts/companies of your new address, blah, blah, yuck!! I hope your move goes smooth!
The best part was packing everything myself so I knew where everything was and could find things still packed in boxes in our new home years later. I also liked getting rid of all the stuff I had been wanting to get rid of starting with a “clean” slate. The bad part – running out of time and mental ability while packing to make any more decisions so I just packed the junk and moved it and dealt with it after the move.
I heard a great story about moving. The moral of the story is to always watch your packers, because they will pack ANYTHING. People have found that their garbage gets packed, coffee pot with grounds still in it, etc. But one poor family had their pet cat packed up – they found her, three days later, ALIVE but pretty pissed off.
I am in!!
All the packing and sorting and planning and just plain hard WORK which seems never ending, is horrendous. But the worst part of moving is the emotional upset, the way it affects every part of your life. The best part is that it has a definite end to it, ready or not.
My worst moving experience was when my sister and I moved me from an apartment in a “questionable” neighborhood in west LA. We’d only carried a couple of loads out to the UHaul parked in front, and when I brought out the next armload, I found her telling a group of the neighborhood denizens that, no, she didn’t need their help carrying things, thankyouverymuch.
So, for the rest of the move-out, one of us had to stay with the UHaul to protect my belongings while the other slogged out with the goods, greeted by whistles and catcalls, cries of, “Hey, Chica, you want we can help you out. Hot Mama, let me lift your load.” Etc., shudder.
Then on the 405, both tires on the UHaul trailer blew. It was riding on the rims by the time we got to my new apartment. But then, we were at the new place, and it was clean and new, with a pool and amenities. Lovely. The murder came much later.
The best part? Getting to start all over again in a new place, all clean and shiny (hopefully!)
The worst part? Realizing how much junk you have, and how long it is going to take to pack it all
oops! Moving? Thankfully it’s be awhile. But we had to stay in a roach ridden urine smelling hotel during one move. Another move, all my hubby’s comic books were stolen AND, all the mirrors ,curio cabinet, and even the couch were broke by movers!
Is it okay if a wannabe spinner tries for this? My sister bought me a beautiful spinning wheel at a garage sale outside of Richmond, Virginia, knowing that I want to try my hand at spinning. Between work, knitting, throwing pots and life, I haven’t taken the time to find someone to teach me how to use this beautiful piece.
My worst moving story – newly married, we moved from Connecticut to Illinois, and the wonderful moving van driver decided in Toledo, Ohio, that he didn’t care to work for that moving company anymore, and left the trailer with all our possessions in a truck stop. It took over a month for the orphan trailer to be noticed. Oh, to be young and in love and not care about sleeping in beds or eating off of real dishes.
Worst moving story: The day before we closed on our dream house we did our walk through and discovered that a skylight was leaking, leaving a huge puddle of water on the floor. And everything the had seller promised (in writing) to leave behind, from curtains and carpet to fireplace andirons and a BUILT IN bookcase had been removed by her kids. They also took the door knocker, leaving big ugly holes where the brass had been, and still – 5 years later, we can’t find one that fits properly to both fill and cover the holes. We had to decide just how much this house meant to us. We went forward with the sale and didn’t make a fuss, but did let the seller’s representative know we were disappointed. The next day after closing we returned to the house and got our BEST moving story.
The former owners had built this as their retirement home. She was a homemaker, he was a chemistry professor. Within ten years of building the house, he died of cancer in the room that’s now my office – short retirement indeed. She held onto this house, a widow alone, eventually suffering injuries that made it impossible to stay here any longer.
We walked into the house after the closing and found her rocking chair in front of the sliding glass door that looks out onto the deck, in the room her husband had died in, with very fresh muffin crumbs in the seat. We believe she’d come by to say goodbye to her life here and her husband. I cried, my husband got a little choked up, and we realized that the curtains, carpets, bookshelf and andirons meant nothing. Home and all it encompasses, on the other hand, mean everything.
The best part? (is there really one?) I tend to enjoy unpacking my yarn and getting to fondle all of the wool I have.
The worst part? Everything else.
Worst thing that ever happened to me when I moved was that someone stole my best bike EVER. It was a Raleigh 10-speed vintage upright handlebar. I paid $25 for it at a yard sale. I will never ever find a bike like that again. (I have many bikes.)
The best part of moving is the migration of all the thinghummies to the Bowl That’s In Every House — you know, the one with paper clips, random business cards, screws that have long since been separated from whatever they fell out of — and you get to throw the whole damn thing in the trash.
Best part of moving: when friends and family chip in to help but YOU get to drive the big truck!
Worst part of moving: Unpacking. I’m terrible at finding places for things.
Best part is a fresh, clean start. New places to put things, new ways to organise.
But pretty much everything else kind of sucks.
My favorite move was to where I live now. Some of my friends came up and help me clean the house before we moved in and some helped us actually move stuff. It was special because it is the first house we owned. My worst move was when I had a hard time finding a place due to pets. That move came right down to the wire (not a fond memory at all).
It is so exciting starting in a new place though – Best wishes!
The best part of moving is the new adventure into the unknown! The smell of a new place and deciding where to put everything!
The worst part is broken memory’s such as your grandmother’s dishes and antique mirrors. Also, where to put everything! LOL
The worst part: lugigng boxes of records. We have hundreds and hundreds of vinyl LPs and they are HEAVY.
The best part: setting up a new kitchen, everything in its new place.
Moving? The worst part is definitely the packing…and packing…and then the unpacking….. Moving into a new place is exciting but not the actual process!
The worst part about moving…I’m probably the worlds BIGGEST PACKRAT! I learned this from my grandmother (God bless her) but I can’t throw away anything that I think will come in handy later…
The best part about moving, well, it’s been 24 years since I last moved so I don’t know how to answer that except to say — a new house to “stash my stuff” in?!
Best part. Like others have said getting acquainted with a new area…finding the best places to eat/shop/new mechanic etc. It’s better now with things like Angie’s List to help with repairmen and such. And for me it’s getting rid of stuff. There have been times when I packed stuff that I thought I wanted/needed. And then after the tiresomeness of unpacking, I’d get fed up and just trash stuff. Felt really good.
I don’t have a really BAD story, but once somehow all my shoes except a pair of flipflops got packed in an unmarked box. It was winter so once my cold feet got there, they stayed in the house for a couple of days until the shoes were unearthed. Got lots done though. My mama always said to pack a box labeled FIRST BOX and carry it with you. Inside…toilet paper, coffee pot and coffee, clean underwear and a change of clothes, towel and washcloth, and your special blanket and pillow. Now I’d probably add my knitting and a spindle..oh and the top and roving I might win
Reminds me of the move my guy and I made to our current apartment. It was the middle of the week – our new landlord wasn’t giving us an inch and wouldn’t let us move in over the weekend prior. And both of us came down with the WORST stomach flu we’ve had since we were kids. First he got it, lying on the couch nearly dead as I tried to stuff all my yarn into bags in the days before moving. Then I got it. We were like helpless, puking, little birds. We ended up calling his ever-gracious mother to beg for help. She somehow managed to pack up the remaining unpacked half of our apartment and after about 20 car trips (windows DOWN) we got it moved. We had to take turns – one would take a box up the stairs while the other puked their guts out, then we switched. I don’t even know how we got this sofa up those winding flights of stairs. And then, at around 10, I did a top-to-bottom 409-ing, vacuuming, spackling and febreezing of the old place in between trips to the bathroom, which I cleaned last. I got that security deposit back, by George.
I HATE moving – it is disconcerting and up in the air and I feel all jumbled like all my homey stuff in scattered boxes. I have never moved far, but cried for months last time after a 5 mile move – I just hadn’t decided I hated my old house and wasn’t in love with my new house – yet.
The best part of moving is the mind set to get rid of stuff I haven’t touched in years and know I won’t need again (until 2 weeks after I have tossed it) and picking new interior paint – I LOVE to paint inside, but only when it is a new canvas. Once I am done, I tend to like it and live with it.
I will tell all the ladies at my spinning group tonight at our LYS Wooly Wonders about the give away.
Hugs, Kisses and Good Luck to you Juniper Moon.
Best part- Starting over, decorating, going to Target a bunch!
Worst- packing/unpacking with a toddler. So much frustration.
Here’s my story. This has brought back repressed memories. I will need to go back into therapy. Happened 15 years ago. Moved from 3 different locations. Massive ice storm flooded one location, where all paperwork was stored. Good bye receipts, hello IRS audit with no backing docs. Moving with lots of little trucks during ice storm and black ice. 1 truck totaled, my brother’s, street light pole won that battle. Finally moved enough stuff to make it livable, went out for wings and beer while filling waterbed. Return to find ice cold bed that looks like Mount Everest, lucky it didn’t explode. Slept on cold hard floor that night. I will never move again, ever.
The few times I moved, I always moved to a bigger and/or better place – so the best part of moving has always been trading up! The worst part – omg, it is the unpacking for sure. Packing is a pain, but it’s a cinch. UNpacking sends me to lie down for a while in a darkened room. Where to put everything? Once it has a home will I remember where that is? And how can I have leftover boxes full of stuff that has nowhere to go when this place is bigger than the last one???
Good luck with the move. Breaking something up is always hard, even when it’s for the best.
The best thing about moving is the clean slate, the opportunity to get all your stuff organised exactly how you want and to get rid of things you don’t really need.
The worst thing is well, all the logistics. My last move was from a rented flat to a house which i purchased, and the paperwork took longer than expected, so i had 2 weeks between having to move out of the flat, and being able to move into the house. Luckily the owners of the house let me store my stuff in the garage until the sale was completed, but it was pretty horrible because i had to sleep on my best friend’s floor for a fortnight, and i couldn’t go stay with my parents or other friends who had spare rooms because none of them were local, and i needed to be around so i could get to my solicitor and sign paperwork and stuff on short notice.
hang on in there, moving sucks, but it’s all worth it in the end when you’re in a nice new place!
I moved from FL to RI when I was 19. I packed all my stuff up and sent it via UPS to my friend during the several months before I moved my body there. That part was easy. When I finally took the loooong train ride there, I sat next to a guy who got drunk in the dining car and during the night he progressively sat lower and lower in his seat until he had slid down so that his legs were on the floor (ick!) and his head was resting on my hip like it was a comfy pillow (ickier!) I pretended to stay asleep and moved a bit and thankfully he woke with a big, embarrassed, “OH!!!” It was freezing on the train and me having lived in FL for 3 years no longer owned a coat.
The good part – I met the guy who was to be my husband several months later. That was 15 years ago
I love looking at your sheep. I used to have a small herd too. I just do hand spinning now and some dry felting ACEOs.
Ah, a subject near and dear to my heart this week!
Worst part: Not just the packing (especially since we’ve lived in the same house for 34 years), but–worse–packing the BOOKS. Even weeding out about 1/4, I still have over 2000 books … that’s a lot of paper!
Best part? Um … wait … something will come to me. New start? Fresh beginning? Something like that…
For me, the best part about moving was being closer to my friends. The worst was moving on the hottest day of the year.
We had an exciting cross country move many years ago, involving an un-airconditioned VW in the summer time. With our dwarf hamster, and several squirt guns. But that wasn’t the worst part. The worst part was two weeks later, after we’d moved into our “temporary” (read: for three months) studio apartment. That was the day that all of our stuff arrived (having just been moved out of our two bedroom house).
The worst part about our last move was having my husband fly to his new job every Monday morning at 3 AM for 9 months while I waited in another state trying to sell our home in a newly flat economy. I was a wreck worrying about him getting there and back safely through storms and I hated being apart.
Best thing: finally find all those bits and bobs you have lost over the years. I always have a lot of those “ahhh, there it is!!” moments while packing.
Worst thing: unpacking the last box you pack. I call this box the “catch all” box. It’s all of that last crap you forgot to pack and just chucked into a box you have set up. I hate unpacking that thing because most of that stuff didn’t have a box because it didn’t have a good place to be kept period. In fact, we have been here 3 years and that box is living in my front closet still…ahh well!
Good luck!!!
Ooh! I am fixing to buy my first house and am warming up for the move. My favorite part of moving is honestly getting rid of stuff – evaluating your things and deciding if you love them enough to move them or not. I have a hard time getting rid of stuff under normal conditions, but something about moving really motivates me to declutter.
The worst thing about moving is unpacking and figuring out where everything goes. Ugh.
oooh – I just got my first spinning wheel – what fun it would be to spin some of your gorgeous fiber!
The worst part of moving is PACKING. I’ve never done an easy move – the kind where you just load up the car and drive things over in your own time. I moved from Seattle to MA to go to boarding school when I was 14 and to NYC for university (and had to unpack and repack my dorm room every year) and a few times around the city but have always had to do it in one U-Haul load… and now I’m contemplating moving back to Seattle next June! At least I know all my belongings in my 235 square foot apartment fit into one small U-Haul truck!
The best part of moving? Well… I always like the new space and figuring out how to use it best (super important in 235 sq. feet!). It’s a fun challenge to me – many of my friends have my come over when they have to unpack so I can help them figure it out too!
The worst thing about moving is lugging the never ending boxes of books up and down stairs. The best thing about moving is decorating the new house, new paint, new curtains, a clean, fresh start.
As long as you don’t have lots of books, I say animals should be cake to move! Also make sure to have a roll of toilet paper and tooth brush in your purse or something so you can get to it as soon as you need them. Good luck!
OH my I have moved so much its almost second nature LOL.. the worst for me is packing and unpacking oh and lugging boxes too and fro.. it got to the point that we would just live out of boxes because it was much easier!,.. the best part about moving is the adventure & fresh start you get to make
Oy the worse thing about moving is the change of address. We’ve been here almost 4 years now and I still do not have all the mail sent to the right address. I suppose the fact that our country post office has also changed our address three times since we’ve been here doesn’t help. First we were a POBox then had a real street address, then we were a RR and now we as of last week we have yet another street address. ;o)
Best part of moving? Eventually you get sooo sick of packing things you cull the flotsam and jetsam and end up being better organized in your new place.
posting your contest to the IL group in Rav.
The BEST part of moving is the fresh new start in a fresh new place. It’s best if you have time to get into your new place before the stuff arrives, so you can clean from top to bottom. My house is never so clean as it is when I first move in.
The WORST moving story I had was when I was moving from Austin, TX, to the Boston area. It was a company move–all paid for–so I thought it would be a piece of cake. The moving company sent two lovely women to carefully pack up all my things (wow). Afterward, they sent two men to move all my furniture and boxes onto the moving truck. However, one of the moving men HAD ONLY ONE ARM! Let’s just say I had to do a whole lot more moving than I had planned to….
Best Part: Throwing away years of accumulated stuff you never knew what to do with and starting over fresh — it feels like the start of a new school year. Worst Part: Figuring how you are going to live in your new house so you know where to put your things. Like, will I want my cups to the left of the sink or to the right. Takes weeks to figure this out!
will pass the word along!
Moving… something i know all too well, hubby having been a sailor for uncle sam for 15 years! In class afew years back we had to list jobs we had had along with places we had lived…. i was well into the 30’s on both lists, numerous states and country’s listed. Our last move(s) were from hawaii to wa state. Uncle sam wasn’t helping on this one. I actually finished work earlier than anticipated to get the home projects done to sell (i finished installing hardwood floors as one), and after 6 yard sales we only had belongings enough to fit into 42 beer box sized boxes for 3 people. (17 were my could not part with craft items). The cars were crated, the boxes were crated, the dog had her airline crate … we were off! This was only temporary though as we then lived with my in laws (and the grandparents…in a 1700 sq ft home) for 4 months. four generations and the golden retriever, it was a good experience though! Last week hubby came home and asked me how i really felt about canada… guess where we may be moving this coming feb or may! Another island! I truly hope to move no more than 3 times more in the remainder of my life to come. We’ll see. Good luck girls!
oh, and i didn’t even mention the stolen stereo equipment from a locked car, the car that was literally crushed (they dropped one of those big shipping crates off the cargo ship on it), poor little mg! The movers who stuffed baking dishes in the microwave so there were dangerous looking dents from the inside out, the mover who packed the full can of garbage, ewww 2 months later! I especially loved the suitcase that was brought into the hotel room during a long move that, well …… vibrated. Lets just say hubby had stuck certain items into his suitcase for the move but forgot to remove batteries…. yup, i bet that airline crew and bag boy had a laugh!
Ah, moving. The thing that separates the friends from the acquaintances.
The worst thing about moving, in my opinion, are the judgmental looks a knitter/spinner gets when it comes to moving The Stash. The folks who help you move (friends OR pros) will always make judgmental comments about how much yarn do you *really* need, or some foolish thing about how only the elderly knit, or worst of all- ask what the box marked “UFOs” really has in it.
The worst part about moving has got to be either the packing up or the trying to clean up the old house….after you’ve packed everything and are exhausted and really just want to leave.
The best part of moving is, hopefully, a new and better home (preferably already sparkling clean) and having everything out of boxes and returning to the normal routine.
Good luck with the move! It will all be over soon, hopefully! =)
Best thing about moving from a knitter/spinner’s point of view? That you find all of your stash and get to see how pretty it all is.
Worst thing about moving from a knitter/spinner’s point of view? That you find all of your stash and realize how much you have!
Everyone else has pretty much covered the good, the bad, and the ugly about all the other parts of moving. Best of luck to you!
The worst part of moving is making sure all those boxes are really labeled well. You think you will remember but wouldn’t you know it, the one thing you absolutely must have is impossible to find.
The best thing about moving is all the new discoveries, places and new favorite resturants to try.
Just remember there is so much less to move if you purge! purge!purge! Do some each day with friends to help if you get lucky.
Worst Part – leaving the old place
Best Part – starting the new place
When we moved to our home 15 years ago, the thing I was most excited about was the heat. We had been heating with only wood for many years and I was so looking forward to turning a thermostat. Well, we spent the entire day getting everything in and were exhausted and very cold. I got all excited and ceremoniously turned the thermostat for heat and nothing happened – zip, zilch, nada – no heat. We had to make an emergency, late night call to the “heat guy” – which cost a fortune – and spent our first night with an electric mini heater and many blankets.
The good part is that we spent many happy years in that house and my children have wonderful memories – especially that first night all huddled together laughing and snuggling.
The worst part about moving is unpacking and trying to find a place for everything in the new house. It never fails, no matter how carefully you pack, there is always something that gets broken and something that gets thrown away instead of moved.. The last time we moved it was a little figurine that my grandma gave to me. I remember it being in her home and it was kind of a goofy little figurine of an elf with under a mushroom, but it meant a lot to me. We also had some boxes that disappeared. The only thing that we can think of is that they got thrown in the junk pile instead of the move pile.
Ugh, moving. I have to say that I hate packing, though as others have said it does give you the chance to purge–and uncover long forgotten items. So I suppose it could be both the best and worst part of moving, though I think moving (at least the logistics of it) is the pits.
Try moving to a country where you don’t speak the language! I’ve done that twice in the last 9 years now. And Italian Governmental Red Tape!! Yikes!!! Italian Driving!! And our street is about 2 feet wider than the moving truck, and has on-street parking!!
Hi Susie–My spouse is in the Coast Guard, and therefore we move every 2-3 years. This last year was our biggest move ever-to Alaska from Maryland. To me, the best part about moving is going through your stuff and shedding the stuff you don’t need, and the worst part is having to go through all your stuff, and then set it up again on the other end! We love seeing new places getting to know new communities and meet new people, but it’s always a little daunting at first when you don’t know anyone. I do a lot of wandering and exploring and purposeful getting lost when I first getting to a place in order to get to know it.
Good luck with your move!
The worst part of moving is saying, “good bye.” The best part of moving is saying, “Nice to meet you.”
best part about moving — finding the perfect place to live, the excitement about starting fresh
worst part about moving — the actual moving. ugh
For me, the worst worst worst part of moving is the physical carrying of boxes and heavy stuff. I actually kind of like the organizing of both packing and unpacking, but I hate getting all sweaty with the lifting and the carrying. I always feel very self conscious. Ick! Thanks for hosting another lovely giveaway!
Oops! Hit post too soon. The best part is finding stuff you thought you’d lost, or just forgot about, when you pack! I’ve found awesome things when packing up apartments
The Best: I love the potential that comes with moving. The opportunity to rearrange, reorganize, get rid of everything extra, and start again clean. I’m currently moving, and my absolute favorite part has been picking new paint colors and watching the rooms become what I wanted them to be.
The Worst: Packing, stress, lifting/carrying, finding out that the last tenant’s baby had spilled an entire container of yogurt on the floor and they just left it there (so now it’s all dried on) and cleaning two different places.
The worst part of moving, for me, is always the halfway done point where I am absolutely sure I can not move another item. The best part is having every last item out of the old place and cleaning everything, so that you are finally done with one location, no matter what else happens with the new place.
The worst part of moving: Having to organize everything during the packing process, including having to ruthlessly edit your collection of things-you-know-you-will-never-really-need-but-are-loathe-to-throw-away-anyway.
The best part of moving: Placing everything that survived the ruthless editing process in the perfect spot at the new spot and having a lovely, shiny, brand-new place to enjoy.
When we moved from El Paso, TX to the Chicago area we rented a U-Haul truck to move us and about 35 small birds in their cages. We had to essentially tie the cages to the walls of the truck in order for them not to tip over. And since this was a seriously no-frills move for us and the birds they spent most of that time in transit clinging to the cage bars and we had to make sure that no matter how cool we felt, to keep it cool back there in the back for the birds. My husband attempted to drive straight through…um yeah…it didn’t work real well.
Despite the bumpiness of the ride and the temperature issues we didn’t lose a single bird in the move.
I NEVER want to move 35 birds in small cages ever again!
Best Part of Moving: fresh start
Worst Part of Moving: Ack! what do I do with the stuff I found at the back of the closet I forgot we had not packed yet and THE TRUCK IS FULL!
I used to live in Arlington, Virginia before I moved to Utah. I loved it! I hope you really find your niche there. Word of warning though, not all roads accept moving trucks. Keep your eyes peeled. I think the funniest/worst thing that happened to us on our move was the final parting when we finally left town. We moved ourselves, U-haul style. With enormous sighs of satisfaction we were at last all packed, on the road, and we took the most familiar way out. Yup, the wide open road for us. We got on the Washington Parkway and lo and behold, in less than five minutes, the truck came to a dead standstill! So we had to call to get towed. Yes, towing a full moving truck is no picnic. It turns out trucks are not ALLOWED on that particular parkway and so while we were waiting for the tow truck, red lights came flashing. Police mess and all. They had to set up a bunch of hazzard flares, wave all traffic on by. Blush, blush. It was so embarrassing. The police forgave us and actually gave my family a ride to the U-haul dealers to figure out what was wrong. The truck was OUT OF GAS. That gas gauge had been tampered with before the truck got to us.
Our options: reload a different truck that would become available the next day (are you kidding me?). Or drive the truck with the broken gauge. Hmmmm. We took the broken truck. Kind of sort of guessed when we needed gas as we crossed our ENTIRE NATION. I tell ya, it was a LOOOOOOOONG four days.
I hope this never happens to you.
Best wishes to the newly incorporated Juniper Moon. We’ll be sure to keep looking out for you.
CB
What a nice giveaway! Thank you!
The best part is a solid reason to pare down one’s possessions, donating to charity whatever one can live without and arriving at the new place with a lighter load. The worst part for me was saying goodbye to the home I grew up in, and knowing it’ll probably be bulldozed. Sure the place leaked heat like a sieve, the shower no longer worked, and the wallpaper in the bathroom had been peeled off by tiny child hands over the course of years, but, the memories!
My worst moving story is about my first move with the Air Force as a civillian. First of all, I didn’t know any better, so I drove out to California before I had my orders (the document that says the Government will pay for my move!) after telling the personnel office that I was headed out. Once I arrived, I was told they wouldn’t pay for my hotel, driving expenses, and to move my household items. After I had that worked out and they picked up my stuff from my parents house, I couldn’t get my stuff delivered. For some reason, no one could figure out where it was for about 2 1/2 months. Finally my boyfriend (now husband!!!
) called and was able to get someone to actually do some looking. My household items had been shipped to another base. My stuff was finally delivered about a week later. Before my stuff was actually delivered, I ended up moving apartments again because my first apartment was infested with termites – YUCK!!
One of the best things about moves for me is seeing new places and meeting new people. I know have friends all over the country!
Another happy note, I recently received my spinner’s Spring 2009 share and can’t wait to get started spinning it. It feels so luscious!! I’m already looking forward to my Fall 2009 share. Thanks for the great and fun idea of a Fiber CSA!
Well – I have moved four times in the past four years (Ohio x2, Vermont, Tennessee) and many times in my childhood as well and I think the best part of moving is the feeling after you have all your stuff moved into what was so recently a strange an unfriendly place and realize that you are home.
The worst – ugh packing, unpacking, driving multiple unhappy critters in the car (although I only have a few cats not a flock of sheep), broken furniture, waiting for furniture to arrive, etc, etc etc
Moving sucks but the possibilities of a new place are endless – there might be something amazing just waiting for you to find it.
The worst parts about moving. Well, it starts with having to keep the house really super clean and tidy and clutter free when you are selling, then comes the packing! If you try to get all packed too early, then you are always wanting to get something and remember that it is already packed away – drives me out of my mind! If you leave packing to the last minute, then it is such a horrendous rush; nothing is organized or labeled properly, and things are not packed well and get broken. Then of course the backbreaking actual chore of schlepping heavy boxes, then the unpacking!
On the other hand, moving gives one a sense of fresh new beginnings, and the chance to re-organize and start out anew. A new community to explore, perhaps, and new friends to meet.
Good luck with your move!
Worst part of moving: Dread packing, absolutely dread it!
Best part of moving: The adventure of making new memories!!
The worst part of moving is trying to sort through all your stuff – what goes? what gets thrown out? what is this, anyways? whatever possessed me to buy/keep this in the first place?
The best part of moving is going through all your stuff and finding long lost items, stories and memories!
I don’t think I can compete with Elizabeth Yow, but my worst story of moving (and I’ve moved overseas 5 times now) was when the movers packed the garbage can (NOT empty!) in the kitchen and had it on the truck for the overseas shipment before I even knew it. Believe me, when I opened that box six weeks later, I was ready to throw EVERYTHING out! CAT FOOD TINS!
Moving is great and absolutely horrific at the same time. I’m not much for packing up and getting everything carried up and down stairs, but I love when all the moving guys are gone, it’s completely quiet and you can just walk around the boxes and stuff with a cup of coffee in your hand. I guess it’s very much like traveling for me – one second I’m up over the roof, knowing it will be such a great, new place to be – looking forward to meeting people and see places. The next I’m sobbing on the floor, missing the known places and the pizza from my former-local pizza guy.
But hang in – every time you find a new little corner of your new home area, it will be like finding a true gem. Good luck with it all…
The worst thing about moving, amid all the tape and boxes, is that you cant pack up your friends.
Leaving friends behind is absolutely the worst part of moving.
The worst part of moving is all the goodbyes. Packing belongings that trigger sad memories of other goodbyes, setting aside for a yard sale other items that have triggered waytoomany goodbye tears. Saying goodbye after goodbye to friends and loved ones, knowing when (or if!) you see them again, it won’t be the same. Saying a goodbye-of-the-heart to your onetime home, knowing if you ever go back to the place, it will somehow seem so much smaller.
The best part of a move is that it *ends*.
Worst part of moving…is realizing you have way too much stuff and fighting the urge to burn it all!!!
We just moved from a 5 room two story farm house to a very very small rental…I feel your pain.
The worst moving experience we have ever had was when we moved from an apartment to a big farmhouse in the country. Said farmhouse was owned by Scott’s grandfather, and he kicked out two of Scott’s cousins so we could move in. Okay, the cousins were NOT taking care of the house and farm, and Gramps used us as an excuse to evict them.
Well, the day we moved (Dec 23rd), it was 25 below 0. All my plants froze in the back of the Uhaul on the way to the house, even though we carefully wrapped them, and when we got there, there was no heat. The cousins conveniently forgot to have the fuel oil tank filled, even though they had agreed to do so since they were given a full tank when they moved in. So, not only is it 25 below 0 outside, we have no heat, have to get in touch with the fuel oil place to deliver an emergency tank of oil, and we have to get in touch with a furnace guy to relight the thing.
The best move was to our current house, which is only 800 feet down the road from the last house. It was a breeze!
The best part about moving is it forces you to purge a lot of stuff. Stuff you haven’t seen or used in years can get donated, gifted or tossed rather than packed.
The worst part about moving is it forces you to purge a lot of stuff. You start to wonder exactly how and why you managed to amass all the crap in the first place.
Kelley aka BratKnits
The best thing about moving – during my last (and final) move, I found my missing crochet hooks. About 20 of them – in a bank pouch, trapped by the dust cover of an upholstered chair. They had been in hiding for about a year and a half.
The worst part of moving, besides packing everything up, is leaving great friends behind. Especially if you are moving from one continent to another, and you know you will never see those friends again.
Best thing about moving is waking up the next day in your new house and realising you made it, and the worst part (moving day!) is over. Worst thing about moving is not being able to remember which box the kettle is in…
Worst story of moving…
The forgot our car across the country. Then, the only brought half of our things. We had beds, but no sheets or blankets. We had bath products, but no towels. And on and on and on. The worst part was they delivered all the parts to our daughter’s crib, but none of the hardware. That never did show up. We ended up having to find the instructions (I know, laughable!) and go to home depot and purchase every screw and bolt. The other half of our shipment showed up about a week later. We were still short about 9 boxes total by the end.
My father used to work as a mover. One time they were sent to put a piano in a house that had 5 levels. The piano had to go in through the 1st level, down 10 flights of stairs into the bottom level. They had to negotiate corners, tear off door jams, tilt a baby grand piano in ways that they never thought of to get it there. When they were done, the customer-a concert pianist-sat down at the piano and started playing it. The piano played beautifully.
Best part of moving? Thinning out all the things you haven’t touched in years and getting things organized again (I have a lovely habit of accumulating…but never really finding a place for…things)
The worst? Getting organized…I have an issue with organization…love the result, hate the process!
The worst part of moving? Utilities. Finding stores again can be a challenge, but I like to think of it as a fun one, like a scavenger hunt. Utilities, though… The last time we moved, we scheduled the electricity to be turned on the day we moved in. When the electric guy came, he saw that it was empty and did everything he needed EXCEPT turn the power on. Because, you know, it was vacant and all. So we show up, a couple hours later, just as it was getting dark, and none of the lights would turn on. We had to get all the boxes into the house in the pitch dark. Oh, and I was 6 months pregnant, Texas’ summer was upon us, and since the power was off we had no air conditioning. That was a miserable night.
On the happy side, we had a ton of friends help us out, on both sides.
Worst Moving Story? . . . they are legion, but the worst was moving across the country with my now ex-husband in a UHaul truck that was full to bursting – and having the ruptured disks in my spine go out the day before the move. I rode and drove all the way across the country in a truck with bad shocks, in agony all the way . . . it was horrific.
The best thing is the first night sleeping in your new place and knowing that you are going to be there for a long time. The worst thing is waiting 10 days for your furniture to show up and basically camping in your new house.
I have moved so many times since college I can even give you a number. I enjoy the cleaning and purging and sorting. My worst move was in 2001 when I foolishly rented a van instead of a truck because I swore I was going to purge enough stuff to fit in a van. I was wrong and had to leave behind a cherished old wood desk from my college years. It wouldn’t have been so bad if I could have given it to someone but because the decision was made hours before I was scheduled to get on the road, I had to but it out by a dumpster. It kills me to think about losing that wonderful desk. Since 2003 I have only used moving companies and it feels really good not to have to pack up a truck but nerve racking when you watch all your belongings drive away with a stranger. Good luck.
The best part of moving: Clearing out and starting fresh.
The worst part of moving: Having to deal with the stuff that needs clearing and letting go of it.
When we bought the house we live in now, I got the Type A version of the Beijing flu the day before closing. I was feverish and almost delirious at closing and still have very little memory of it. I continued getting sicker so my family had to come help my husband do everything. They basically propped me up on the couch and moved around me. It was the week before Thanksgiving and we had told ALL of our extended family weeks before that we would have Thanksgiving in our new house and they were ALL invited! Because I insisted that I would be better by Thanksgiving, we did not change the plans. My stuff never got cleared out, because my family didn’t want to make decisions on my stuff so they packed everything up and moved it. When I wasn’t any better on Thanksgiving morning, my Mom came early in the morning to help my husband cook everything. Because there was so much stuff, they just pulled out the cooking essentials from the boxes and everything else went into the garage. Once again, I was just propped up on the couch, barely conscious. By six everyone had eaten and my brother-in-law looked at me and said “Hey, she’s not looking too good. Maybe she should go to the hospital.” The next thing I know I was being admitted into the hospital with pneumonia. I was there for eight days and ended up being sick for 42 days total. I still have no idea where some of my stuff ended up and I never really got to feel the “starting fresh” part of moving since I had boxes piled up in the garage for years afterward.
Worst move was two moves ago. I was sharing an apartment with a friend. After a couple years we’d both gotten sick of one another, but we were too foolish to realize that meant somebody should move before we really couldn’t stand one another. Things came to a head when I got a boyfriend, which pissed her off. She told a mutual friend she didn’t understand how I could have a boyfriend at all because I was too fat. Fortunately she never said that to me or to him, and she couldn’t say anything against him as he’d been her friend from before I’d met either of them.
The lease was in her name, so she got it transferred to a studio apartment in the same building, and exactly 30 days before that went into effect she gave me a letter telling me so, which she’d had a lawyer draw up. The best part is, she’d had the letter prepared the previous Thursday, and on Monday she’d agreed to have a couple of people crash with us the next weekend. She gave me the letter on Wednesday. So our houseguests may have picked up on some tension.
The boyfriend and I had been planning to move in together in the fall when his lease was up, so this was not a disaster, but it was a pain. That would have given us the choice of any available apartment in the city. Where he still had another 5 months on the lease, we had to transfer the lease over to a suitable apartment managed by the same company. That gave us about three choices.
The one we picked was a nice apartment, very sunny and clean, with a good layout and nice big closets. The only problem is that it was a fourth floor walkup. It was also literally halfway between our two current apartments, about a two-block walk from both. Naively, we thought our friends would be able to just walk the stuff over, so we didn’t hire a truck.
Moving day, our friends managed to get the couch and the bed over there, and a few loads of boxes. My mother pulled me aside and said, “I’m going to call some movers now, because I don’t want your father to have a heart attack.” We were already starting to get tired, and we’d barely made a dent in my stuff, let alone his, so this was a godsend. Or a momsend.
The movers brought over everything in short order except for one thing. They refused to touch my books. I had them all tied up with twine, and they informed me that was not an adequate packing method. I had at least 60 feet of bookshelf space, and half of that was paperbacks which were in two rows.
The boyfriend and I moved the books by ourselves the next day. We borrowed a big canvas wheeled bin from the junkstore around the corner, used that to bring all the books down the street, and hauled them up the center of the stairwell on a rope. We had two big backpacks and a clip. I’d fill one bag at the bottom while he emptied one at the top. Took us all day.
The best move was the next and last one, when we moved into our house. We hired movers ahead of time, and packed the books in boxes. Those poor guys earned their money! The books went from a fourth-floor walkup apartment to a third-floor bedroom in our new house. But we went from a two-bedroom apartment with a tiny kitchen to a five-bedroom house. We had so much extra room for a while! The mortgage wasn’t any more than our rent had been, and we’ve got it half paid off now. That was 15 years ago. Boyfriend has been husband for the past two. House is now as full of stuff as the apartment was. Fortunately spindles don’t take up too much room.
I have moved so much in my life, first as a kid (I went to 8 different grade schools), then in my first so-called marriage, that it’s hard for me to think of ANY good part to moving and all too many bad parts.
But there is this: when it’s time to move, at your own instigation, and not in too much of a hurry, there’s a chance to pick anew, to make a list of “things I really want in a home” and take your time to pick and choose a place that suits you best. It’s a chance to start fresh with a place that (had better be!) already clean, and before the furnishings all go in, to think about whether you want some fresh paint or a different flooring.
The worst bits: Having to box up what seems to be your entire life in a very short time, taking the order (or semi-order, as it may be) you’ve established and disassembling it, throwing it into boxes, and dropping it in a new place to be reassembled in some new order. Everything you pick up is a decision: where do I put this? and this? and this? Should I keep this? What IS this? And while all the packing and decision-making is going on, you’re living out of boxes and trying to live something like a normal life when you can find the pots but not the lids or anything to cook in them, you can find your pants but not your underwear, you’ve found the blankets but not the sheets and pillows, and if you could have your way, you’d pitch the lot and go live in IKEA.
I am a bit of a packrat, so for me, the best part about moving is being forced to sit down and look at every single item I own and make a decision on whether or not it is worth the effort to pack it up and move it. It is a great chance to purge “life clutter.” The worst part about moving is leaving everything familiar to you behind, your friends, family, favorite grocery store and venturing out into the unknown.
Luckily I’ve not had moving nightmares, tho it’s not fun. The oddest was when I moved back to the US from Austria. No furniture involved, but lots of “stuff”. For some odd reason, I packed my guitar (yes, inside it) and the case full of socks and underwear. While carrying it, the handle fell off. It just made the flight home so much more entertaining. The best move was just a few months ago. After 3 years of living with The Guy, I had enough of it. I called a local moving company, they were desperate for work, two guys showed up with a large van and whoosh. For $500, the whole works was in my house. Now I’ve got a big ol’ mess to sort, but I’m HOME. (And I’m ready to spin again, which The Guy didn’t approve of. How did I ever think that would work!) Hope your move is going better now!
Packing is bad, I learned early (moved a lot in college and right after) to use movers. Living off of junk food for a week is my worst part. I always mark all boxes which room they go to and generally have everything unpacked the night we are in. I move my kitchen and set up bathrooms first and dressers-I just put trash bags over the drawers.
My worst experience was when the movers were several hours late and then they dropped the one box, my collection of tea pots, several were my late grandmother’s and they were all broken.
I love the new start, the house is perfectly clean and you can have everything perfect, for at least a few days.
Good luck, I don’t envy you and the move, although sometimes I wish, when I look around at what a kid and man can do to a house, I could just walk out and step into a model house all set up and start over
I’m not a spinner, so don’t pick me, and this is not exactly on topic, but I highly recommend Dave Barry’s “Homes and Other Black Holes” as the most accurate guide ever to moving and/or buying a house. It will help keep you sane. The editions with the Jeff McNulty (sp?) illustrations are the best.
The worst thing for me the last time we moved was spraining my ankle and damaging all three tendons. I was carrying empty boxes home from work and stepped into a “pothole” on the sidewalk losing my balance and spraining the ankle. Poor J had to finish the packing (never let a man do the packing) and I was on crutches for weeks. My ankle stayed swollen from April until October and it was a full year before I really felt recovered. Be careful with those empty boxes!
The best part of moving is making new friends and discovering all the wonderful things about your new location. After I moved into my house I learned to knit and met all my wonderful fiber friends. My life is 100 times richer now and all because we moved.
I have moved so many times I stopped counting. The worst part of moving hands down is the packing. If you start too early you know your are going to need that thing you packed a week ago at the bottom of a box that you can’t find. Packing is just semi-controlled chaos.
Best part of moving is the anticipation and the excitement,
I really dont mind packing I always seem to find something I had lost soooo long ago.
now unpacking is another story it always feels like I’m living out of boxes for weeks.
My next move will hopefully be my last to my own little farm Someday it will happen I can only dream
Well, the best part about moving is getting rid of all the clutter that has accumulated over however long you’ve lived in your previous place. It’s nice to walk into your new house/condo/whatever and not have piles of paper/random toys/bags of yarn (what? is that just me?) all over the place. The worst part of moving is the physical moving part, actually packing and throwing things in the truck and unpacking. And this is made even more horrible when the truck that you booked in advance from U-Haul mysteriously isn’t at the U-Haul place, and you have to wait for three days before they get a truck for you, and your new landlords are mad that you have to move in on a holiday weekend, and the best advice you can get from the U-Haul people is that maybe you shouldn’t try to move on the first of the month. Hope things go smoothly, and it will be worth it once you get settled in the new place. Oh, and I hope I win, I’m going to tweet this and facebook it right now…
Moving all your animals. Wow. My move was only two cars, one pickup truck plus a giant U-haul truck. I think you have more to move than I did. I had to sell my loom because it wouldn’t fit in the truck…but I got a new loom out of the deal. Spinning wheel fit in my car and the kids took turns riding with Dad in the UHaul.
I am not moving but my Mom is moving into a
Senior apt. I went through her stash of knitting supplies and was surprised to find all the pattern books from my Grandmother including several for sweaters from the 1950’s and 1960’s that I still have and wear! It is the memories and reminiscing that is the best!
The best part of moving is that, if you do it right, you can get rid of a whole lot of extraneous stuff without guilt and the local thrift shop will love you.
The worst part for me is that no matter how hard I try to be organized when putting things away in the new house, I can never find anything without a major search.
Moving brought the close to a great relationship with a supportive neighborhood of good friends and family. We have never recovered the wholeness of the old hood. We did however get rid of a LOT of unnecessary baggage. The plstic 5 gallon jug of pennies shattered across the moving van and the cast iron skillets were lost for a really long while. Blessing on your move, what ever comes of it.
The best: fresh start!
The worst moving story I know: some friends of mine packed their home & their life lovingly into boxes. Even their fish were all in baggies awaiting their new home. Moving from Albuquerque to Amarillo, just a 4 hr drive…3 hrs into the drive, Jared notices smoke in his side view mirror, he pulls over and lifted the door of the rented Uhaul…everything-furniture, photo albums and yes, the fish- everything completely gone on the side of the road in the middle of nowhere. Moving sucks.
Best parts of moving: A new space to play in, filled with promise and lots of boxed.
Worst parts: Making the old place a fresh place for new people–I hate cleaning.
The best part of moving is change. I love having new spaces to fill, new places to explore, new routines to make.
The worst part was finding problems after the move — in my case, a wet foundation and a busted sewing machine, both costly to repair.
Ugh, moving. The worst parts are of course packing up all of your stuff (and realizing just how much stuff you actually have), that hectic day when you’re shuffling between the two places and carrying tons of boxes, and the top to bottom cleaning out of the old residence can be tiring and creepy with all the strange echos.
The good parts of course are that it’s a way to make a brand new start. By packing up your stuff you can purge and tidy, which means less unpacking at the end. Painting a new place is always tons of fun and it’s great exercise. Finally, having that first day’s dinner, which in my case is most often takeout from the area, is a nice way to end the hard work and to look towards the future of the new place.
Moving is realizing how much junk you actually have. On the other hand, it is a prime opportunity to get of much of that junk. Because God knows you can’t haul ALL of it with you.
But the good parts are re-organizing, and for a whole darn week the house is just lovely.
The worst part about moving: If you pack early, everything you need is in a box somewhere. If you leave out everything you need, you end up packing in a hurried rush the night before moving day!
The best part about moving, especially moving to Virginia: new beginnings! a fresh start! (Specific to VA: you’re moving to wine country!)
Best part I believe is arranging all your stuff in a new atmosphere. Love it when the last box is unpacked and everything has its new spot.
Worst is all the clutter until this is accomplished.
Someone told me once (in my 20s, when I moved every couple of years or so) that X number (3? 5? I don’t recall) of moves results in the same loss/damage as a house fire. As a firefighter, that really put things in perspective for me and explained why I simply couldn’t find things I knew I’d had previously.
Good? Well, you get to re-organize those kitchen cabinets and drawers. I am a creature of habit and won’t move things once I’ve gotten used to where they are, even if there is a better option!
Worst thing(s) about moving:
Packing up EVERYTHING. Throwing away stuff you forgot you had. Give it to Goodwill or just throw it out with the trash? Getting other stuff you forgot you had to the new place and THEN throwing it out because why did you pack it and haul it to the new place in the first place? Ten years later, finding stuff you never unpacked and should have thrown out all those years ago.
Having trouble learning to get around the new place.
Finding new places to get good prices on stuff. Figuring out new places to put all that stuff that you packed up and moved.
Best things: Making new friends. Seeing new places. Learning that people everywhere are good and kind.
The best part of moving is getting rid of all of the stuff that I really don’t need. An uncluttered home leads the way to an uncluttered life.
The worst part of moving is the sheer amount of time and labor it takes. I’m not afraid of a little hard work, but moving is physically and mentally exhausting!
p.s. I’d so love to have this spinners stash — I’m determined to learn to spin, and a prize like this would seal the deal and get me moving on this goal!
The best part? You’re moving to a beautiful part of the country FROM a beautiful part of the country, where you will meet many, many people with like interests, who love animals and to a countryside where the environment is danged near perfect for you AND for your critters.
The worst part? Well, beyond the obvious logistics and work is the fact that, no matter how many times others have moved, they have absolutely NO understanding of YOUR particular move and, sometimes, you just feel totally overwhelmed and weary.
My worst move was when I was 11. We moved from Uganda, East Africa back to the States. We could only take one suitcase with us, so many precious things were left behind. We left many dear friends behind but the one friend that really broke my heart was our Rottweiler, Billy. He had been a friend to me at times when there was no human friend my age around. Even though we left him with our dearest friends I felt like I left part of me behind. I hope you get to take all your dearest sheep, goats and dogs with you on your move.
Best parts: finding treasures while packing and unpacking and deciding to let go of things finally.
Worst part: feeling overwhelmed, BUT it does get done eventually. Good luck!
Best part: new start, exploring the neighborhood, meeting new people, new chapter in life.
Worst part: opening the front door for the first time and realizing that the previous owner had dumped all their garbage and everything in their cupboards right into the middle of the living room.
mmm…lovely!!
I’m one of those crazy people who actually really likes packing. Loading up the boxes is like putting together a puzzle…trying to fit that last piece in before you tape up the box and attack it with a sharpie so it ends up in the right place. I LOVE packing.
The worst part: Unpacking when your new place is smaller than your old place and no matter how many hours you spend staring at the one closet in your new apartment, it doesn’t get any bigger.
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A few years ago, I helped my sister move from Kentucky to Georgia. I’d never seen a cockroach before, so that was a nasty shock, and I wouldn’t go outside in the dark for fear of the crunching. We spent days upon days trying to strip the dining room wallpaper with steamers and scorers and quite a few unhappy mutterings. We ended up having to take it off pretty much square inch by square inch only to find that there were at least 3 layers under the top one. It was…character building at the very least. But despite the absurd amounts of wet scrapings everywhere that her dogs were trying to eat, and our sore muscles, even at the time, we mostly laughed our way through it. But then we met the neighbors and wondered if it was really worth it after all.
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We did a cross-region move a few years ago, too. The worst part was driving the 26-foot moving van in nasty weather (we moved the day the tornado blew through Brooklyn) down I-95 with the rest of the universe, as all the other roads through NYC had been closed, with two frightened kids (“Mom, is this a tornado? Mooooommmmm, are we going to die??”) and my mother-in-law, who spent the entire 10-hour trip telling me how much she absolutely hated my new home state.
The best part of moving, though, came the morning after we arrived, when both the girls came running downstairs, having spent the night in separate rooms for the first time ever, and ran out back into the garden in their PJs, where they held hands and giggled and jumped up and down because they had their _own rooms_ and now they have a _garden_ and the neighbors have a _pool_ and OMGOMGOMG WEARESOHAPPY WELOVEITWELOVEIT! And then they came inside and we drove my in-laws to the airport.
I hate moving. The worst part is not packing although it is a pain, it’s finding enough friends to help you physically move all my stuff.
I agree that the best part is the fresh start, making a new space your home. And although painful, making the time to sort through and get rid of what you don’t want or need, is awesome once it’s all done.
Best part is the chance to make new discoveries, new friends, and see everything from a new view.
Worst part is saying goodbye.
we moved into our new house when my son was just 5 weeks old…buying our first house while having a tiny newborn and a toddler! sheesh! i don’t know how i managed to even pack!! but here we are two years later, still pulling boxes up from the basement that still need unpacking!! the good part about that is i am getting rid of ALOT, since obviously much of that stuff i obviously didn’t need for 2 years!! lol!
good luck to you in your moving adventure! its a great way to get a new start, and clean and purge stuff you don’t need!!!
There are many worsts about moving: loosing stuff(my Malabrigo clapotis still hasn’t turned up a year and a half later), someone packing your hair brush weeks before the move – why that would be an object to be put in a box, I don’t know; stuff getting broken; and the waiting and camping out on the other end until it arrives. On the good side, though there is the new adventure on the other side, and unpacking dishes and setting up just so…
The best part is probably being able to separate the wheat from the chaff- really deciding what’s valuable and worth keeping, and pitching what’s useless. The worst part is the actual moving of crap. Packing it into a van, driving it somewhere, unloading it. This past April my sister and I drove a Uhaul moving van for my mother, from Vermont to Florida. In two days. It was so stressful. My only advice is- GET A GPS.
I would love love love Cormo. I’ve often felt and admired it but have never spun it.
the worst part is getting there and finding out the previous family just took what they wanted to keep and left. leaving filth, trash and whatever else behind for you to clean up!
the best part is knowing that you are starting out with everything fresh and clean (won’t stay that way) and having a place for all your good fiber stuff…
Generally speaking, the worst part of moving is the unpacking. You’ve just spent all that time packing everything up, and then you have to reverse it and find homes for everything. In fact, I think there might still be a box or two that hasn’t been unpacked from my last move….. over 7 years ago.
The worst thing specifically happened during that same move. We closed on the house we were selling, meaning we had no place to live, and then when it came time to sign on the dotted line for the new house a couple of hours later, the seller balked. Sudden hysterics about not being able to give up the house. It was an exciting couple of hours, in a bad way.
Best thing about moving? All the possibilities.
the best part is that it gives you an excuse not to cook-how can you possibly cook while trying to move and the worst is the actual labor of moving everything and unpacking-i just end up throwing a lot of things away or giving it away to charity-i spin everyday and my mind is reeling as to what i would do with that fleece-oh the possibilities-good luck with your move susie and hope to see you at rhinebeck
I thought I had made my worst move about 8 years ago when we moved acrossed town. You see my husband is a pack rat, there really is no nice way to say it. Well he brought everything, mind you I had spent months down sizing and getting ready for a fresh start. I say I thought that would be the worst because after the move we had a long talk about cleaning up the, cover your ears, CRAP. Well the other day I went to the attic only to find more stuff and after checking the closets in his office i found reel to reel tapes (from his childhood), 8 track tapes (from his youth), albums (from college), cassette tapes (from our early years) and added to all of that VHS tapes! Now these items are great if you have a way to use them but with out the players they are just junk to me. So my next move will be the worst, unless I die first!
Well the best part of moving is getting rid of excess baggage. My personal rule is to not move anything that I won’t want for at least 5 years with only a few exceptions. For my last move, that meant I ended up with dozens of boxes of books and almost no furniture other than a brand new dining room table and a waterbed.
The worst thing is the physical packing and moving and of course realizing that the one think you need right away is always in the box at the bottom of the stack! Oh and unpacking–I hate unpacking. I actually found a box I hadn’t unpacked 10 years after my last move! Guess I didn’t really need that stuff.
The best part of moving is getting to sort through the junk piles that accumulate and getting rid of stuff you don’t really need. The worst moving story I have is when we moved to our current house and had to rip out all of the carpeting before we could move in. It was filthy and gross and I was in my first trimester with my first baby, so I was nauseous and tired. Then after that I had to pull staples out of the floor and scrub the floor down. Not much fun.
Best part of moving: It forces you to go through all of your stuff and get rid of lots of clutter.
Worst part of moving: Living without stuff that is packed.
I just recently moved. But I moved about a mile down the street, had a bunch of friends help me with the big stuff, and had about a month to move little things from my apartment to my new place. That equals a pretty easy move.
My parents though….My mom works for the government and got stationed in Europe. Before going over they had to pack up two houses, deal with two moving companies, put much of that stuff in storage, and hope to God that the other stuff actually made it to Belgium. They didn’t have a house yet. They would have to figure that out when they got over there. They didn’t really speak French either.
It all ended up working out but my dad said he was so stressed out that his mind ended up blocking out the entire first month. He barely remembered a thing except that they got settled somehow. Boy, am I glad that wasn’t me!
The worst part about moving for me would be leaving behind my family and everything that is familiar to me. We currently live on an apple orchard in what was my grandparents’ home and some day will move for me to further my career. Seeing my children have to leave my parents (their grandparents) will be one of the hardest parts. But, I know that I need to look at moving as an experience in which better things are yet to come (as the old saying goes, when one door closes another will open).
The positive side of moving would be the excitement of a new place, new adventures and new experiences!
I hope your move goes well for everyone involved.
Andrea
We moved 2 day after Christmas a few years ago. What an ordeal. We found $500 of gift cards, family and friends had given us for Christmas in a box 6 months later!! The worse part is trying to live around boxes. The best part is a new beginning – clean slate!!
Remember that big black-out in 2003? That’s when I was moving from Michigan to New York. Moving is stressful enough without having to worry about whether you’ll actually be able to get gas.
I guess that the best thing about moving is having the opportunity to go through all your stuff and (hopefully) trim it down a bit.
The best part about moving? Starting fresh in a new, unknown place.
The worst part about moving? Starting fresh in a new, unknown place.
My best and worst are usually the same. It’s a wonder I ever get anything done!
My favorite moving story is actually a joke: I hope it does not affend anyone, as I did not clean it up any.
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Aug. 12
Moved to our new home in New Jersey. It is so beautiful here. The hills are so picturesque. Can hardly wait to see them with snow covering them. God’s Country. I love it here!
Oct. 14
New Jersey is the most beautiful place on earth. The leaves are turning all different colors. I love the shades of red and orange. Went for a ride through some beautiful hills and spotted some deer. They are so graceful, certainly they are the most peaceful animals on earth. This must be Paradise…I love it here!
Nov. 11
Deer season will start soon. I can’t imagine anyone wanting to kill such an elegant creature. The very symbol of peace and tranquility. Hope it will snow soon. I love it here!
Dec 2
It snowed last night. Woke up to find everything blanketed in white. It looks like a postcard. We went outside and cleaned the snow off the steps and shoveled the driveway. We had a snowball fight (I won) and when the snowplow came by, we had to shovel the driveway again. What a beautiful place. Mother nature in perfect harmony. I love New Jersey!
Dec 12
More snow last night. I love it. The snowplow did his trick again (that rascal). A winter wonderland…I love it here!
Dec 19
More snow last night…Couldn’t get out of the driveway to get to work this time! I’m exhausted from shoveling. That damn snowplow!
Dec 22
More of that white shit fell last night. I’ve got blisters on my hands from shoveling. I think the snowplow man hides around the corner and waits until I’m done shoveling this driveway. Asshole!
Dec 25
“White Christmas” my busted ass! More friggen snow. If I ever get my hands on that son of a bitch who drives that snowplow, I swear I’ll castrate the dumb bastard. Don’t know why they don’t use more salt on the roads to melt this friggen ICE!
Dec 28
More white shit last night. Been inside since Christmas Day except for shoveling out the driveway every time “Snowplow Harry” comes by. Can’t go anywhere, cars buried in a mountain of white shit. The weatherman says to expect another 10″ of the shit tonight. Do you know how many shovels full of snow 10″ is?
Jan. 1
Happy Damn New Year, the weatherman was wrong (again). We got 34″ of the white shit this time. At this rate it won’t melt before the 4th of July. The snowplow got stuck up the road, and the shithead had the balls to come to the door and ask to borrow my shovel. After I told him I’ve broken 6 shovels already, shoveling all the shit he pushed into the driveway, I broke my last one over his damn head!
Jan. 4
Finally got out of the house today. Went to the store to get food and on the way back, a damn deer ran in front of the car and I hit the bastard. Did about $3,000 worth of damage to the car. Those damn beasts ought to be killed. Wish the hunters had killed them all last November.
May 3
Took the car to the garage in town. Would you believe the thing is rotting out from all that damn salt they keep dumping all over the road? Car looks like a piece of shit!
May 10
Moved to Florida! I can’t imagine why anyone in their damn mind would ever want to live in that God forsaken State of New Jersey!
Moving sounds like such an adventure to me. That may be because I’ve not had to do it since I was a college-age kid. Now that my pack-rat self has filled up our little house it may be different. Thinking back to the moves when I was younger, I’d say the best part is finding things you’d forgotten about and then four months later when you finally unpack that last box, finding them again. The worst part is having to pare down the stash; it drives me nuts to part with the things I “might need someday!” My last move with my parents I packed my diploma at the bottom of a box of crafting supplies -surely Dad wouldn’t make me leave that behind. Fortunately, we ended up with plenty of room and that ploy was unnecessary, but I was prepared anyway
This is a fabulous giveaway. I’ve actually been spinning for longer than I’ve been knitting, and just the thought of plunging my hands into a luscious bag of cormo & cormo/mohair makes me feel a bit giddy. I’ll write about this on my blog.
Thanks
Moved my business once. ONCE! Never again. We rented a large U-Haul truck and filled it three times, plus filled my station wagon at least 8 times. Got everything moved to the new place and started setting it all up. Had a violent thunderstorm that night and came in to sopping wet fabric everywhere. Of course it was just about enough damage for my deductible to cover. So no help there. We had put new carpet down before moving in, too, that was quite wet. Landlord agreed to put a new roof on, but wouldn’t pay for any damage. Wouldn’t even deduct it from future rent. Anyway, when we opened again two days later we had a wet, musty smell in the store. I went through about a dozen cans of lysol and glade air fresheners. They helped a bit, but it was at least a week of drying out before the mustiness went away.
The worst part about moving is the unpacking. The packing and the actual moving don’t bother me as much as the unpacking. I hate it!
My husband actually has a great moving story, he was moving into a new home post-divorce. His mother (bless her heart) had come down to “help” him. He had hourly-paid movers working in South Carolina heat. In the midst of all the loading/unloading and what not, his mother-in a fit of OCDness- stops everything and demands that he tell her what color contact paper he wants to line the kitchen cabinets with!
I hope your move goes as smoothly as a move can possibly go!
It’s got be packing. Last time we moved, we paid to have the packing done for us. It was well worth it especially as I had a 6 month old baby at the time. This time around – we’re in the process of buying a house – we once again have a 6 month old baby but we’re renting at the moment and have to give 3 months notice so we can have an overlap between the two houses which is just as well because there’s a lot of renovation to be done.
Having moved 6 times in the last 7 years, I feel ya.
For me, I hate cleaning. You’ve got to clean every spec and inch and little bit of the the place you’re leaving behind. Which means leaving it better than when you came, so that hopefully (for me at least) you can get your deposit back!
The best is discovering odds and ends within you’re stuff, lurking deep, deep down that you thought you’d lost forever. Yay, you do have that other earring!
best part: purging stuff you really don’t need
worst part: if things get broken or lost in the move
The worst part of moving is having to clean all your dishes before you put them away. When I just moved my dishes had been in storage for a long time while we lived with my parents so everything had to be washed and dried and put away- it was endless.
The best part of moving for me was having my own space, not having to worry that someone was going to eat all of my cereal and not replace it, etc. or that my little sister was going to steal my make up for the day without telling me. Everything is just where I leave it and it is awesome. Also we got some lovely new furniture to go in our new place!
Moving is a nightmare no matter how you slice it. Everything you own in a box or bag. Here is my Moving Day story. We moved to our house on Memorial Day weekend. Went to rent a moving van no dice…no moving vans for that weekend. We could have waited but we would have had no help. Had to move ended up with a trailer rented from a friend of a friend. My DH went to get our bed and returned six hours later. I was not a happy camper. Needless to say there was an arguement that neither of us have ever repeated. Thank goodness. Then it started to rain and continued to rain for the next month. But in the end we got moved and none the worse for wear. We are very happy on our little farmstead.
I have moved my sister now FOUR times in the last five years, so there’s a lot of moving mojo over here. The best part? Getting to change the layout or colors or whatever of any rooms you didn’t like in the last place. She loves getting everything unpacked and arranged…and then changing it. lol!
The worst part? Oh Lord, trying to find enough people to help so it doesn’t feel like absolute torture!! I didn’t mind the unloading of the van, but loading it up just killed me. It sucked. All 4 times.
The worst part of moving is the boxes of random stuff that’s left over after unpacking…why did I keep all that anyway? Some of my stuff is still in boxes waiting, and it’s been three years! Winning some nice fiber might motivate me enough to empty a few!
The best part of moving is getting rid of all the stuff you’ve hoarded for years!! The worst is packing everything up. My brother used a packing service and sat back and watched while they put all his belongings in boxes and moved it. May be pricier, but worth not having the aggravation of doing it yourself!
So, we bought this house. And by “we” I mean “he,” but we’re married now so what’s his is mine, right? Haha, guess who forgot that prenup!
Okay so seriously, so we bought this house, and the day came to move into it (which, coincidentally was 2 years ago Tuesday). We got all our stuff and all our friends together and we drove to the new house. We were all excited. We parked, took a brief moment just to look at it, a REAL HOUSE, and opened the door to get out of the car.
That’s when The Smell hit us. Like dog poo times one hundred. Um. Um, what the eff is that? And why isn’t it going away when I walk clear to the other side of the yard? Then Linda and Louie Ragucci came over from across the street to introduce themselves (I swore they said their names were Linda and Louie Fettucini or Fiduciary or something, but I was wrong). We thanked them for their warm welcome, then politely asked what the HELL was up with the stench? “Oh! That’s just The PIggery over in Tewksbury. Sometimes it smells like that here. Sometimes for weeks on end! It’s awful!”
I just about died. This was something the seller’s agent had somehow forgotten to mention.
However, we’ve honestly never really smelled it again. That was the worst it’s ever been in 2 years here- about once every 6 months or so I’ll catch a slight whiff, but it instantly goes away. I think it was because it was an unseasonably warm October day.
And that’s my story. Hopefully when you move into your new farm you won’t smell “a piggery.”
Love,
Jenny
I moved my household and four cats to a city two hours’ drive away. My then-husband was already working in the new city and staying in a hostel (we were broke), so I loaded up the moving van myself, with help from a friend just for the large pieces of furniture, over the course of a day or two. I didn’t get an elevator on service, and it was coming up on Labour Day weekend with two other moves happening, so it was really luck whenever I got a chance to take an elevator’s worth of stuff down from my 4th floor apartment.
On the last trip down, I put the cat carriers in the elevator and turned to get my bag. The elevator doors started closing and I stuck my hand in to keep it open… the doors closed firmly on my fingers. I was gasping in pain and calling for help at 7:30 on a Sunday morning, having been up for 4 hours already, and no one was coming to help me. My cats, not in a happy place either, were yowling away in their carriers in the elevator. I wasn’t sure if I was going to come away with my fingers! But eventually I wiggled them out (they didn’t feel right for weeks) and the doors closed. I took the other elevator down, met the cats in the lobby, and loaded them into the cab of the U-Haul – stacked two high next to me.
Before I got out to the highway, one of the cats on the bottom pooped in his carrier. I pulled over and cleaned things out as best I could while ensuring the truck cab and the carrier were never open at the same time.
I was exhausted and it was the first time I’d driven in Ontario. I started going west when I should have gone east, and it took me about 10 minutes to figure it out. I got myself re-oriented and made it into my new (big) city, then took another wrong turn before I got where I was going.
I pulled up to my new apartment. I helped my husband unload the big articles of furniture – in the rain. Everything got wet, and we were moving into a basement apartment that had humidity issues to begin with.
Once we got the big stuff in, I didn’t even wait for the couch cushions. I curled up on the cushionless couch and pretty much passed out while my husband brought everything else in.
Since then, I’ve hired movers.
The best part of moving for me is the excitement of a new place. If it’s bigger than I have more space for my wheels and yarn.
The worst part is all the work involved in packing and unpacking. Trying to be organized with the packing and then trying to find where things are as you unpack and organize the new place.
The last time I moved when when we got married and I moved into new husband’s house, still filled with stuff from the rest of his family, he had inherited the house from his parents. So moving my stuff in included cleaning out stuff left over from years ago. I can’t imagine what it will be like if we ever sell the house and have to clean out all the stuff we’ve accumulated from 30 years of marriage and two kids. At least sheep don’t come with duffel bags full of stuff.
Best thing about moving: It’s like having a fresh start.
Worst thing about moving: Discovering how much junk I actually have.
First off I’ve moved more than 40 times. I have the actual mechanics of it down to a science. However, this last move was both the best and the worst of all of them.
We had a 3600 square foot home and knew we would be buying a house 2500 miles away that was much smaller so over the year of selling the house we downsized. I always figured we’d have the standard 30 day closing and I would have a massive garage sale to get rid of small bits right before the big move. Who wants to move every little thing when it’s a self move and you are going 2500 miles? Best laid plans…. We got the offer on the house, accepted it a day later and had FIVE days to be out. This meant moving every little thing, closing and moving my business as well and shoveling as much stuff as possible to friends who took the overflow. No garage sale would be possible.
To this day I have no idea how my friends managed to cram so much stuff into a 24 foot Budget truck and a Suburban. At the other end we needed a 30 foot storage unit!
The sheer exhaustion from moving 2500 miles with this sort of pressure, unloading into a storage unit and then moving it all again 100 miles from said storage unit 30 days later made things a bit fuzzy all last autumn.
The best parts of the move was the knowing that I was going home. New England is my home and I didn’t realize how much I had missed it for 25 years until I found myself in tears in on the second to last day of our cross country trek. They were tears of joy but seeing the green, green, green fields as we got closer and closer to Vermont made me cry knowing that I would be here to appreciate the lushness of it all with regular water and the spectacular foliage.
While moving itself does suck and I tell everyone I would not do the 5 day and out move again I have to say that once it was all said and done and I was home again that it was worth every miserable moment.
Oh… the thing I hated worst was that for some reason while we were filling the storage unit, just the two of us, the black flies decided I was prime rib! That part I can do without and still hate!
The best part of moving is the excitement of all the new things- people, places, food, LYS.
The worst part is the fear – of the unknown, of the lack of control, of the things that will get broken or go missing.
I have no hell-stories of my own experiences with moving, but for me the worst part was always packing!
The best part, though, was looking at the brand new space with most of my stuff put away, and thinking “hey, I live here” for the first time. And then collapsing.
You want a moving hell story? I’ve got one for you!
My Fiancee & I bought our first house together last year, and it was my first time moving out of my parents house.
We searched for a house for months and months, doing marathon weekends of showings. Most of what we saw was awful or mediocre. We saw about 8 places that we liked, though. We put in offers on all 8 of them, at different times throughout the process, of course. We had a seller take the property off the market after only 1 week of it being on, deciding that she “just wasn’t ready to sell it.” Um..okay? We had multiple sellers just disappear off of the face of the planet, totally. After weeks of trying to contact them via phone, email, and fax, we gave up.
We finally got under contract for a house in early September of last year. That’s when the trouble really began…
We were preapproved for our loan, and had all of our paperwork in way before we even had a house picked out. Suddenly, the bank lost all of our paperwork. We sent it to them multiple times through multiple channels, to no avail. Our closing had to be postponed twice due to this bank. Even our local loan officer was so fed up that she quit after we were able to move our loan to a different bank. We finally took all of our paperwork to another mortgage company, where a friend of our (awesome!) realtor’s did our mortgage paperwork in just 3 days.
We were finally ready to close…When it was postponed, again. This time, the selling bank didn’t have the work done on the house that was required by our contract. They finished it, and we were going to close!
But it was postponed again. The person at the selling bank that was supposed to sign the papers was on vacation. Okay, 1 more week.
And it was postponed again. They never sent the right papers. And again…this time because they needed to change the title to a different (subsidiary) bank before they could sell the house to us. After having our closing postponed two months, we were finally able to sign on a Thursday in November, shortly before Thanksgiving.
All was well and we were ready to finally move in…When my fiancee was laid off not 24 hours after we signed the papers.
Our amazing Realtor told us it was the hardest sale he’d ever had in over 20 years of doing his job. At least we got the really difficult one out early, right?
So, that is our hellish story of our move. He was able to find a new job within a month, and luckily our first payment was differed until January, as well as we had plenty in savings to keep us going. This, of course, drained our savings and we’ve been playing catch up ever since, but now, 1 year later, we’re starting to get back on our feet and caught up.
I’m posting a link on my twitter to this blog, so everyone can get in on the nightmares of moving fun!
Well since we’ve just moved last month and I’m still trying to figure out where to put everything, I feel comfortable answering this one!
Best: we moved to a new farm as well and the best part are the fields in the fall. It is so peaceful and quiet. Anytime I need a break from the chaos of the move, I call our dog Hunter, and head outside for a walk. I’ve been walking a lot.
Worst: For us, it’s living in an old farm house. It’s a very solid house, but not quite up to date: we have to turn all the lights off in the kitchen to run the microwave, I’m gearing up to tackle removing at least 5 layers of wallpaper from the whole house (including ceilings), we’re not sure if the sinks and tub are actually draining into the septic or a dry well (which causes interesting smells to burp up a few times a day), and the dryer that came with the house is from 1956 and gives my clothes more of a sauna than an actual drying (I’ve gotten very familiar with the clothes line). And did I mention that we have three kids and I’m expecting to go into labor with our fourth any second?
It’s been quite an adventure
Amanda
PS: I’ve emailed my fiber friends about the contest!
The best part of moving is that for once the house is clean! And the worst? When we moved from Seattle to Denver in ‘63 my parents waited and waited to hear from our moving van driver. Three weeks later the company called to tell us the driver had abandoned the trailer rig in SE Wyoming. Lovely. We eventually got our furniture.
I moved a lot growing up so me and my mom got it down to an art. So much to the point that when I moved to NV with my husband all we would let him do is watch since we had it covered. Poor Guy.
I think the best thing about moving is finding things you forgot about, it’s always amazing what lurks in boxes, drawers, and closets that we forget about. I think when packing I spend more time just looking through stuff I haven’t seen in ages then actually packing. The worst part? The aching back. My stubborn bleep insisted on packing and moving almost all of our stuff on my own our last move since I could get it done while my husband was at work. Yeah, I hurt. And hurt lol
Oooh, I re-tweeted this! Awesome giveaway!
Worst part of moving? Packing! Cleaning! Realizing you have WAY too much stuff accumulated. But on the plus side – it gives you a chance to reduce, donate, and reorganize – a fresh start.
Good luck!
For a while I moved to a new location every few years and was able to keep the accumulation of stuff down then I settled and bought a house. Over the years I have thought it would be a great idea to go through the house as if I was packing to move and clear it out like I used to. However without the necessity it never seems to get done. This may stimulate me to start with one room and do just that. The best part of moving is getting down to what is really important in your life and making new friends. The worst part is being distant from current friends.
The best part of moving is that it forces you to go through your stuff and weed out. The worst part of moving is trying to find a spot for everything you still have left – especially when the new house is smaller!
The best part of moving to a brand new space and getting to set everything up differently and redecorating. Decluttering and getting rid of things that you should of a long time ago. The bad part is the packing and hauling!
I just moved in April 2008. I have not unpacked fully yet. The best thing? The freedom to load the trailer with crap that accumulated for 11 years and take it to Goodwill, the dump or wherever else it belonged – besides my new house. Lots of stuff purged. The worst? My brothers and sister helping me pack (I had a back injury and couldn’t do a lot) and helping themselves to whatever looked good that they thought I wouldn’t miss. The kid’s state quarter collection, my pearls from my mom, hubby’s Christmas gift from his aunt, prescription pain meds, etc. Yeah, I am never going to accept help from them again.
At one period in my life, I moved 8 times in 7 years. One move was cross country, and that was the hardest – in regards to prep – because of the distance, and well… if I forgot something, there was no going back to retrieve it.
My sad story was that the FIRST time I moved in the 8 move period, it was because of a divorce. My ex was so mad that he purged a bunch of stuff, one being our Christmas box from the basement. All the Xmas ordaments from my childhood, gifts from my grandparents, crocheted snowflakes from my great aunt, and all my child’s handmade ordaments – gone. I don’t do Christmas anymore. This is one (of many) reasons.
So the good thing about moving? Fresh starts! The excitement of discovery. The ability to see with new eyes what people around you see as commonplace. It’s a great place. The wonder of it all.
The worst – well, you’re doing it.
Enjoy the ride. Be in the moment. Hug your sheep when things get tough. And spoil yourself at night with a soak with a big, hot bubble bath. But don’t fall asleep in there!
Ohhh I once had to move my stuff and my boyfriend’s stuff out of our apartment into a house we were moving into all by myself. He hadn’t packed or anything and then got called away to work the day we were supposed to go. Luckily, I had a credit card so I could pay someone to help load the big stuff, ugh. What a nightmare!
I did tell all of my spinning friends about your giveaway this morning!
having just moved, this is a good topic for me
worst part: packing, especially when you grew out of your old place about 1 year after moving in, yet still stayed there for 4 more years. it was horrible and cramped (mostly with books, yarn and wool strangely enough…) and super difficult to clean anything. on top of that my poor husband ha to do all the packing because i was 5 months pregnant, and STILL hadn’t gotten over the morning sickness. luckily our families were super helpful and came over to schlep stuff around when it came time to put everything in the moving van and haul it to our new apartment, 4 hours away. unfortunately, we had underestimated the size of truck we needed and had to leave all our book cases behind. (have i mentioned that we have A LOT of books?) so even though we’ve been in the new place for about two months, the spare room is still packed full of boxes of books, because we have no where to put them.
best part: starting over fresh.
unpacking was great because i could look at everything and choose the best spot for it to live, and i got to revisit a lot of old friends i discovered while unpacking, that i had forgotten i had.
our new place is so much bigger and airier than the old, with none of the problems. PLUS we have a dishwasher!
oh you poor dear! moving is trying under the best circumstances…i last moved 3 1/2 years ago. i had a 6 month old and a 2 1/2 year old. our movers insisted they could fit all our things into one 12′ truck. i assured them that they could not. they didn’t believe me and didn’t bring a bigger truck. i was right. but, they had another job booked after ours so they dropped us off in our new hudson river village (moved from brooklyn) with 2/3′ds of our stuff, did another move, and brought the rest around 2am. exhausting, esp with two little ones! at least they did bring it as soon as they could, but if they’d listened to me in the first place…!
Books. Books are the worst part. I read, a lot. And have trouble letting go – what if I want to REREAD it later!? Because I frequently do. Which has led to a personal library of – no exaggeration – in excess of four thousand books. Four thousand HEAVY books. That all had to be packed, and moved, and moved again, and then unpacked. I don’t think my back has recovered to this day.
And then there was the pipe – we went away for the weekend in midst of the moving frenzy, and then what do we come back home to? A flooded house, insanely warped floors, and essentially all the plumbing in the house needing to be replaced. While we’re trying to pack and move. NOT pretty.
Did I mention that I was pregnant too? And had just started a new job three hours away? Really not a fun time.
Oh, I’m sorry you’re in moving hell.
I think the best part about moving is the motivation it gives you to get rid of stuff you know you don’t want to keep. You look at it, and you say, “I’m never, EVER going to use this. I don’t even like it. Why would I pack it, put it in a van, haul it across the country, unpack it, and put it right back up in the attic??” And then you pitch it!
The worst part is packing and carrying boxes (especially carrying boxes of books!) But the best part might be unpacking and making everything neat and organized in your new place. It’s about the only time my place is ever organized. lol. Good luck to you!
The Best: It’s very liberating to get rid of things that you really don’t need.
The Worst: If you have organizational skills like mine, trying to find that pair of shoes or kitchen utensil or bedding that you know you packed *somewhere*, but in which of the several dozen boxes?
The best part of moving is when you are done packing and ready to head out.
The worst part is unpacking and finding out that you now have too much stuff for your new place. Then you have to figure out what to do with the packing materials.
My worst moving story is when I moved up here to Maine. The movers showed up on packing day and said that our stuff wasn’t organized well enough, and refused to move our belongings. So I had to rush around to change my arrangements to do a DIY move. The first truck I got was way too small so I took that one back. The next truck they tried to give me had a tire that was flat and had come off the rim. The third truck seemed to be fine. We got some help packed everything up ourselves and got underway.
The truck was a 24 diesel, and it was a real gutless wonder. It managed to get all the way from Florida to New Hampshire where it died on the side of the highway (at 2;00 A.M.). They finally got a service guy out to me about an hour later, and the truck was like new the last 150 miles to Maine. Then we couldn’t get into our new house right away so we had to put everything in a storage unit, and our Realtor managed to find us an apartment to rent for a couple of weeks until we could close on our house and move in. My attic is still crammed full of boxes 6 years later.
I’m currently apartment hunting in New York City right now, and it’s no picnic…
The best part is just the feeling of a new start, all from scratch, and new beginnings…
The worst? I mean I dislike the massive physical effort (we’re probably moving from walk up to walk up – not fun) but at this moment, it’s the ridiculous terms that the agents come up with to cover up flaws in places – it’s not a “cozy box apartment with efficient kitchen!” it’s a tiny shoe box with a hot plate. ARG!!
The best part – fabulous movers (Brothers Movers in suburban Philadelphia, PA). Two trucks, 8 guys & 10 hours to load, move & unload, all the while being polite & pleasant and NOTHING broken.
The worst part – packing & unpacking and the amount of take-out food you eat during the process. Yuck.
The Best part of Moving is the excitement of the new place and the ability of looking through your things and ask, do I really need this? lol! The worst part is Packing , labeling, Thanks and it will be over before you know it.
The worst part of moving: finding out how much stuff you’ve accumulated since the last move. Wondering if you’re doing the right thing by moving somewhere new. Having the moving van GET LOST and end up days and days later in a state two states away… whoops.
The best thing: A fresh start, a new adventure.
OH, how I would love to have some lovely new fiber to spin!
The one time I let someone else pack my framed paintings one broke. The painting wasn’t damaged but somehow I never re-framed it. So, I think the worst thing is if something you really care about is lost or damaged. Luckily that doesn’t happen with every move.
The best part is being forced to clean out and discard (or recycle) stuff that you haven’t used in years, stuff that has been taking up space but isn’t being used or appreciated. And sometimes stuff that really is garbage.
Best part of moving: getting a new house out of the deal. (loving the pics of your new place btw!)
Worst part of moving: I own a piano. Need I say more? It’s been moved a few times and really shows the scars of the last move, which I paid $250 for the man to put a giant (4″ long by 1/2″ deep) mark on the side. No one has ever seen the mark but me, it’s on the least visible part of the piano, and near the bottom, so you wouldn’t look there… but that isn’t really the point is it?
Best of luck with your move- we’re all excited for you to start this new chapter and I’m sure you’ll find lots of happiness in the new farm.
Moving from Michigan to southern Texas with four children, a collie, a cat and pulling a u-haul was an adventure.
Ok, second try now! Moving definitely sucks. In December 2007 we moved from our house of 16 years onto a 35-foor sailboat with our two daughters, aged 15 and 13. Tried to sell the house, but couldn’t. Lived on board for 6 months, then moved into in-laws house for one month. Moved back to Minnesota to a rental while our house was also being rented. Lived there for 10 months, tried to sell the house again during that time to no avail. Moved back into our house in May, only to find out how much our house had aged in the the 18 months we had let family stay in it. Painter’s here today to continue fixes!
Best part of moving is cleaning out all the clutter you tend to accumulate. Worst part is having to sort through all the clutter you accumulate. : D
Now that I’m finally in my own home, I feel like I need to move just to clean the house out!
After 17 moves I am a pro, and look forward to moving as I clean out stuff, then. We have retired, so no moves in our future. The bad, leaving friends behind; the good, a new adventure! Attitude is everything.
The best thing about moving is that it forces you to actually throw out all of the crap that you usually hang onto because you ‘might need it someday’. The worst thing about moving is that you usually accidentally throw out some thing you do need in the process.
The best part of moving is exploration and discovery – getting to know the quirks of your new home and the layout of your new neighborhood. It’s sort of a domestic Indiana Jones feeling.
The worst part is physically moving. Packing, hauling, unpacking, reorganizing… it’s exhausting.
The best part of moving is starting over, something new, something different. Being able to be in a different space is invigorating.
The worst part about moving is learning where to find your favorite loaf of bread, veggies, farmer’s market, Chinese take-out, etc. But that’s part of the fun of the hunt too. The other worst part is those odd and ends that en up in the last few boxes, uuggghhh.
I think the worst and best parts of moving are the same. Purging and organizing – all best and worst. The very very worst *Grin* is cleaning the old place – and cleaning the new place before you unpack. The very best of moving – getting to organize your home without having to shuffle every thing from one room to a holding room (and it lanquishes there for months…until you realize that guests are coming in 8 days and that ‘holding’ room is really the ‘guest’ room!) Another plus for moving – painting! Though not the actual physical labor of painting, but the fact that you get to start over with whatever colors are your favorites now.
Oh my. I’ve lived in this house 33 years. I’m a packrat. The worse part of moving was always deciding what to take & what to leave behind (auction, yard sale, ebay, charity etc.). Even worse than than is discovering DH let people rummage in the trunk that was absolutely NOT FOR SALE, and Mama’s favorite dolly (antique by now and worth $500 at a conservative guess) got sold for a couple of dollars. Can’t fix it now, so let it go, still in love with the exasperating man. It’s worth a few tears, but not a fight.
The best part of moving: new space, having to go through all my stuff, ending up with a lighter load and having a chance for said DH to get creative with the new space and some inspired remodeling. A chance for me to get creative with the landscape without mourning the plants that have to go to make room for the new. I did mention I’m a packrat? That applies to outside the house as well as in.
I’ll follow your blog & link in a couple of my groups on ravelry.
I have moved many many many times and have more stories than you have room here. All fact. I swear. You can’t make this stuff up. The most memorable move was moving from up-state NY to California in January of 1986, which was more like a relay race than a move. My husband was already in California working, which left me to pack the household, sell a boat (right, in New York in January) and relocate some essentials, a full grown Airedale, Miniature Schnauzer, the cat and me. Our cars were off by rail so I rented a station wagon (I wanted a van,but they didn’t have one) and drove all of us through a snow storm to the Detroit area to say good bye to family there. Because I didn’t have a van, I had a really hard time getting all the stuff I had to take, including the pets in the station wagon. To make things fit the animal crates had to be taken apart. The only space left for the Airedale was the front passenger seat. Every time I got out of the car for a pit stop he would promptly assume a position in the driver’s seat and I would have to wrestle him back over to his assigned seating. He was so big I had to get out of the car open the passenger door and coax him over…before I could run back and get in the driver’s side he would be back in the driver’s seat again. At one rest area after watching this routine for 2 or 3 tries, some stranger felt so sorry for me he offered his aid and actually held the dog in the passenger side while I got back in the car. It got to be comical after a while…sort of. Normally this would have been a 6 hour trip. Between wrestling with the dog over who was going to drive and the lousy winter weather, it took over 12 hours. We safely arrived, said our good byes and prepared to fly out the next day. This happened to be Super Bowel Sunday with a departure time during the middle of game (no wonder we didn’t have trouble getting the flight). We left early for the hour long drive to Detroit airport because the Airedale was too big, according to the airline, and had to fly “freight” which meant dropping him off at the freight terminal rather than the passenger terminal. When we arrived at the freight terminal all attendants were busy watching the game and not paying attention to the dog or my instructions. I was so fearful he would be left on the loading dock in the sub-zero, snowy, windy weather I refused to leave him there. We proceeded to the passenger terminal, which was nearly deserted. I had to go inside and literally grab a Skycap away from the football game to help me with the 3 animal crates, 4 suitcases and 2 large cardboard boxes. I tipped him $60 (in 1986 money) to make sure the pets were not left on a loading dock and got on the plane safely…which they did. The flight to Sacramento was uneventful, however when we got there we couldn’t land because of fog and were diverted to San Francisco airport. Once on the ground, the airline provided a minibus to drive us to Sacramento, about 8 people. By this time it was nearly midnight and we had been traveling for over 7 hours. The driver of the minibus looked at me and my menagerie and told me the pets couldn’t go, they would be put on a plane in the morning. Knowing full well they would be unattended overnight, I refused to allow this and asked for a hotel room, a rental car or to be allowed to bring them. Meanwhile, back in Sacramento my husband was waiting and heard from the airport people that passengers from the flight would be coming by ground, but some lady with dogs was holding things up. Well, he figured out who that was. Back in San Francisco, the minibus driver polled the other passengers to see if they minded the dogs coming with them on the bus. They were so fed-up they were at the “WHAT EVER” stage and agreed. We loaded the cat and the Miniature Schnauzer in the back on top of the other luggage but the Airedale’s crate wouldn’t fit. The driver and I tired every imaginable way and no dice. Finally, with the permission of the other passengers, we took the huge crate apart, wedged it in between the driver and the door, and they allowed the Airedale to lay in the isle for the 1 1/2 hour drive. Some guy from New York City was bringing bagels to a friend and the poor hungry Airedale tried to put his nose in this guys bag of bagels the whole trip. We finally arrived in Sacramento in the wee hour of the morning. That should be the end of the story, happy ending and all that, right……NOT. We drove the 45 minutes to our new house and first thing is to let the pets out. They had been in crates for way too long. Luckily we had a fenced in yard, so while they were outside I was setting up the cats litter box, trying to find the food and water bowls, etc. when I hear a huge SPLASH!!! The Schnauzer, not being familiar with the new back yard, had walked right into the swimming pool. I jump in the pool to save the dog (remember it is January) drag her out and we dripped into the house. I tore through the boxes for towels and the suitcases for dry clothes. We get dried off and finally hit the floor to sleep….because the furniture hadn’t arrived, of course. This may have been the longest 2 days of my life! I could go on to tell you of the move from California to New Orleans in the middle of summer….also with the pets…..but that’s a whole different story.
the worst? the packing. it completely goes against the way my brain works! it seems not to be even possible. having all your stuff (like, you know, all of your yarn, fiber and fabric) in mouse-infested storage for nine months isn’t fun either. but the best part is moving into your dream house, and beginning your ‘future’, where everything’s going to be better!
and i blogged about the giveaway over at http://hodgepodgefarm.net!
A procastinator always hates moving
How many times have I been up all night the day before moving packing those last boxes. Had high hopes of tossing and sorting and that all goes out the window when time slips away.
No true horror stories to rival anything already here. I moved myself into a small apartment in Boston, hauling all my stuff up three floors (no elevator), including mattress, dresser, etc. When time came to move out, my company hired movers for me (yay!).
Two guys showed up and were not amused at the lack of elevator. At one point, one of them tried to judge whether he could lower stuff out the window but, thankfully abandoned that idea. Imagine a grizzled gruff old Bostonian with an ancient dresser strapped to his back, swearing down flights of stairs.
I think the young kid didn’t do much and I wasn’t allowed to (for their insurance purposes). Fun times.
The best part of moving: starting fresh–being able to take a new space and make it your own.
The worst part of moving: omg, where do I begin? What I really don’t like about moving is how everything expands as you’re packing it. A kitchen cabinet will ultimately take 50% more boxes than you think it will, and when you extend that to the entire household, packing takes forever! That’s probably the most annoying part for me (other than cleaning up after packing and the endless unpacking).
best part – first night of sleep in your own bed in a new place
worst – that my stuff seems to breed when I’m not looking, because there is not way I have bought all this. where did it come from?
I had a job for a little over two years that I had to move every 6 weeks or so. Try keeping your life packed and simple enough that you could move ALL OF THE TIME. It was not fun after awhile. I had to buy extra trunks just for my craft supplies! Yes big huge trunks. Boxes would not last long enough. And as soon as I finally learned the layout of the land we were moving again. And the vicious cycle continued.
I haven’t ever moved yet, so I can’t tell any stories. Can I enter anyway?
The best part of moving is that while you pack, you get a really good look at all that fiber you’ve accumulated — inspring!
The worse part of moving is that while you pack, you get a really good look at all that fiber you’ve accumulated — scary!
Good luck with your own move!
The best part of moving is that while you pack, you get a really good look at all that fiber you’ve accumulated — inspring!
The worst part of moving is that while you pack, you get a really good look at all that fiber you’ve accumulated — scary!
Good luck with your own move!
The worst move for me was when I was 15 we(my family) were flying out to California instead of driving since it was just my siblings, my mom and I heading out there, my dad was already there. Our plane was cancelled, at the time we had our dog KC with us. The only flight from the airline available for us to take was in the morning, which meant we were going to have to stay at the airport because there wasn’t any hotels that weren’t going to charge us double for KC to stay in the room with us. Luckily we found a flight from a different airline that was leaving the airport that night. We got to California at 3am in the morning, and got to the hotel we stayed in a couple of days before moving into our house at around 5 or 6 in the morning.
The worst part about moving is travelling across country with pets.
The best part of moving is probably unpacking and having everything nice and organized until the major cleaning or move.
Thank your lucky stars you’re not moving overseas….We “moved” overseas-lock, stock and barrell for a five year stay! It took three months to pack up. It took 6 months to deliver our belongings after we arrived and then, we had about six boxes that never ever arrived….our clothing! On the way back to the USA after five years, everything arrived after a couple of weeks, but some of our china was broken and all of our personal photographs were missing. No more moving for me if I can help it!!!
Best wishes for a very smooth and un-eventful (except good stuff) move!!
Thank your lucky stars you’re not moving overseas….We “moved” overseas-lock, stock and barrell for a five year stay! It took three months to pack up. It took 6 months to deliver our belongings after we arrived and then, we had about six boxes that never ever arrived….our clothing! On the way back to the USA after five years, everything arrived after a couple of weeks, but some of our china was broken and all of our personal photographs were missing. No more moving for me if I can help it!!!
Best wishes for a very smooth and un-eventful (except good stuff) move!!
Pam
The best part of moving is definitely decorating the new place! Selecting paints, colors, furniture, etc =). I like to decorate and add furniture before I move all my stuff in – but of course that’s less possible if the place is across the country.
But in general I hate moving – I always pack stuff and unpack and lose/can’t find half the things I packed! I don’t have any moving horror stories, but one of my friends’ moving vans was rear-ended – and the damage was so bad that only half the stuff in there was salvageable =(.
I definitely can’t compete with some of these, but moving a house full of stuff with a small truck and trailer isn’t really the most fun either. Good things about moving- finding new places you absolutely love to be whether it’s new shops, or nice picnic spots, or nommy places to eat- at least finding that is something to look forward to. And I’ll keep my fingers crossed that your move all goes as planned
posted this on my twitter page too
The best part of moving is sloughing off the old and predictable and moving somewhere fresh and surprising.
The worst part is that, no matter how well you pack, you will always desperately need something that’s been put at the bottom of the box at the far back.
My worst moving story is when we left California. My husband drove out to the East Coast first, leaving me with an infant, dog, and most of the house to pack up. I bought some chocolate (the good dark kind) to help me through, left it on a stack of boxes, and my 10-pound dog stole it. One emergency drive to the drugstore later, my dog is vomiting up about 9 pounds worth of unidentifiable yellow foam, the place still needs to be packed, the baby is…well, still a baby.
Best part of moving: Having a good opportunity to get rid of a bunch of stuff you don’t really need but have been hanging onto anyway.
Best part of moving = the opportunity for a fresh start. Worst part of moving = that it piles another full-time job on top of already busy lives.
{{Hugs}} to you. Moving is hell, and every time we do it I swear we will never do it again. But eventually our wander-lust and need to start fresh take over, and we do it anyway. It is kind of like childbirth – you forget how painful it is until it is time to do it again.
I know how rough moving can be- and I’ve only had to deal with at most 2 people, 1 dog and 2 cats! I can’t imagine everything you have to coordinate to get moved! I’m glad we haven’t had a lot of animals to arrange moving for- but we have moved 12 times in 14 years (not military). I have 2 bad stories- one was when we were moving out of our first house and heading from Ohio to North Carolina. I have had a curio cabinet for several years at that point, and when it was being taken down the front stairs it went top first, so the mirror in the bottom slipped and shattered everywhere. The mirror still hasnt been replaced after 12 years! The other bad move was leaving north carolina. Our studio piano either got dropped or wasn’t secured inside the van, or something hit it, and the sound board cracked. We did have insurance on it, but we also had mucho moving bills, so after 10 years, we still haven’t been able to replace the piano.
We’ve been in our home now for 3+ years and still have boxes that have been packed since our first move. I do recommend scheduling a massage before you go, and after you get there. My other recommendation is a sleep number mattress! So easy to set up, and oh so comfortable!
The hardest part of moving, other than just the general stress of the change. . . Hmmm, Oh, you mean when they show up with someone else’s things? Or when they finally arrive with your things, and the most valuable, irreplaceable things are heavily damaged? No, that never happened to me
But the best part is making your new place *your* home.
Worst thing about moving? Boxes of rocks & boxes of books do not make your friends love you more. Next time (oh, PLEASE don’t let there be a next time!) there will be a higher boxes-of-yarn-to-boxes-of-rocks ratio.
I work for a moving company, and I must say, some days the worst thing about moving is, well, working for a moving company. I’ve read through some of the stories below, and I know how harrowing it can be to entrust your things to a stranger, let alone a whole set of them. Unfortunately, sometimes accidents do happen, from the small to the huge. (One of our trucks once ran into a bridge in a rainstorm and everything in the trailer got wet when it was opened up like a tin can.) But if you think it’s bad that the movers pack your bathroom trash and wrap your toothpicks, just know, and I can tell you this from personal experience, that there is someone out there who complained that the movers did NOT do that, and that is why they do! It’s a crazy business, sometimes.
The best part of moving? You know, I love moving, and although I work for a moving company for the last 10 years, I’ve never actually used one to move, including when I bought my house 8 years ago, when I was pregnant. It can be SO stressful, and when it is 105 degrees outside, and you are five months pregnant, AND you and your husband are doing everything without any help at all (except borrowing a pickup from your parents) it can seem a little overwhelming and a LOT uncomfortable at times. But what an opportunity. If you’re like me, you’ve got lots of stuff stashed in drawers and boxes, and maybe you haven’t seen a lot of it in a while. (Since the last time you moved?) You get to go through stuff, you get to purge, you get to remember why some things follow you from place to place no matter what, and really reflect on what they mean to you. (If you’re lucky) You get to open the door on a clean and exciting new environment, and you get to fill it with everything that’s most important to you, and you get to leave your old familiar space clean and exciting and new for someone else. It’s a restorative and grounding experience every time I do it.
The best part of moving is everything is new. Even the old stuff you are moving because it is in a different place. And for once everything gets put away. (or at least that is the intention).
The worst part of moving is finding out how much stuff you really have. It is awful how much stuff accumulates in x amt of years!
I’ve never really moved…I know….crazy. I mean, I moved when I was six, but I don’t think that counts. I also moved when I got married, but I was still living at home and all I had was clothes and misc junk. I would love to move, though!
Worst part of our last move? Slogging through moldy wet “dry”wall and soggy carpet so that we could move out after the ceiling fell in because of a water leak and having to throw out lots of wet moldy books.
Best part?
Waking up in a clean dry nice-smelling sunny new place!
My husband and I have lived in the same house now for 11 years and have closed up both my grandmother’s farmhouse and my parents house and barn during that time. I am sure you can imagine what I have stuffed into nooks and crannies of my house trying to hold onto family mementos. My worst fear about moving is that I will have to face all those items once again and justify moving them to a new home. I am very sentimental and am not ready to put them in a yard sale/goodwill bin/dumpster; surely not even my children will cherish much of what I have saved…..But there are things that will be exposed and seen as really unnecessary and it will be a blessing to pass them on to someone who might get better use of them. So the best and the worst are inextricably connected: an opportunity to decide what is truly of value in your life and to shed the extraneous. Good luck to you and your animals on your move!
Best part of moving: getting into a new place and being able to arrange it exactly how you want it, instead of having 10 things wrong that you never got around to fixing.
Worst thing about moving: You’re so overwhelmed that you don’t end up arranging everything how you want it anyway–you just want to get the things you need out of the boxes and ignore the rest.
I end up moving a lot because of college. I always forget things, and I never quite get settled in anywhere.
The best part of moving: Getting all your stuff organized, and the satisfaction of a completely empty and cleaned up room.
The worst part of moving: Aside from the obvious….All the random junk you end up with knowing you don’t really want to get rid of it, but you’ll never be able to find a place to put it. Also: missing the place you move out of.
I don’t really have any good moving stories, as I have mostly moved in and out of my mom’s house to and from college. Although I did end up helping my best friend move one summer when I was visiting him, and that was kind of fun, because it wasn’t my stuff so it was more of an adventure where I got to be the most magical, helpful guest in existance.
Worst thing about moving: Getting our house ready to sell. But I guess we did a good job in staging it — It sold in 5 days in one of the worst markets around — 3 houses in view of ours had been on the market for 1 to 2 yrs.
Best thing: I love my new home on the Cape.
The worst part about moving across town (the last four moves have all been within my hometown) is when you DON’T get around to doing all the purging and garage selling of the vast quantities of accumulated “stuff” before you move. It all gets stuffed in boxes and moved to the new “forever” house and stacked on shelves in the garage (out of site out of mind, i.e. OOSOOM) or in the cupboard under the basement stairs (also OOSOOM) or tucked into closets and filling the spare bedroom. Then, you suddenly can’t move in the laundry (craft) room or have any overnight guests as they’d have to excavate the bed! UGH! I have started sorting through that stuff now, nearly two years after moving, and finally been getting rid of some of it. Of course, the “cleaning up” also revealed that I have a lot of fiber I need to spin, but that’s NOT to say I wouldn’t LOVE to have more!
The best thing? Discovering that indispensable gizmo that you thought you’d lost in the last move and had to go to six stores to replace.
The worst? Having to pack three of the indispensable gizmos, because you did the same thing the last time you moved.
I’m so glad your having a giveaway! My friend e-mailed me your site because of it and I love it. My moving story is one with a silver lining-yes there is hope at the end of that tunnel. My husband and I went to the area that we were moving to in order to find a house. We found dumps that were out of our price range. Since we were leaving a house we had spent 20 years remodeling it was hard to think of doing that again. As we were leaving town my husband saw a beautiful site where someone was preparing to build a house. It overlooked Snake river and was amazing. My husband pointed it out and said,” Hey maybe God will give us a place like that.” My response,”Oh sure.” We ended up living in a 15′ camp trailer with our dog, goldfish and teenage son.(I kept my spinning wheel in the little bathtub and we walked to a public restroom where you could shower for 75cents) We were there for about 3 months when we saw an ad in the paper for a property overlooking the river. Yep, it was the very place we had seen that day. We bought it, traded up for a larger trailer, hauled everything out to the site and built a fantastic house where I have a large fiber studio. It wasn’t easy, but here we are, lovin it.
The best part is finding all that stuff you had forgotten you owned because it was stored in the very back of all your closets/cabinets. It’s also a great excuse to pack things you no longer need into boxes and give them to local charities so they don’t have to move with you. I’ve been the recipient of SIX CRATES of children’s clothing when a friend was moving out of town because she didn’t want to deal with it anymore. I’ve used that as my own inspiration to get a serious “Spring Cleaning” done so that what I move into a new house there is that much less to unpack and clutter everything up.
I also love that just before you move in, it is so easy to paint! After moving tons of furniture and dealing with the mess, I really appreciate having a blank slate to slather on new colors without having to worry about drop cloths all over furniture, or falling over things as I work!
Thankfully, I’ve never had an event worthy of a “horror story”. Lots of tedious, annoying moves, but nothing disastrous!
I think the best part of moving is searching for your new place and imagining your new life there.
The worst part has to be leaving your old neighborhood behind… unless, of course, you hated your old neighborhood.
The Army moved us several times. Once they filled a box half-way with my yarn stash, then dumped a drawer filled with silverware, including sharp knives, on top. My husband caught them just in time to save the stash.
i love the feeling of going through everything and throwing stuff out i had been meaning to for years. that being said- i usually leave the packing until the last minute which means i don’t have as much time to go through things as i would like. the worst part being there is always one last closet i usually forget about- but think “oh it’s just a closet, how much stuff could there be?” usually a truck load thank you very much. ugh!!! good luck with the move, may it bring you the peace and change you need!
Packing is the worst part, I did it 3 years ago after living in the same house for 20 years. But it is exciting to get settled into a new house – unless you have to remodel the whole house like we did and still have a basement full of boxes that we moved and still need to go through 3 years later…. we keep saying we need to have a rummage sale. If at all possible get rid of the stuff you don’t want before you move so you don’t have to deal with it later.
Best part – Being in a new place, unpacking and ‘finding a place’ for everything!
Worst – Moving furniture and books, BY HAND. Our last move my boyfriend and I were only moving five houses up the street – not far enough to warrant a moving company. Big mistake. We moved couches, beds, desks and many, many boxes of heavy books by hand, up hill and then down a litttle skinny zig-zag path to the new house. Now, I don’t really exercise, so my arm muscles were like soft jelly by the end of it. The memories are still traumatising! I swore after that to always get a moving company, no matter how short the distance!
Best part of moving? Having a new start! And the freeing feeling of ridding yourself of old things you don’t need anymore but kept around anyhow (or maybe thats just me

Worst part? Packing! I always try to be organized, but then I up just throwing things into boxes and having no idea where anything is later
Don’t pack like me! LOL We may be moving within a month or so.. so I’ll be looking for some tips and tricks to make it easier and smoother <3
I see a lot of folks saying that the worst part is packing. In my experience, the worst part is carrying things up and down stairs. Having lived in a fourth floor walk-up, I can safely say that.
The best part is after you have done a thorough clean-out of the new place, and the walls are painted, the rugs are down, and you can start setting things up. Everything you own feels fresh again, an you get excited about seeing a new finished space.
Worst part: realizing that you apparently keep every single scrap of junk mail/grocery receipts/assorted knitting patterns all jumbled up with important stuff like bank statements/cc bills etc. This means spending what feels like an eternity actually looking at every single piece of paper to make sure you aren’t tossing anything important.
Best part: yarn and fiber might be bulky but it sure is way lighter than cookbooks and friends who help you move take great pleasure in carrying boxes labeled “wips” while wondering aloud where the “chains” boxes are.
I don’t like moving, but I like how it makes me separate what is necessary from stuff that is just a burden. My worst moving experience was probably my scariest. After losing the key to the truck just after my Dad and I were ready to leave town with the loaded pickup and moving trailer, we ended up having to cross the mountains on packed snow and ice in the dark. At one point, I was driving and we had just gone over the summit. I began to realize that I couldn’t slow the truck down because the trailer was pushing it. We were coming upon a windy section of the road with drops on both sides and I found that we had no traction. My Dad and I were totally silent for the next few miles until the truck was safely under control again. My Dad mentioned that he had been scared. That is the only time in my life I have heard him admit that.
Having just recently separated from my husband and started the divorce process, I am familiar with unexpected moving. Half my things were still in boxes from when we moved into the duplex a year BEFORE we split, and never got around to unpacking them. I know that in some of the boxes I’ve got library books, because even though I set them aside and told Mr. Ex “these are my library books, please put them in their own box so I don’t lose track of them”, they got shuffled in with the rest of the random stuff from around the house.
The best parts of moving are when you’ve just gotten to your new place, and don’t have anything in yet. The walls are bare, the floor is clear, and everything is clean (though of course you have to go and re-clean all the surfaces just in case the previous tenants didn’t do as good a job as you might want – maybe that’s just me?). It’s nice to imagine making this blank canvas of a space yours in fun and creative ways – paint! Stencils! Braids of roving up on the walls!
And the worst part of moving, in my experience, is when you get the last of your stuff in, you lay back exhausted on whichever piece of furniture is the most cleared of boxes, and realize that you have waaaaaay too much stuff in the way to do any of the homey ideas you’d had only a short time before.
I have cats. The worst part about moving is moving the cats over a long distance at the start of a very wet rainy season!
We moved about 30 miles north of our old residence. There was the usual hell of packing everything in boxes, then packing the moving truck. But nothing compares to having to move cats.
I had to move 5 cats. FIVE very vocal cats during a heavy rain. I opted to *not* give them valium because it takes about 30 minutes for the valium to kick in and then wears off in several hours (my mistake)
So, after the bed & familiar cat furniture got put into place in the new bedroom, I packed up my little pride into my car. DH was driving the next load in the moving truck so I was by myself.
And they YOWLED and CRIED the whole way! My “little” 12-lb baby managed to *chew* her way through the cardboard carrier I put her in and curled up into my lap while I was driving half-way through the drive giving me soulful, “Why are you doing this mommy?” look.
And, because it was raining very hard so I had to go extra slow on the very slippery & winding road to our new house! There was no way for me to pull over and put her back in the now defunct carrier.
And, once one started crying, all the others had to chime in and out-do each other! Talk about a stressful drive!
I white-knuckled it all the way to the new house.
Best part of moving: having a good friends offer to go with you in the UHaul from TX to PA.
Worst part: leaving the UHaul headlights on when you park near your new apartment while you go eat breakfast. Then having to jumpstart the truck before you can move it close enough to unload.
And the best part about moving?
Is when you’re FINALLY finished, and the cats can be allowed out of their “imprisonment” and allowed to sniff their new environment.
Of course, there comes the hell of unpacking, but that’s a completely different matter.
The best thing about moving is totally new space, in and out. New places to stash my fiber, new neighborhoods to explore, new friends to meet.
The worst part is having to go through everything saying “do I want to move that”. Having to really examine those regrettable purchases that got shoved to the back of the closet. Looking at clothes thinking when was I able to wear that!
I moved to five different states and one country in 15 years. The best part of it all has been that my network of people I care about has been incredibly expanded. If I’d stayed in the same place I wouldn’t have met so many incredible people.
The worst….our last move. I finally thought I’d found my place, settled, created a community and was finally seeing my garden start to mature and we had to move for my husband’s job to a city I NEVER wanted to live in. It took 2 years of deep depression and a lot of work, but some 3 years in I’ve pulled out of it found a community and am even beginning to love this place I now call home (which happens to include citrus trees, thank you very much;-).
When I left Lawrence, KS to move to Round Rock, TX (a 14 hour drive – Lawrence is in northeastern KS and Round Rock is just north of Austin) it was just before midnight on December 23rd. I took only what would fit in my ‘96 Sentra, and much of that space was reserved for my two black cats. A large cargo bag attached to the top of the car held my yarn and fabric stash. With a chalk pen I wrote “Am I in Austin Yet?” across the rear windshield. My last shift as a city bus driver had been a couple of days before, highlighted by a heavy, blinding snow. The roads were mostly clear, but since I was driving on no sleep I took things very carefully. Hamlet, my younger cat, spent most of Kansas and about half of Oklahoma making his characteristic (and very loud) “No! Oh no!” noise. Buena Suerte, my tiny female, hid among the packages and occasionally creaked like a grackle. On a refueling stop in Oklahoma at a large highway filling station, I had mentioned to the attendant that I was in the middle of moving to Texas. It was now early morning of Christmas Eve. As I walked back to my car a voice came on the loadspeaker over the dozens of pumps and said “Hey, good luck with moving to Texas!” A couple of people clapped. My mom had been clearly rather disappointed when I told her how late my departure was, so the family were all surprised when I pulled up in front of the house just as my father arrived with my two grandmothers. Several people commented that I looked very tired at Christmas Eve service that night!
Well lets see I can tell you an ugly story that made moving a horrible experience for me as a child. We moved from California to Colorado with 2 dogs, 2 cats and 1 bird in tow. The vet had advised my parents to give the cats tranquilizers to keep them calm for the ride in their carriers. Well funny part was that it made them walk sideways and act very drunk, but it made them sick to and my sister and I had to ride in the back of the van with their fowl carriers when they got sick in the van for several hours until we could stop again. Your crushed in the back of the van packed your your travel gear and some moving stuff, your already unhappy leaving home and you have to deal with horrible smells…wasn’t a good time at all. I can still smell it-plus the cats essentially had to be bathed later. eww….
The best part of moving is being able to fit everything into the truck and not have to make a million trips.
The worst part is definitely the cleaning. 110+ degrees of heat, an air conditioner that only makes the living room a bit cooler, lights that just decided to die on the day we moved out and an overheated vacuum cleaner that stopped after a few minutes because it couldn’t handle the heat and vacuum at the same time. =.=
Good luck with your move! I just moved a few months back and hope it doesn’t happen for a while longer.
Oh, well, moving … Me and my husband keep talking about it more and more seriously lately. And it always comes to one question. Do we really want to leave all of our friends behind? It took us years to create that safety net of really close friends.
The worst part of moving – cleaning up, emptying up and then locking the house for the very last time knowing there is no turning back.
The best part – hopefully moving to a place with much better climate (I am not psyched about Buffalo winters. And the summers are not one of the bests either. Not to mention there’s usually total lack of spring and fall as I know it from growing up in Europe.) And then you get a new set of keys and let your imagination soar. And when you are sick of arranging and re-arranging your new home, you go explore outside and around. That is very exciting!
Good luck with this new chapter of your life!
Your looking at someone who has moved a lot and I can tell you one thing: DOWNSIZE EVERYTHING. If you don’t have to lug it, DONT! I moved within one state (CA) 4 TIMES. I moved from state to state 4 times (CA to OR to IL to IN) If I ever have to move again, EVERYTHING GOES (GARAGE SALE!)
The best part of moving is this: When it’s done, you won’t have to do it again for a while!
The worst part is: Packing it all!
The worst time moving was in when we got to the Quad Cities in IOWA and hit the biggest snowstorm in DECADES! We only had one key to the movng van and I did not want to leave it open to be stolen so we locked it up tight and the ENGINE FROZE! we were stranded for two days!
I hate moving. It’s complete hell to be honest. Somehow the amount of stuff I’ve managed to aquire in the 19 years I’ve lived on this earth is imense. Now I’ve moved out into the real world (TM) I seem to have also aquired things such as tables, chairs, sofas and masses upon masses of plates. I still have 2 more years to live here, but I do dread moving out! I also have such a large stash that the boyfriend is begining to object to it taking over our bedroom, and the spinning wheel is pemanantly in use, though it doesn’t appear to even be making a dent! Sadly though it will one day, I’m a poor student and my money for crafts is basically 0. This still doesn’t stop friends and family constantly asking for knitted gifts, or gifts of yarn. I’m hoping to knit my first jumper out of my stash soon, but I have so many other things to knit for other people first! Baby gifts coming out of my eyeballs! At the end of the day though nothings better then seeing everything eventually organised and in it’s rightfull place. I’m quazi moving at the moment, getting used to a flat share from living in the house all on my own and it’s amazing to be able to spend a day or two cagaorizing my yarn into the lovely stuff and the eww!Acrylic that I must use up as soon as possible.
I’m spreading the word on my twitter @Wasanifu
Ah moving! I’ve become the queen of it ~ or at least I was in my younger days. I’d get restless every spring, and sometimes that restlessness would take me completely across the country. I’ve had lots of adventures.
One of the best decisions I ever made was to move to a state across the country when I was twenty. There was only one person in the entire state who knew me, and he hadn’t seen me since high school. I was able to recreate and reinvent myself–without anyone being able to say “But Sherri, you just aren’t acting yourself lately!” I dressed the way that pleased me, listened to music I wanted to hear, and sought out the company of new faces. The new friendships I made altered my life, for the better, and the time away from “back home” allowed me to mature without limits.
The worst things about moving are the physical act of moving. The only good thing about the actual “moving of stuff” is it allows you to toss out the things you really don’t need and organize the things you keep.
One of the moves that was most annoying for me was the time I moved across the street from a one bedroom apartment to a two bedroom apartment. I thought it would be wonderful to pick up a stack of towels and instead of packing them into a box and having to figure out which box they had gone into later, simply carry them across the street and put them away. I looked forward to being all moved in and unpacked at the end of the move. Oh, I was that organized, but what I didn’t realize was that also meant four hundred trips across the street carrying an armload of this or that! And it was really hard getting a crew of friends to help me move 100 feet, too. I ended up doing most of the work myself–8 months pregnant, with a woman who was 6 months pregnant as my main helper!
I hope everyone who ever has to move has a better experience than that one!
How fun, I haven’t spun any Cormo yet. I’ve put a link on my blog.
The best part about moving is the purging. The worst part for me, a germaphobe, is cleaning the new place.
The worst part: Transporting two yowling felines to their new home (seriously, two days of driving with an inconsolable cats is enough to make anybody crazy).
The best part: Watching those same two howling monsters explore and settle into their new home!
The best part is finding all the little fiddly things you’ve lost over the years – the remote control for the TV, your long-lost necklace, etc.
The worst part is moving all your junk up and down stairs. In my case it has always been multiple flights of stairs – in both the new place and old. My back and knees recoil in horror from the thought of moving.
I don’t spin, but I have done plenty of moving. (If you include moving into and out of dorm rooms in college) stories.
The best story (well worst in my parents’ eyes probably) was when I was a toddler, we moved from an apartment to a house across the street. I was a “big girl” and wanted to help. My parents would let me bring my toys from the apartment to the house. Problem – neither one of them thought bring the toy box over to the house. So every time I went back to the apartment I would bring the toys back. I was taught to put toys away after playing with them.
The worst moving experience going from house to the dorms was lugging clothes and supplies up three flights of stairs. I never thought to bring skirt or dress, because during the first week of school who would need them? People going for job interviews do! So I had barely settled in and I was on the phone to my parents – mail me my dress and white blous, matching shoes! Of course all of thoes things could not fit into an envelope so they had to go in a box and be shipped. I fought with the people in the mail room for three days before I finally got the box.
Why were you so concerned?
My favorite dress. Thank you.
Response you could buy another one.
Really with no job? Where do you think I can get that money?
I am out of college and I am glad those days of dealing with the mail room is over.
Moving can be like resetting the thermostat on old bad habits and creating new positive ones. Initially, the new change of scenery refreshes your senses and new ideas and opportunites abound. The actual move can totallly drain your batteries, it is such physically and mentally EXHAUSTING. Horror story. When I moved about 18 years ago and just before we were married, my to-be husband found that the spokes of my 200+ year old Saxony wheel had broken. He just tossed it in a dumpster because it “wasn’t any good anymore.” He mentioned it days later when I asked if he’d seen it. Some day I’ll look for a replacement for the wheel. I’m glad it was not my only spinning wheel. Good luck with the move. When it’s over, you’ll be overjoyed with the good fortune of your new home.
I think the best part about moving is the excitement of something new. I know when I moved out of my parents and into an apartment, it was exciting to finally have something that was mine. It’s exciting to take a blank canvas and make it your own! to find a place for everything and to have that “fresh new clean” feel.
The worst part of packing has to be the moving. I know when I moved out lol my mother said she wouldn’t help me because she was mad at me for wanting to move out at all. Then after I had enlisted my sister to help. My mom says “I never said I wouldn’t help you! ” “I don’t know where you got that idea from!” I’m thinking to myself, ummm I got it from you! So between that and the putting of everything in boxes and containers the actual moving sucks. Unpacking and making a place your home well that is better. For moving you have a deadline, for unpacking you are leasurily and thoughtful.
Just my two cents!
~Cathy
Worst thing — how all of your furniture and belongings look old and shabby in your new place, and how nothing matches or fits exactly.
Best thing — Having a great excuse to go out shopping for new!!
I don’t have a terrible moving story that I can think of……I know it’s a pain to pack and all….. but I love new beginnings. You guys are going to have a great time getting settled at the new farm and you have lots of excited friends to make it easier. I hope to visit someday
Thanks for the chance to win your spinner’s giveaway! I love to spin but really need the practice.
As a navywife I have done my fair share of moving. For me the best part of moving to a new place/home is getting to explore and decorate your new home. I always look forward to exploring a new city and surrounding citys. The worst part about moving is having to wait for your things to arrive and worrying about everything making it to you new home. We had one move where they lost our shipment. It was over a week late. In that Same move they lost most of the pieces to my girls beds. We found out later that our shipment was picked up by the wrong driver. It got all the to New York before they realized what happend.
Moving tip: In a box that goes in the car WITH YOU, pack: The sheets/blankets for your bed. The pillows too. PJs and your toiletries. Make the bed as soon as the bed is put together. That way when you are exhausted you can just crawl in and call it a night. On of my moves my husband was in the middle of a crash study course for his CPA. He had to drive 3 hours to get to the course. By the time we found the linens, made the bed, found our toothbrushes… it was 2 in the morning. My lovely husband was VERY tired on his drive in the wee hours the next morning.
Then there were the childhood moves with tornados, runaway dogs and blood poisoning….:)
The worst part about moving is that it is never EASY and you know it wont be. The best part of moving is that when you arrive, you get that feeling of renewal and discovery. A new place!
The delight in finding just the right place for your favorite pictures, the first sunset over the new rise thru your new window. That first glass of wine on the new porch.
Cormo is my very favorite fiber to spin. Here in VA it is not to easy to come by. So come on down and WELCOME!
My worst exp- The truck is loaded, hauling a car, there is no money direct deposited- some idiot in admin changed it to hard check and the office is closed!- had to borrow $300 for gas from a good neighbor who’s thinking they will never see it again. It’s January, we have a baby and a dog, and we are moving from CA to IL. We slept in the truck in NM in 30* night, and in a dive for 20 bucks in MO. We must have been looking too long for something to eat at a gas station in TX because someone approached us about getting help at a shelter! We arrived at our destination in the beginning of a snow storm and in the morning I found my car was completely frozen. I never thought oil could get so thick!
On the plus side, it was a quite an experience and makes for a great stroy to tell granadkids in the future! Would I do it again- NO!
The best part of moving, finding new places and making new friends. The worst part is packing, cleaning, moving in the rain.
The worst part about moving is that I never realize exactly how much stuff I actually have until I start packing it up! To top it off I generally leave too much to the last minute, thinking that they are all little jobs. When you are packing and moving there seem to never be any little jobs, it all part of one big nasty job. I have moved enough times to learn that big black garbage bags are awsome for all the soft stuff.
The good part about moving…an ice cold beer when all the items have been transported from the original location to the new one. Unpacking usually takes a bit, but its an amazing feeling to be in a new space that you love.
So I have a goal…only keep things in my house that I would take with me if I moved from where I live in Canada to San Francisco. Well except I still need my winter clothes lol.
Good luck with your move
The best thing about moving is all the new LYS’s to explore.
The worst thing about moving is unpacking. I’ve lived in this apartment for 1.5 years. I have yet to unpack.
The best thing about moving is the hope and dreams about the new place will bring. The worst things are packing and realizing you have more “stuff” than you thought you had or the movers break something and act they didn’t. Of the nightmare mentioned before, the moving gets stolen.
The best part of moving: The new opportunities
The worst part of moving: It’s a debate – either what we leave behind or the packing. LOL The packing is awful but once it’s done, it’s done. What we’ve left behind is still gone.
At one point in my life I moved at least once a year for one reason or another. Between 1997 and 2001 I lived 8 different places. I am really a home body so that was a VERY hard time of my life. My worst move ever was forced because my house burned down. It was my first owned home and somehow caught fire when no one was home. I live in a small town with a volunteer fire department during the day so from what I understand there were not very many fire fighters available to help put the fire out. No one was hurt and the fire fighters rescued my Great Dane, 3 ferrets and 4 cats. We did lose 2 cats and our home. That was the worst move ever!!! I came home at 9pm one night to find I had no home.
Looking on the brighter side, we moved to a rental house and then back to a small cottage on our property. We then built a modest house to replace the one we lost. That was the easier move ever – no trucks necessary…we just carried our stuff across the lawn!!!
Worst part of moving? 200 boxes and all of them labeled books. ONE (or possibly three) of them has the remotes to the TV, DVR and DVD player. Have fun!
The best part? New house, new places for everything to go, new faith that this time you’ll really STAY organized and all the little new things. Especially getting that hopeful look in the bed and bath department – new shower curtain, new trash cans…right up there with school supply season for the feeling of hopefullness!
The best part of moving is getting to weed out all the crap you don’t want but have been too lazy to throw/give away. The worst is packing, moving the stuff, and unpacking it.
Best thing about a move is having a new area to explore.
Worst move was our last. Found the first broken piece tucked back in a cupboard while the packers were still packing (bad omen). The seller (or his realtor) made a mistake on the closing, so he moved out a week later (we had to stay in temporary quarters and our things in storage). On move-in day, the truck pulled up, and as I was showing the driver around the house, so they would be able to relate box markings to rooms, he made a comment that we would have a lot of empty space (bad news) even though we knew there would only be 2 empty rooms. When our things went into storage, they assigned new (different) tags than the ones we had on our copy of the moving paperwork. While they were there, a disgruntled employee, moved and misplaced our boxes, and it took all day to find and deliver them in several trucks. We told them not to send a large truck to our driveway, but they did, and ended up transferring what was on it to smaller trucks to get it up the drive. It decided to rain, and I caught them tossing boxes from the truck to someone by the entry (checked and found items broken). Just when we thought it was bad enough, our van that had been shipped was finally delivered. After the guy parked it (in the middle of the drive, even though we were in the middle of having our household things delivered), he turned off the engine, and proceeded to tell us that the battery was dead (and of course it hadn’t charged up at all while he drove it to our house). Oh, and by the way, it was scratched on the side, the sunroof had opened, and it had rained inside, so it was soaked, and smelled (when the battery was replaced, the radio said “help” and had to have the dealer reset it). We had so much damage, broken back beam on a sofa, back on recliner, and numerous small pieces (someone thought it would be a good idea to pack several sizes of framed art with glass in the same box, among other things.
The wool sounds wonderful, I’m keeping my fingers crossed
Ok, here’s my horror story:
There were a couple years where I wasn’t making very much, I was living in Brooklyn, and to save money I took a chance on a too-good-to-be-true roommate situation that I found in the Village Voice classifieds. Unfortunately, he developed a crush on me and it got uncomfortable when he realized I wasn’t going to reciprocate. I’ll save the details, but it became scary and intolerable to stay there, so finally I had to find a new place. He was determined to stop me from moving out (!), so I had to sneak out – I scheduled the move for a time when he was at work. However, somehow he found out the movers were there, and he called the police and told them I was stealing his stuff! (I wasn’t – I wouldn’t have dared cross him.) The police arrived and found me, in tears, terrified, so when the mad roommate drove up and screeched to a stop in front of the house a few minutes later and started yelling at everybody in sight, they weren’t sympathetic to him (thank God). He tried to go through all the boxes and keep the movers from loading everything, and at the worst point the movers were starting to say they would have to leave to go to their next job … but the cops intervened, and finally we got it all loaded onto the truck and I was allowed to leave. Loading it out into my new place was nothing in comparison!
Thank the saints and the stars, I’ve never seen that guy again. He was a scary dude. And that was pretty much my worst moving experience of all time.
For me the worst part is the packing and and cleaning. The best part is being in your new home.
Worst part…lots to choose from. Finding enough boxes is bad and going thru all the ’stuff’ that has seemed to accumulate since last move. Best….Setting up in new place. Also in the packing process finding that 1 thing you thought you would never see again.
Having moved in July, I think the worst part of moving is doing it yourself, packing WHILE moving, having a sciatica flareup, and trying to work a full time (night shift, to boot) job at the same time. It was also 110°F that day, and a good 20° hotter inside the moving van. I’m not sure I’ll ever fully emotionally recover. If I never have to do it again, it’ll be too soon!
The best part? Not paying for my landlord’s lifestyle EVER. AGAIN.
Bet I’ve got the worst moving story ever: Coming back to the US after 5 years in Germany (ex was military). Stuff packed in Germany in February. Finally delivered to Alabama in July. They opened the doors on the SeaPak and . . . water came out. The whole thing, containing everything I owned, had been dumped into the ocean and fished back out. Lost it all – my baby books, diplomas, wedding album, kids’ baby books, family pictures from long, long ago, heirloom furniture, clothes, everything. I tell people now that I must be in the witness protection program ‘ cuz I have nothing to prove I existed before 1986.
I think the best part of moving is the fresh start, choosing where to put things. The worst part is dealing with loosing the old place, dealing with mourning that while packing, which is way too much work, and the work of setting up the new place when you are mourning the old, all at once!
I just moved from Virginia to Ohio. Bad Parts – 1) the astronomical cost the moving company charged, 2) having the moving people in my house for a week packing my stuff while I tried to continue working, 3) unpacking and finding out what a HORRIBLE CARELESS job they did, 4) having my husband discover just how much yarn / roving / rug hooking and watercolor supplies I have, 5) having to get rid of a lot of the stuff we paid to move because there’s no room in the new house or it just doesn’t look good, and last but not least 6) having my husband know how many hundreds – maybe thousands – of pounds of books I have. Good Part – tossing each box as far as I can as I empty them. If I had to do it over again — I’d take my fiber, my underwear, and my toothbrush and leave the rest behind!
Ok so my worst moving experience wasn’t really mine but I was there for the whole thing. My sister and her boyfriend had just graduated college and they were moving their entire lives from wisconson to washington…and for some reason I decided to help them out! They had to fit everything they owned in two sedans. It was absolutely crazy. There were boxes of stuff that had to go back home with my parents to ship. Then as the cars got packed and they realized they didn’t have enough room they just started putting things they were willing to part with on the curb for others to take….if it was me I would have been sad about letting all that stuff go. But we finally got their cars all packed at midnight maybe, and we were all wide awake so instead of sleeping and leaving early we decided to get a head start on the road. We got about 3 hours of driving in and decided to find a hotel. We wasted money on a hotel and we got up later in the morning so that was pretty much a waste of time. It was a really looong drive that seemed to never end. By the time we got to their new home, which the geography left more to be desired, none of us wanted to unpack the cars up 3 flights of stairs!! It took a few days to move everything in. And the day they got there they had to buy a bed for themselves, and they ended up buying a couch that day so I would have somewhere to sleep. It was a great trip that I will remember for the rest of my life, but it was not the greatest experience in terms of moving
Wait a minute, I forgot another “fun” part of the move. I left Virginia with my three cats in carriers – 2 males in one and my little female in the other. All medicated with a dose of Valium each. Well, Gracie, did not stop meowing until the car stopped in Ohio. Even with a second dose of Valium. By the time we arrived in Ohio – a good 9 hour trip – she sounded like a broken squeaky toy. No kidding, she meowed incessantly the WHOLE ENTIRE trip! I needed the Valium by the time we got there.
I feel for you! I hate moving & have no real tips but to throw lots of stuff out! It is senseless to move stuff that is not used, or has been sitting in the attic since the last move.
Great contest! Good luck to everyone.
What an awesome thing to do – thank you! And what fun! Thanks to Susan for passing this info on…and Amy, I am heading your way with the news.
These are actually tough questions for me. They really are. They make my heart go to mush.
The best part of moving, is being in a place where you are suppose to be. Being in a place that just feels like home; being wrapped in the warmth of that kind of feeling. That “this just feels right” feeling that you can get from nothing else. That is the best part. Knowing you are doing the right thing.
Packing and unpacking, decluttering along the way…is part of the journey, and a growth process like nothing else. It’s tiring, stressful, time consuming….
The worst part…is what you miss out on. What you are leaving behind to a certain extent. That for someone, at some point, a move might not be “fair.”
Dh and I struggle with this. We got married and he moved next door to his parents (after us actually renting a flat in their home for the first 4 years..not a good thing for newly weds to do, trust me). Lucky him. And me…I left everything and moved over 700 miles away from my family. I get to see them once a year now.
The absolute worse part for me, I miss my Grandma. She has gotten lots older in the past 15 years. Her mind is going…and although I absolutely love the sparkle in her eyes and the smile on her face when she sees me, it’s hard to not cry inside that my name escapes her. “Do you know who I am Grandma,” I asked. “Yes,” Grandma replied, “you’re YOU!” I won’t ever forget those words. I cried and laughed so hard at the same time. I am happy I am her favorite grandchild (that I keep that tucked close to my heart). It stinks making sure each time you leave their side that you are prepared to say a good-bye that might be your last.
See? Mushy stuff, I tell ya. I can’t ever talk about moving without getting all sappy.
the best part of moving is throwing stuff out and starting fresh in a clean setting! beware of helpers though. we moved 10 years go and i was pregnant with twins. the movers actually packed and moved a FULL bathroom trash can!!! lol still remember unpacking the trash and being thrilled that the box was easliy dealt with !!!!
good luck!
The best thing about moving is getting organized! All of those papers you’ve been accumulating, the plasticy trinkets that just appear (really, how does an adult get an assortment of rings and toys from grocery store dispensers?), clothes that have become a hodgepodge in the corner…suddenly all of these things have homes! They go in organized boxes so that you know as soon as you move you will have all of your shoes in a box, all of your bank statements in a box, all of your hair supplies in a box, and each box will be labeled so you know what room to put it in and unloading will be such a breeze! The trash cans and recycling bins suddenly are overflowing with all of those things you no longer need and a weight is lifted off of your shoulders!
The worst part? An hour after you started the above method with high hopes and have suddenly started emptying rooms in to boxes. A box labeled “living room” may have one glove, some pens, random old bills and papers, a knitting needle (two if you’re lucky), cat toys, a dirty glass. All of the boxes say “GO THROUGH IMMEDIATELY” because you know you have bills that need to be paid in that box with the dirty glass. Seven years later you may finally open up the box and discover that glove that will make the glove you found last year in a box marked “KITCHEN OPEN IMMEDIATELY” have a mate again.
That reminds me, I guess I could go through some more of those boxes to “immediately see to” from our move eight years ago!
I don’t know whether this is the best part or the worst part, but there is always that time just before I move when all my stuff is organized, everything is packed away, and the old house looks so clean and uncluttered. I always wonder why I wasn’t that well organized when I lived there!
One time I moved from one apartment building to the building next door. I thought it would be easy. No moving truck, no bother, right? Well, it was the worst move of my life! Due to my own bad planning, I ended up using my wheeled ottoman as a moving cart to move endless piles of boxes and the heavy furniture down a busy city sidewalk for half a block. Never again.
Chins up, you’ll get there and it will be all good!
If I didn’t live across the country, I’d come and help you move. Thinking of you….and sending good thoughts your way.
I read about the giveaway on Ravelry, and oh! do I have a moving story!
Last year, our landlord decided to sell the house we’d been renting for four years — but he didn’t tell us until we had to be out in 30 days. That’s *30 days* to look for a new place that’d take us and our three cats, pack, move everything, and get the old place cleaned.
30 days. I think I almost died that month. I sure wanted to, some days.
The best part of moving: You find out that your friends are superheroes. They saved my life. Our friends came over to pack books. They packed dishes. They brought us food when we were too exhausted to cook. They helped drag old furniture out of the basement. They baby-sat our emergency yard sale. They even cleaned the kitchen!
And then there was the worst part of moving: On moving day, the professional movers we’d hired showed up, packed the truck for an hour, then left.
Imagine us, please, in the front yard, completely panicked. There we were, 22 days into our 30-day limit, with a half-packed truck and no time to finish loading the truck ourselves that day, nor could we just return it and try again the next day with different movers.
I had no idea what to do at that point. Thankfully, one of our friends stopped by then, “just to see” if we needed anything.
She started calling around. She found a couple of laborers advertizing on craigslist that would show up in an hour. She called in favors from her friends to get people to come over and move boxes — or to call their friends and get *them* to come over. In half an hour, people none of us even knew were driving up, ready to help out.
We ended up with ten people, including the brand new ‘professional’ movers, and got the rest of our things moved out by six that evening, in time to return the rental truck and fall over exhausted in our new place!
I hope I never, ever have to do anything like that again, as long as I live. But I am very glad — and grateful — that our friends were there to help us out!
Oh, I help people move all the time (I moonlight as a personal organizer, and it comes with the territory). I have some bad moving stories. Like going into a basement only to find that the bags and bags of heirloom handmade lace and boxes of photos and so on were infested with mice, and instead of moving the stuff we had to get a dumpster. I hate that sort of thing.
My personal worst moving story was hiring movers who tried to hold my stuff hostage for more money than in the contract. I was pretty lucky that the guy who was in charge of pulling off the scam didn’t do it right and only tried to extort more money from me after he’d moved my stuff into the new place. But they called me every day for weeks and even tried following me to work which really freaked me out.
My best moving story is an awe-inspiring move for a client. She was downsizing from a medium-sized house in the US to a one-bedroom apartment in the UK, and in only a few weeks we went through everything she owned, sorted out what she was going to keep, packed it up, and disposed of the rest (gave it away, sold it, threw it away). She and I spent hours posting things on the local Freecycle or Craigslist. It was a huge effort, but when we finished it felt so good. I love that feeling, when the move is over and now it’s unpacking boxes (OK, that can be a slog, too, but the first few boxes are like presents).
Well, the worse story I know about moving right now is when my husband moved over here from the UK, he arranged for his items to be shipped by a moving company but his ex girl-friend stole all his furniture including an antique desk left by his late grandfather, an antique train from his father, plus his oak dining table, solid wood bookshelves, CD system and larva lamp! What was shipped were his books, his LPs, 2 broken bookcases and a broken rattan sofa. So he lost a lot in terms of things and money for shipping! The best? he said it was such a relief to get away from her. That was 10 years ago and he’s never looked back.
The best thing about moving is culling your possessions; it feels so great to lose the dead wood (even though it does mean you have to question your own sanity for hanging on to some of that stuff for so long). The worst thing about moving is cleaning the OLD house once everything is out of it. Once your stuff is out of the house, it’s hard to feel the connection to cleaning it.
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The best part of moving is that everything gets and starts out clean. The worst part plain and simple is getting everything boxed up. But the second best part is that sooner or later it’s over!
The best part of moving is getting rid of all the junk you don’t really want. This of course requires that you are not in a hurry.
The worst part is packing all the stuff you do really want to keep, and then figuring where ever you are going to put it all in in the new place. We moved about 7 months ago, and we still have some cardboard boxes full of (my) stuff in the living room, as there is not place to unpack it to.
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Moving, oh I dozies. We are military so we don’t actually have a house waiting for us when we get there… no we stay in a hotel for 1 to 3 months and then get a house. Can you imagine having you how life in a hotel room for 3 months? Yea, and the kids got the swine flu too… fun.
At least the military actually pays for movers to come and pack everything, but really, getting it into the middle of the Pacific Ocean (Hawaii) means that the likelihood of YOUR stuff hitting salt water is rather high and then it is all wet when you get it. That is fun too. Thankfully it was mostly dishes so no needing to replace super large amounts of things, but still, SALT WATER?
Two years ago my sweet little family of four packed up and moved from Connecticut to Michigan..from the briny historic seashore to an old church located in a very small unincorporated township in a cornfield. We sold nearly everything and put the rest into a big moving van and with our raggedy band of children and old dogs we left. We drove for two and a half days and arrived in August weeks before the start of school. Needless to say our $4000 prepaid moving van was “unexpectedly a week late” due to a problem with the company’s drivers. So..let me explain..we were in dusty empty hot old church..no furniture, no clothing, no anything..Except the few suitcases, reclining lawn chairs and inflatable beds that I had packed last minute into the back of ourr minivan. The best part was what followed. The four of us..in our old empty new home..camping out together..dirty, confused and nervous..We bonded like never before..and when our things arrived it was like angels sang. We had our stuff again..and everything had arrived in good condition! We were taught that when we were together nothing else mattered..and that “stuff” is nice, but not what really filled our new home!
Best thing about moving is when it’s over! Worst thing about moving, is moving the animals and livestock. How many trailer loads will it take and who is going to set up the temporary pens???
My sister and I own a bead shop in Olive Branch, MS. For the past 5 years we have been in a dinky little shop that we had definitely outgrown. In April a large, lovely, open shop came available just up the street so we decided it was time to make the move. The wonderful part and the Oh My parts were both that a bunch of our wonderful customers wanted to help. We had a class going in the back while we started moving things. We lost control of all that enthusiasm and chaos moved in. The teacher had to run up the street to the new shop to find what she needed to finish the class. We couldn’t have done it without them but it took weeks to find everything.
The best part about moving is getting all that fresh space to put your stuff in! The worst part is packing it all up and getting it there, and then unpacking it all.
I have moved approx. 18 times (I’m almost 33) and I hope I don’t have to do it again soon.
One amazing benefit to moving that often is that you become an excellent packer – I can pack a car or a van with more stuff than you can imagine.
I hope you get your UHaul back. What a sucky experience for you.
I saw a thread on Ravelry about your contest, and have I got a story for you!
I moved with my family from Houston to London this spring. The best part about moving was going to a new country and discovering things in the unpacking that I’d forgotten we had. The worst part about moving was the trip over here. We were visiting family in New England, and were scheduled to fly back to houston the same day that our flight to London was leaving. We had a four hour window between our arrival in Texas and getting on the plane. However…our flight from Boston to Philly was delayed by two hours. And then our flight from Philly to Houston was canceled. And the earliest the airline (who shall remain nameless through sheer willpower) could get us to Houston was 9:00 the next morning. Ummm, no, that won’t work. Finally my husband threw himself on the mercy of British Airways and they transferred our tickets from the Houston flight to the Philly flight. But…we tried to get our luggage from Airline #1 in Philly and they couldn’t find it. Even though not one flight had left for Houston that day. It was gone. We checked in to fly to England for three years with two small children and carry on bags. Fun stuff people!
And our luggage? Finally arrived a week after we did. Only Airline #1 couldn’t deliver it to us because we hadn’t filled out a customs declaration at the airport. Because we didn’t know we needed one. Our choices were: 1) give them a fax number so they could fax us the declaration form, fill it out, fax it back and then they could deliver the bags or 2) go to the airport, fill out no forms whatsoever, and take the bags away. Given that we had no telephone and no fax machine, we chose option 2.
The final icing on the cake however, was the letter I received from said Airline #1 in response to my three page diatribe about this experience. “We recommend you contact British Airways about the problems with your luggage, since they were responsible.” I have not yet written back because it still makes me so angry I start to twitch. /rant (sorry!)
But Cormo? Mmmmmm….
Best thing — clearing out the stash
Worst thing – going through everything to clear out the stash
I moved five years ago. I was recently married, and sold my house to move into his tiny townhouse temporarily until we could find a new house together. So until the wedding, I stayed with a friend and kept ALL my belongings in her 3 car garage. Unfortunately, it was winter, so when we moved into our new house at the end of March, I had a lot of items that were damaged (from being frozen) something I did not even consider. What a nightmare to unpack.
SO many moving companies are rotten thieving scam artists! I was quoted $3k for Seattle to Philly. Then they arrived and said our stuff was heavier than we said, so it would be $6k, and we had to pay CASH! Plus they broke our glass table and lost my giant tub of black baby alpaca. This was United, a big company. Check movingscams dot com – I wish I had.
arggghh the dreaded move. I swear I’ll never do it again!
Best thing about moving is my then 8mth old baby got her own room and slept through the night for the first time and having enough rooms to hide in if necessary!
Worst thing about moving getting to the new house and finding it’s filthy and spending 3 hours scrubbing the skirting boards and realising the ceiling wasn’t really cream it was sticky from previous owner chain smoking.
Good luck with the move x
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Best- Getting away from people you don’t like and the chance to replace them with people you DO!. I lived 5 minutes from my brother in law who blamed me for my daughter’s aspergers, and told me that she was socially inept because I was a stay at home mom. Plus we lived in a tiny duplex in New Jersey and paid as much i rent as we now pay for our mortgage for a house double the size. We lived in a well off bedroom town where I stuck out like a sore thumb at the playground because I didn’t wear $500 flip flops and have a weekly manicure.
The worst…. packing a house alone with 2 small children at my feet in the course of 3 weeks.
Oh sorry – I got mad all over again and got carried away – the best part is decorating theme rooms (Tiki hut bathroom, pirate den, Knights Templar bedroom, etc) and especially the art / fiber room! We’re moving in a few months and I’m making it Shaker / Amish. Thanks for yet another generous contest!
The worst part of moving has to be the packing! Has to be. But once that part is finished then it’s all down hill from there. The best part would be the new beginning! A fresh new outlook on the world! What a great thing! It makes all that packing worth it!
The best part about moving is you get to start out fresh in a new place, you get to decorate the rooms just the way you pictured in your head, and you get to do landscaping and make your space beautiful.
Worst part about moving, packing boxes and making sure they are labled properly, then fussing over how your friends or movers are handling your stuff. Each time I have moved I have done all the packing on my own and half of the moving because I didnt want to take a chance on people mistreating my things. Especially my knitting and spinning items.
I have moved many many many times. The worst was unpacking a box and discovering that the packers had packed the contents of a frig in Connecticut and shipped it to Hawaii. Can you say disgusting?
The best is rediscovering things you forgot you had. Unpacking can be like Christmas. And then there is the wonderful feeling of being done.
I don’t spin myself, my daughter is just starting. This would make a fabulous Christmas present.
My DH and I just moved from FL to the UK in March. The worst part of it was having none of our stuff for a few months. Oh, and getting the pets ready to go over there of course. That was horrible. I was so worried about them I didn’t sleep for about 2 nights prior to the flight over and then of course, not at all on the flight itself….
The best part is the new everything. I mean, we aren’t moving somewhere else in our own country. So there is essentially a new language to learn, new foods to try, a new culture to explore!
Moving, just what we’re in the middle of doing. The best part is the new opportunities to meet NEW spinners/knitters. The worst is trying to remember where you packed what. You can’t label the boxes with EVERYTHING in it, so you guess.
OMG!!! The worst part is when your (now ex) husband claims he is sick and leaves you and your older parents to move all the heavy stuff ie beds!! The best part is when your now divorced and can have your stuff anyway you want and don’t have to care about where he wants the chair!! LOL
Best part of moving: it is an adventure.
Worst parts: Trying to stuff all your belongings into boxes. Figuring out what to get rid of and what to keep. Saying goodbye to friends. They’ll still be your friends, but you may be far away.
The worst part of moving is finding the NEW dentist, doctor, vet etc. The best part, for me, is finding stuff that I had forgotten that I had—projects that you really want to do but still have to put off because of the move, of course!!!!
My tip to all movers, is to make your bed first thing.(pack the sheets in a box you can easily find) That way, you can fall into when you have used up all of your energy on that first day in your new place.
Good luck!
Moving, can’t even contemplate it, just looking around at what would have to be moved is a nightmare. Living in the same house for over 20 years spinning,knitting,reading, husband’s wood shop, yup nightmare. On the positive side, think how wonderful to have empty space to fill with things you want,need and love and you might even find something wonderful you forgot you owned.
The worst part of moving is that I did it 5 times in the space of just under 2 years. Two of those were cross country (from CA to MD and back again.) All of the moves included two adults, two children, two cats, and at least one spinning wheel. Yikes!
Howdy … I moved from Canada to Colorado US in 1998 and waited EIGHT long weeks to get my clothes and furniture, only to learn that the shipper did NOT do the border crossing forms properly. Finally got the paperwork done, but the driver phoned me and demanded some cash otherwise he would dump my clothes and furniture in the ditch, so I ask him how much and said I would have some cash on hand. The truck finally arrived, I was missing many boxes, I made the driver unload it and a few new friends helped me deliver it to my new apartment. Also alerted the police who showed up and had a really fierce chat with the driver. The delivery truck left very quickly after the chat with police and I kept my cash on hand for my new friends who helped me unload! The moving company went out of business 3 weeks later. The move was the most stressful in my life, but … I met the most interesting people and had the best time of my life while in Colorado and made more friends down there than I ever had in Canada. So hang in there, your move will be stressful right now, but it will be for the better. Best of luck and HUGS to you!
I remember when I went off to college in my freshman year. I was incredibly excited to be leaving the family house, getting away, and going off on my own. Then a couple of weeks after I left, I got a phone call from my mom saying that my parents were divorcing and we had to move, ASAP. So, between August and November, she packed up all of our stuff, found a new house, and was out. The worst part about that? Coming home at Thanksgiving to a new house and not having any control over the leaving or the process. The best part? Coming home to a new house and having everything put nicely away already! Hopefully the next time I move won’t be quite as dramatic.
The best thing about moving is, in my opinion, that it forces you to go through your stuff and get rid of things that you’d forgotten about or don’t want anymore. The worst thing, though, is having to go through all of it in the first place, box it up, and then deal with having your life be in boxes for days or weeks! (In my case, we moved out of our old house and had to put stuff in storage for a month before we could move into the new house, so it was a real challenge trying to figure out what we had with us and what was in a box in storage.)
Well the best thing about moving is that you get rid of a lot of stuff that you have but no need. It is the best time to inventory all your stuff! My worst was a couple moves ago. We had hired movers to make the move smoother, we arrived at the new house only to find that the old people (and all their stuff) were still there. After a frantic call to our lawyers we were advised that there was some sort of glitch – never did find out exactly what – and that we would not have posession of the house until the next day. Well the movers had another job the next day – so we had to rent a storage unit – have all our stuff put in there – and the next day we had to rent a truck and move the stuff ourselves. Not a great move. Good luck to you. Thanks for the great contest.
Ok, the worst part of moving is the packing and realizing how much stuff you have acquired that you didn’t remember buying. Though, it’s not much better if you hire people. When I was younger and moving form CA to FL a member of our moving team and a member of the packing team actually got into a fist fight in the middle of getting us out. My mom actually locked them out of the house until the manager resolved the issue.
Of course the best part is related to the worst part though. The best part is finding all the stuff that you love that you forgot you had. And maybe I’m a dork, but I do love setting up a new place.
Well the best thing about moving for me is the chance to re-make myself, from cleaning out old junk I never use to meeting new people.
And the worst I’ve had (I realize this could be worse!)… The last time I moved was just across town, but I was supposed to have an evening and entire day to clean, move fragile and small things, and then bust out the furniture with a truck after friends got off work. The idiot vacating my apartment was under the impression he didn’t have to be out until 48 hours after I was supposed to start moving in! So I couldn’t move anything until 3 hours before the friend with a truck was ready, and then I had to clean the whole place because the guy moving out was a pig and didn’t clean anything. I’m pretty sure he hadn’t cleaned the toilet once in the year he lived there. So, nothing fragile or small was moved before truck time, so while the guys were moving big stuff, I was trying to keep the breakables from getting crushed, and to top it off, I had forgotten about the storage above the garage- which was mostly junk I could have gotten rid of, but I had to be out of that house that night, so I had one friend bagging it all up to haul to the new place to sort out later! Even with a number of friends helping, I wasn’t finished moving until 2am… with the person moving into my old place coming at 8am! Went to my new home, couldn’t find sheets or sleeping bag in the whirlwind, slept on the floor, got up at 5am to take the truck back and clean my old place before new people came. But, at least it inspired to me get rid of a lot of stuff so my next move won’t be such a hassle!
Thank you for the opportunity to win! Would love to try some of your fiber. Here’s my story – maybe it will help you feel better… maybe not.
Me & my Wm moved from Indiana to Oregon in January 1996. First time either one of us was moving way far away from any & all family. On top of feeling lonely, scared and a bit timid about venturing into the unknown – here’s what happened: a big, BIG storm in Nebraska, pulling a uhaul trailer (packed full), Interstate closed (ice, then lotsa snow), in the morning after staying overnight in Lincoln we decided to go around the still closed interstate (side roads). OMG! abandoned cars – with their doors open – everywhere along the new route, weaving, dodging and wondering if we got stuck if anyone would be able to help us. There’s more, but thought that you might already get the idea. We made it ok, but don’t EVER want to do that again.
Hope your move is better than that one. really.
Best Wishes,
Polly
Moving is a pain however, the new possibilities that open up are exciting. Also, you get to declutter (sick, I know, but I enjoy it), focus on projects for the new place, etc.
I can’t think of any of my moves that haven’t been good for one reason or the other.
The best part of moving is having a fresh canvas to decorate the way you want to. Love getting to paint a new place. The worst part is definitely the packing up of stuff. I always try to label boxes well, but there is always at least one or two things that get lost into the black hole between place one and place 2. I am still looking for a salad bowl that I know I had!
This is only from my personal experience, but here goes:
The best part about this recent move? That my husband and I moved into our first home that we actually own. It’s such a great feeling to own a home.
The worst part? Well this is a two parter, first is finding that the husband’s family axiom, “It always rains when a Kraft moves” has yet again come true and the second is that I was confined to bed rest due to a pregnancy complication and couldn’t help at all. (I know that doesn’t necessarily sound all that bad, but being the can-do person that I am, not being able to help at all really killed me!).
I’d say that my as my most recent moves have only included moving to a new dorm room, my experiences have been pretty mild. But when you’re a college student who has as many things as I do and you have to carry them up four flights of stairs by yourself…well. Moving by yourself (even a relatively small move) sucks.
But I think the best part of moving in is finding a new home for everything!
The best part of moving: finding new friends and new associations. Your move will place you in an area where you will have a very active fiber community. We will welcome you to our lives. (I am not really close to Charlotteville, but in Virginia, and we do all take care of our own).
The worst part: having everything in the “wrong” place for a long time. Everything is just hard.
I have had several moving catastrophes that seemed awful at the time, but, as I thought about writing this, the worst memory was of something that didn’t seem that bad at the time.
When we made our last move, it was a phased move that required that most of our household good be stored for a year. During that year, we needed to minimize our baggage. I saved out some very special fiber and planned projects that didn’t have a lot of bulk. I also minimized the toys for my 5-year-old son. He was a trouper, on the whole, but after the movers took all of our boxes to storage, he looked for his very large stuffed (angora-style) rabbit. I told him that I had put it in storage, and he was heart-broken. After his initial tears, he didn’t say anything until the movers arrived at our final destination. When the boxes started coming off of the truck, he quietly asked if we could unpack the rabbit first. We had to unpack several boxes from his room before we found it.
My son is 17 now, and doesn’t say anything about the rabbit anymore, but it is still on a shelf in his room, and I think of the importance it held for him every time I see it. I am sorry that I was so short-sighted in my packing, but still cherish the lessons it taught me about my son.
The best part of moving is being forced to PURGE your possessions and weed out the accumulation of stuff that has been weighing you down. It feels so good when you’re done. It’s also the worst part – while you are actually doing it.
The worst part of moving is packing and unpacking! the best part is the chance to reorganize everything and put everything in the proper new place and then sit back and say “aah, that’s lovely!”
i have moved far too many times in my life. i am a virgo for chrissake!!! we dont like disorder, chaos or tumult. and those words define moving in a rather diplomatic way. of course the up side of moving for a virgo is the chance to CLEAN and toss out stuff. and to ORGANIZE stuff, boy are we into alphabetizing and color coding…
i am always a bit cranky and a LOT a bit “b*tchy” when setting up for the move. but boy am i a happy camper when all is neat as a pin when its over!
and of course there is the sense of adventure, of a new home and new things to decorate and new friends and old friends along for the ride.
keep your chin up, it will be over before ya know it!
(((hugggssss)))
One of the best things about moving is decorating. That is one of my favorite things about moving.
My horror story and reason I will NOT be going to New Mexico anytime soon was during my move from San Diego to Chicago. I rented a Penske truck and trailor for the car. First of all never have driven a huge truck before, let alone with a trailer towing my vehicle. Thankfully a good friend drove with me out to Phoenix, AZ. My cat, Lecky, would not stop mewing the entire way unless you put a towel over his carrying case. Poor guy was like a parakeet. Driving out of Albuquerque, NM, I stopped at a Native American knick-knack shop to look around and use the bathroom. No big, right? Get back in the truck and drive out about 300 miles east. During this time there are storm clouds, hellish winds and just bad vibes. So I raced to get to the next gas station to get away from this bad weather. Turns out 50 miles north of my position there were tornadoes. Not cool. As I go to fill up my tank there is no debit card or credit card in my back pocket. I tore through that entire cab to try and find it. Luckily I kept the phone card from my ex-husband’s deployment and called Mom. Sure I would have used my cell phone, but guess what, NO BARS! My mother had to go to the bank and wire me $700. In the mean time I called the places I had stopped at to see if any of them had my card. Finally I get to the place of where I stopped just to potty, they have my card. It popped out of my pocket as I left the store and a lady had turned it in. Thank goodness. Next I turned around to go pick it up and when I get there the place is closed. Again another night with the cat mewing the entire way and spending another night in the truck. The next day I got my card, purchased some stuff and head out home.
To top it all off, I almost lost my car off the trailer in Missouri and my cat wouldn’t use the washroom, barely drank or ate anything.
The one night we stayed at a hotel I was boxed in and couldn’t leave until a nice gentlemen came out and moved his vehicle.
Moving across country really really sucks.
Moving is wonderful!! I get to clean, organize and repurpose everything in the entire house. I love that… Giving my treasures away to thrilled friends, family and strangers provides a lot of pleasure. I see that gorgeous glitzy roving that I couldn’t live without (4 years ago – lol) go to a smiling, giddy recipient who can’t believe I could part with it.
Starting fresh with a brand new, absolutely pristine canvas (the new house) is exhilarating (even though I’m wiped out and smell like bleach and Mr. Clean….blech)
I moved – at least – every 6 months, for the first 17 years of my life. There’s a “zen” flow and calm if you just use your imagination and run with the inevitable (not to mention a firm grip on fantasy and denial..).
So…. I’m so happy and envious of your impending move. I’ve been in the same house for the last 2 years….hmmmm.. might be getting close to a move
Barbara
From one NE transplant to the mid-Altantic to another – welcome! My husband and I just moved into a new (to us, but an old) house 6 months ago. The worst part about moving? Everything – if it can go wrong, it usually does. The best part? 6 months later when your memory of how bad it was has finally faded a bit and you are finally feeling somewhat settled in your new place.
My husband and I managed to move in the middle of a blizzard. We moved out of our apartment into our first house. My father in law showed up with an enclosed trailer to put all our large furniture in. When we got to the house we had to shovel almost two feet of snow out of the driveway! I think that took longer than the actual moving furniture into the house. We also couldn’t put anything down on recently refinished hardwood floors (which includes the whole first floor except kitchen and bathroom). Everything was piled up in the kitchen while we stayed with the in laws for a week. I will never move during the winter again. For that matter, I don’t think I will ever move again if I can help it!
The best part of moving?? Usually you are moving into a better place with more room for yarn/fiber storage!!
The worst part of moving is moving. Packing labeling, finding all of those things that you should have thrown away YEARS ago, moving boxes, hurting your back, almost losing your dog (cause he though it would be fun to try to make an escape while you were moving the TV)!!
Just remember that it is all worth it though!!
Packing has to be the worst part of moving. It never ends. My husband was still packing as the movers were moving stuff out. I never want to move again.
My story is about helping a wonderful friend of mine move in October of last year. Frank is 83 and decided to sell his house that he lived in for 50+ years to move in with a dear lady who he was great friends with her mother and father. He moved to West Virginia from Virginia. He did not have anyone to help so I volunteered because he is such a wonderful blessing to me..Anyway, the house is FULL of treasures and stuff. Actually, there was nothing bad about this for me except for carrying heavy stuff from downstairs and entering a few dark cubbyholes. He still had a lot of his mother’s things (pocketbooks, clothes, shoes, hats, etc) all I could see was VINTAGE and TREASURES. Frank had so many memories in this house and it was hard for him to move. As I packed boxes with him, he shared such marvelous and genuine stories with me. I cried when he showed me his brother’s (who died in WWII) purple heart and laughed at so many stories. We found things in places you would not of thought of (his mother’s pocketbook was in the oven drawer and wonderful pictures that he had put away in a closet) He was very generous to me as he gave me some of his mother’s treasures but more than anything it was a blessing to me as he shared his most private memories and stories with me. I will always treasure my time with him. I do visit him in West Virginia and talk to him everyweek since he has moved. He has been such a wonderful mentor to me and my husband…
Worst part: owning lots of books and having to pack, haul, and unpack them…my last move involved hauling said books up a flight of 32 or so steps (it was a good workout though)
Best part: moving to a great neighborhood with a yard
The best part of moving is getting to arrange your furniture and putting furniture together. I love building things!
Worst part of moving: packing. I actually have anxiety disorder over packing (even bags for vacation), and so after about 20 minutes of packing I get overwhelmed and the world literally starts swimming over my head and I feel nauseous. You can’t imagine how long it takes for me to pack to move then. And how many times I feel sick to my stomach. Aaaah!
Worst thing about moving is packing up boxes, I can never find the right sized boxes nor the right system for packing. Best thing about moving is clearing out old things that needed to go, but had found a home in your old place.
For some reason i become a nin-com-poop during a move. The last time I moved, my wife and I had to move the fish in a small open top aquarium. So as expected, I got my wife all wet with my driving, but then to top it off… I wanted to stop off on the way over to the new place for a donut and coffee… I don’t know why she was so miffed at me for those first few months.. But i am sure she had her reasons.
Moving is hell. However, moving from west coast to east coast with you father-in-law in the car “helping” you is a whole deeper avenue of hell. Five whole days, 24/7, of him complaining the whole way. Thing is, we didn’t ask him to help. He insisted. Insisted and complained all the way from OR to PA.
There was a funny part, this was the early 90’s before everyone had cell phones, so we had CB’s in the cars. That way we could tell the other car if we needed to get gas, go potty, etc. Well, in true father-in-law form, he started complaining (surprise!) on the CB. The thing is, he was complaining about the trucks and truck drivers on the road. Did he not think the truck drivers listened to CB’s? Duh! So then for several minutes, various truck drivers told him what they thought of him and the language was VERY colourful! hee hee (just desserts, right?… hee hee )
Our last move was international, and we pared down our belongings and lives to very very little. The movers came in January to pack up all that we were taking with us (including our bed — a month on a blow up bed was too much!). We arrived in the United Kingdom in mid-February and in APRIL when our possessions finally arrived, we were happier than I could have imagined. Our 6 year old daughter dumped all of her toys out of their boxes into a huge pile in the middle of her very small room, turned to me and said, ‘Hooray! I’ll never be bored again!’
Such statements (which she has heard again and again) are worth all the pain and suffering of moving. May you hear (say?) a few yourself!
Wow…moving. Something I always, always dread!!! I think that the worst is realizing how much cr*p you’ve accumulated and wonder where the heck it all come from and what you are going to do with all of it. Of course, I have to keep this because I got it at this place or oh! I remember this from being a little kid. What a pain. I do think that the best part though is starting over because sometimes we just need it. Being able to get reorganized and reestablish yourself can be a great feeling…though looking at all the boxes can be a bit overwhelming after the move once unpacking starts. But in the end…no matter what, though it’s a pain, it can also mean good things, just have to look at it positively.
I have never moved in my entire life. My parents moved in this house when I was 4. I am 52 now and now alone in the house. My dad passed away in Nov, 2005 and my mother just passed away on 6-12-09 from a brain tumor. I am buying the house from my siblings.
The best part of moving is the excitement of new adventures and new beginnings (including new yarn shops!) The worst – saying goodbye.
The worst thing that’s happened during my numerous moved actually happened the day before I moved out of my parent house to go live with my hubby. The water filter in the kitchen (above my room) sprung a serious leak at 2am. I woke to water pouring on my head. I had to skip my last day of work to dry everything out in prep for the move.
I’ve moved many many times in my life…the worst thing? Definitely the chaos, disorganization and general unsettledness. The best thing? A fresh start can be great for the soul! New chances and endless possibilities!
10 years ago we moved from southern Florida to north central Vermont. We cleand out most of our house and only moved kitchen stuff, linens, bed, etc so our moving van consisted of my husband’s truck towing a large u-haul trailer and my truck packed with stuff.
The worst part? Following my husband in said truck and u-haul trailer on I-95 and getting separated in Washington D.C. and getting in a total panic.
The best part? Moving to an absolutely beautiful place where I’ve learned to knit and spin and become a total fiberholic!
The best part about moving is going somewhere new; I’ve done a lot of really major moves in my life. That can also be one of the hardest parts.
The worst part of moving is unpacking. The last time I moved was the day before Thanksgiving, 2007–and my dining room still has unpacked boxes. It took me a year to unpack the kitchen. (Obviously, I’m not big on home cooking.)
And moving with pets is a special trial…
When we moved into our house back in 96 we decided to do it all on our own. The house needed so much work that we moved everything into one room and then fixed up the next room and shuffled. My son decided to learn to crawl and we were not prepared to deal with that, then we damaged the old place getting an oversized couch out of the basement. It took us 3 days to fix the dry wall damage. We were finally moved in and settled a year (yes an entire year later). We have not moved since
Best part of moving: Finally escaping all of the broken and dysfunctional things in your old home.
Worst part of moving: Discovering all of the different things that don’t work in your new home.
The worst part of moving is leaving behind so much of what you know and love.
The best part, while it is sometimes hard to keep in mind, is all the new experiences and things that never would have occurred otherwise. To be able to learn and grow in a way you would have never imagined.
The worst part of moving for me—ever—was having to miss my grandpa’s funeral. The best part is being in such a beautiful part of the country now.
Best part of moving: fresh cupboards that have nothing in them. I love the illusion that I can arrange my stuff and it will remain neatly organized.
Worst part of moving: We redid the floor in our old kitchen before we moved. The company in charge did such a horrible job that we had to have someone else redo the entire thing. It took 6-8 months to receive a refund check from the first company. On the bright side, they paid for my spinning wheel!
Oh, dear – I’ve moved so many times just the thought of moving again gives me anxiety attacks
. My dad was in the Air Force and we moved ever 3 years or so, and it was pretty much the same as he got a job in the civilian world, as a matter of fact my freshman year in high school I went to 4 different school starting in the Phillipines and then in 3 different states (that was the year he retired.) I hate the packing, because you have the same old problem, do I keep this or give it away or toss it? That was the reason I kept it in the first place ;P. I hate making decision!!!! I never minded the unpacking as much, because there was no real time line to get it unpacked, as a matter of fact I moved into my apt here in IA last April and still have 1/2 of the boxes yet to unpack ;P.
The best part about moving is making new friends and finding new knitters and spinners to share your craft with. I have friends all over the USA and it’s awesome. Learning how to get from one place to another in a new place is not great fun, but finding all the best places to shop and eat at are an adventure. I wish you peace as you pack – don’t forget to spin a little each day to unwind at the end of the day, it really does help
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The worst part of moving is reducing your life into boxes… Taking everything apart, (seeing how big your stash really is!!!), moving it around, everyone hates it. But the best part is starting afresh… I moved into my New Bedroom last month, and while the first few days it was so strange, now it is really mine. It’s different from my old room in my old house, but it’s mine.
The best part of moving is a fresh start and a new place with new things.
The worst part is leaving friends. The whole packing and unpacking thing isn’t very fun either. Plus the past few times I have moved it has either been really hot or raining!
oh do I have a moving story! We were moving from Philadelphia, PA to Tucson, AZ. Hubby was driving his car, with 3 dogs, a hamster, and a mini frog. His sister was going along for company. He had only gotten about 30 miles outside of Philly, when the car had a problem – just a window situation. Easily fixed, and they were on their way after just 1/2 day delay. Yeah sure, they thought it was easy going. The car broke down a total of 6 more times. Nobody could fix it. Hubby and his sister spent days in crummy hotels, eating crummy food, waiting for his damn (sorry) beloved Mercedes to get fixed. Sis finally flew home from St Louis. It took him almost 2 weeks to get to Tucson – leaving the car behind somewhere in Texas. Renting a car. Driving back for the car after delivering the dogs to me. At that point, we were living in an empty house – waiting for the truck with all our wordly belongings to arrive. It was me, a 11 year old, a 9 year old, 3 cats, a rabbit (who flew on the plane with us). The cats had gone ahead with a friend who drove my car out with the cats. An empty house, and a husband missing somewhere in the US with his damn (sorry) Mercedes. Did I mention that this was July? It’s about 110 degrees in Tucson in July. And now I have the 3 dogs too. We’re sleeping in sleeping bags on air mattresses in our big new empty house. oh the story goes on and on……
GOOD LUCK MOVING!!!!
Moving sure can be hell. As a military brat and later a member of the military my self I have had to move a few times. Grin I have heard about the time we moved from Japan to California. The parents got here with 5 kids, one a baby less then a year old and NONE of our household goods had arrived. That meant no clothes, no pots or pans, no dishes, no furniture, etc and they were informed that it would be at LEAST a month before they would arrive. Mom got to be an expert in using her new electric skillet during that month and half it actually took for them to arrive.
My worst experience also involved an overseas move. I did not watch the packers closely enough on this side of the ocean and when our goods arrived about 2 months later there was a definite ODER to them. Silly packers had packed the full trash can from the kitchen …..
Try moving a Domestic Violence shelter and it’s legal offices from one secret location to another. 150 boxes, the contents of the shelter from pillow cases to food to toys along with the belongings of 5 clients and the 5 clients, the contents of 10 staff offices, the playroom toys and shelves, the contents of the storage room, all the food in the pantry, the contents of the legal offices, the contents of the attic, more file cabinets than I want to remember, and one staff member who had to be taken kicking and screaming and had not packed one thing. Oh and I forgot that we moved the crisis hot line and the phone system too.
Months of packing and 3 days of moving to move 3 blocks away. Starting at 7am and ending at 8pm.
By the end of the 3rd day they found me huddled in a corner in the legal wing. I don’t remember how I got there or why, just that I was trembling and exhausted. I left that job 6 months later after I was convinced everything had been unpacked and put in its place.
Several years later I was working at a Mental Health Center and when they built a new building and were planning to move I ran away from a great job out of fear.
I agree I never want to move again.
Hopefully no one slashes the tires of your moving van during the night before you move after you and your true friends have spent all day loading it. The next day you would have to unload everything in 1 van into another van. That would be really sad. Then all those delays led to unpacking the second van at your new home in an early snow storm. That would be really cold and really sad. If that happens, call me because I know how it feels.
The best part of moving is the unknown- what the neighbors will be like, how it will feel to wake up in a new space. The worst? Every part of packing. Finding boxes, packing the boxes, moving the boxes, then taking the stuff out of the boxes again (ugh!), disposing of the boxes. I hate every part of packing.
We hope to finish moving today. And it is hell, I agree with you. Yesterday we found out what a mess it was, especially when you have to get the house entirely empty. The dust mites were hiding behind the closets that we had to take away, and as my DH and I are both allergic, we were out of breath in no time. We thought we were almost dying in there. Our sons only could watch and see, without being able to help, as our meds for it were in the new house. Today we have to tear out the carpets on the floors and get rid of them all. It is a nightmare.
Still, I got sick of it and had a fever yesterday evening. The new house at the moment is still a mess. We have to arrange things into the cupboards and there is no time yet to do it. Knitting or spinning is out of the question – everything is still packed.
But the misery started a little over a month ago actually. On Sept 2, we were able to accept the new house. Two days later, my father passed away. Unexpectedly. He is missed. The combination moving and a death in the family is a disaster by itself. The housing company gave us an extention in time though, but still I feel I am running against deadlines. It is a mess, and a nightmare. I did not have time to greeve about his passing, and feel that I need to. Ah well…we hope to clear the old house entirely today, then arranging in the new house will begin. I think it will take me an additional month to become entirely settled.
Last but not least… we will have to buy ourselves a new telephone. Our old one quit working.
Strength to you though!
The best part of moving is that you discover things you forgot you had.
The worst part is that you lose track of all the things you remember that you have.
Good – starting over in a new place. No one knows you, no one has expectations, you’re new.
Worst experience – moving to a small town – one traffic light and this was back in the days when waterbeds were popular. Finding out that you lost the hose attachment to the sink so you can fill your bed – on a Sunday, in a small town. The two hardware stores were closed, everything was closed but the grocery store and the video store. Did I mention that this was a small town?
The bed didn’t get filled until the next day when the hardware store was open.
Best thing about moving, is the excitement of actually having more closet space!
Worst part is when all your “help” leaves, and you see all the stuff that has to be put away — by you.
I used to drive truck with my now ex, and we worked for a moving company……can you say piano upstairs? can you say german shrunk down stairs? or having to park the rig 2 blocks away and reload into a small pick up to get it to the house and then there is only a one acre walk to the front door!!! some of the best people I ever met and some of the worst as well, best advice, don’t do it for a living……
Oh, moving! You have my sympathies! So many stories to tell, I could bore you silly. But here’s the thing — it ends. It ends eventually, and you will be in your new place, and you can start fresh, and put everything just where you want it to go, and decide how you want the rooms to look, and then it’s lovely. And then one day, it starts to feel like home, and that’s a wonderful moment. Hang in there — you’ll get there!
I’ve twittered about your giveaway.
I moved myself, 2 cats, and 18 birds from Kansas to California. Driving the box truck, towing my car through snow in New Mexico, down the mountains through a controlled burn in Arizona, with confused elk herds coming out of the smoke into the road, and trying to keep the dense smoke out of the truck so it wouldn’t hurt the birds……then fighting winds on the road in California. Then moving back a few years later–only now with a dog added to the mix. Moving sucks!
The best part of moving is that you get to sort out all your stuff and keep only the things that are really important to you. In my case “everything”. I’m a real pack rat, I know I’ll be able to use all of my stuff eventually.
The worst part of moving is, well moving. I’ve never really had to move. I’ve lived in my house for 35 years and I really can’t imagine moving. I have too much stuff..
The worst part of moving, IMHO, is all of the cleaning you have to do once you pack all of your stuff up and move it out. Tons of dust, vacuuming, mopping – UGH!
The best part? Moving to my home state so I get to visit your wonderful farm some day. I live in the Roanoke Valley and can’t wait to come and see you. You’re going to love Virginia. Fall is simply stunning. There are tons of beautiful vineyards. The beach and the mountains aren’t that far away. Life in general skips along at quieter pace once you get away from the urban areas. Best of luck with your move and welcome to Virginia
Here’s my bad moving story: when I was in 7th grade, me and my dad were forced to move out of my childhood home because it was tear-gassed and destroyed by the police! (long story, but the gist is that a triple-murder suspect ran in there when the police tracked him to my neighborhood) I was on a school camping trip when it happened, and my dad was at his girlfriend’s house. He came home the next morning to find our home in ruins, and all our belongings poisoned. I had to spend the next several months living full-time with my mom (they had joint custody), and my dad was a nomad until we found a new place.
Maybe that’s why I hate moving. Or maybe it’s because I’ve moved at least once a year every year of my adult life (except this one!) — I don’t know why it always feels so traumatic, because I really love the new start of a new place…
But GOOD LUCK with your move. Thinking of you and sending warm hugs your way!
I’m pretty sure the worst part about moving is trying to maneuver that damn mattress up and down staircases, while remaining bodily unharmed! I have had quite a number of near-death experiences involving said mattresses.
The best, on the other hand could be any number of fabulous things: new dish towels, the pizza and beer you feel entitled to once it’s all done, that 26′ U-Haul you just pulled into the gas station like a pro. But at the end of the day, the very best part, as someone said, is when it’s over!
The worst part of moving is, besides the actual move, leaving behind what you know and what you’re comfortable with.
Ironically, the best part of moving is actually the same thing. It’s a chance to move outside your comfort zone. To meet new people and forge new relationships, and I’m convinced that every time you move somewhere, you learn something new about yourself. Don;t let moving just be a change of place…its a chance to rethink who you are, and to get to know yourself that much better.
I’ll post this contest on my blog.
The worst part of moving for me is all the heavy lifting and sweating. Bleh! The best part is the adventure and excitement of someplace new. No stories, I’m afraid, but I haven’t done much moving. I’ll be doing my first trans-continental move in about a year.
I can understand your freaking out at moving. Although I haven’t moved for a good 10 years now, until the age of 21 my family moved every 4 years or less.
The worst thing about moving? As a kid, it was always meeting the new kids in school, sometimes in the middle of the year (and being mocked for my “posh English” accent, which was actually one of the commonest-sounding accents you could get…)
Best thing? Not that I would have looked at it from this angle as a kid, but now I think it’s being forced to cull. All those random objects that have hidden in a corner somewhere since the last time you moved… time to chuck them out!
Good luck moving.
I’ve moved most of my life… starting as a military kid and ending as a theater person; 25 moves in 47 years (16 cities, 12 states, 2 countries).
I’ve never cared for the actual physical work of packing. Especially as an adult I find it a lot of carrying and lifting and stacking. And the need to weed out and toss things? I hate that part.
And the leaving of friends. That’s hard, very hard.
But the clean slate? I LOVE that part. From putting up my art on the new white walls, to learning the paths and roadways about me. Even the meeting of new people can be exciting… new ideas, new possibilities. I love it!
I have twittered about this contest. The worst part of moving is all of it except for the actual new home part. I hav moved almost every year sometimes more the last 13 years and I still have a couple of boxes unpacked from 1999. However, the best part about moving is the liberating feeling of throwing junk away (I donate the rest).
The worse part about moving is packing and unpacking. I also get nervous watching the movers and making sure they don’t break our stuff!
The worse part of moving – to unpack. Got so much work to do in the new place, that unpacking look so unimportant, but you need some dishes to cook and some cloths to change
well, I moved countries twice (US and UK) and I’m not sure we are done yet. It’s not fun.
Best part? Seriously going through stuff and lightening the load.
Worst part? Stressful and having to leave behind stuff I love. Plus, it’s just exhausting.
Best, best part? When it’s over with.
Good luck.
other than having to organize, throw out/recycle tons of JUNK, seriously, the worse thing is having to leave behind the contacts, friends, and relationships developed with people over the years. moving to a new place can be a bit scary–having to start over!
The best part of moving is starting over with a clean slate, purging of all the clutter that begins to consume our lives when we stay in one place too long. The worst part is that when you’re in the middle of the move it seems like it’ll never end. We recently moved with a 7 month old baby and it was awful. Our previous moves have involved 2 hard working adults, but this time one of us had to care for our demanding baby much of the time. We had a lot of long nights and finally got out of our house at midnight on the morning we were supposed to vacate. Once we were out of the old place, I was so much more optimistic! Best of luck to you with your move…Can’t wait to see the new farm. Oh, and I would do almost ANYTHING for some of that cormo – wish I lived closer, I’d even help you move
Let’s see now. The best part of moving has got to be the fresh start, the new garden, the chance to clean up and simplify life. The worst part, well, that’s a tie between having to pack and disrupting the cats!
The best thing about moving is putting away the things in your new kitchen!
The worst is not having movers lol. My husband and I were moving by ourselves, and we were carrying the couch, him going backwards and me on the other end. As we were going through the door, he misjudged the distance and one side of the couch slammed against the side of the doorjam, and in turn, my face slammed into the couch. I got a chipped tooth and a busted lip out of that one.
The worst part of moving is the planning and worrying. The best part is the first night in the new house….whether your stuff has arrived or not. I moved from TX to TN with my “senior” (17 yo) cat…we slept on the blow-up air mattress the first night and it was perfect! Better of course once the furniture arrived!
The worst move was the worst! It started with a buyer for the house that strung me along for a month before backing out of the deal! Because of that I lost my first mover, and had to rescind the offer on my new house. Luckily a new buyer came along, the house I wanted hadn’t sold, and a new mover was found. Not a good mover, but a mover.
The best part is the new neighborhood – everything I had hoped for, and great neighbors!
The best part of moving? Starting all over again fresh, in a new, clean place, with no leftover shmutz in the corners that you’re too lazy to get up when you sweep or vacuum.
The worst part of moving is absolutely the long, slow drudgery of UNPACKING. We’ve been in this place for three and a half years, and there are still boxes I haven’t unpacked. Yuck.
The best part of moving is throwing out all the junk and having everything put away neatly in the new home. The worst part of moving is going through all the junk to find what you want to keep. Good Luck!
The best part is getting somewhere new to explore. He worst part is getting somewhere so unfamiliar.
The worst part about moving is the packing and physically moving the stuff.
Best part, as you unpack, you fall in love with your stuff all over again.
The worst part about moving? We just moved from Germany to Texas, and I would say the Very Worst Part is having to leave our community of friends behind and starting fresh in our new place. It’s sad, and a little scary. We’re a military family, so this isn’t the first time we’ve had to do it, and I feel like we leave little pieces of our hearts behind every time.
The best part of moving, as so many have said, is the fresh start with new scenery.
The worst part, for me, is all the packing, loading, and unpacking. All but one of my moves have been DIY and, although it was nice having guys lift the really heavy stuff, I’m not sure having movers took any less of my time.
My worst move was from Georgia to Texas . . . in August . . . with a cat, two dogs, a herd of Nubian goats . . . a large U-Haul, a small car, a horse trailer, and a van. The first day out, the horse trailer got a flat and the small car caught fire and incinerated. The second day, a Sunday, the U-Haul developed engine problems in Meridian, MS and we had to check into a hotel. Temps were around 105 degrees so I slipped the hotel clerk some cash and he let me mist my animals to keep them cool until U-Haul got us on the road again the next day. Ah, good times. Thanks for the memories!
At least heat and blizzard (I moved in one of those once, too) won’t be factors in your move to VA.
I hope it’s a smooth journey for all.
The best part of moving is getting to go thru all your stuff and figure out what you need and don’t need. And all the reorganizing that goes with it is pretty awesome too.
The worst parts about it are moving into a house that is smaller than the one you used to live in, moving to a place that you weren’t supposed to move to and having to find a new favorite EVERYTHING. Totally frustrating! And then to know we are going to do it again in three years! Having a hubba in the navy is never dull!
Normally, I would say the worst part of moving is the embarrassing unveiling of just how big (each of) your stash(es) is (are). That’s what happended to me – for knitting, weaving, spinning, beading and general crafting. Yikes!
However, the worst thing about my cross country move last year (CA to FL) was that only about 2/3 of our “stuff” was coming and about 1/4 of our furniture. So I had to sort everything thing we own, room by room, labeling what stayed and what was to go before the movers came – and that usually meant physically having to rearrange and separate everything. It was far from fun! Then we drove our SUV cross country with my two cats and towing our boat. The even worst part? This is only a temporary corporate move, so in about a year when we go back to CA I have to do the packing and unpacking thing and the cross coutnry trip all over again. And you know that all that stuff will never fit back where it came from when we move it back! Not looking forward to that part of “going home!” So, two cross country moves in two years – I wouldn’t recommend it, LOL!
i agree with those who’ve said that the best part of a move is the fresh start and new clean space to make your own.
the worst part is definitely the last three boxes or bags of crap that you have to haul out of the house when you really thought you were just about done. it’s always the dirtiest, dustiest, difficult to pack crap that you really don’t want to throw away – the dustpan, extension cords, parts of furniture you’ve already loaded into the truck – but really wish you didn’t have to deal with after packing up everything else.
Hmmmmm, most difficult move was when my husband got a job in Tokyo for two years. He went ahead and found a small house while I packed what we would need and got our house clean for his parents to house-sit while we were gone (someone should have told me this was an atrocious plan for a whole bunch of reasons). Did I mention that I had a 3 year old and a 5 year old to take care of. So we get on the plane to Tokyo and it is the wrong time of the day for the kids to sleep so they were coming unglued being in this tiny space for umpteen hours. So we get to Tokyo in what was the middle of our night and had to stand in long lines for immigration and customs where we couldn’t read or understand the language…with a 3 year old and a 5 year old who were both now exhausted. At one point my son curled up on the floor in the immigration line to try to sleep and a kindly official saw this and helped us through the process more quickly. Then we had to take a train for several hours into Tokyo, then transfer to the local trains that were too crowded for us to sit down and then we were picked up at the train station by my husband’s new boss (when I had now been up for 48 hours, travel rumpled and bleary eyed) who drove us to the new house. My kids were amazing through all this but I will never, ever, EVER be critical of some poor parent with a crying kid who is losing it while traveling. We grownups can’t even fathom how hard it is for those children.
The best parts are getting to decorate a new home and getting to know a new neighborhood. Packing is undoubtedly one of the worst parts. We had to downsize from a 3 BR to a 1 BR and get rid of a lot of stuff. I had a grand piano to get rid of. It was old and a former player grand. I arranged to trade it for credit for a new piano. The movers refused to take it. I was in a panic thinking I would have to pay to have it hauled away. I found a dealer out of a warehouse who said they’d take it and it turned out it was the same dealer with a different name because it was a warehouse. Same piano movers came and this time they had to take the old piano. They were pissed, cursing, and grumbling but they did take the piano and I didn’t have to pay them!
Best move:Massachusetts to Oregon. My sister and I took two weeks and had us a Road Trip. Worst move: From Oregon to Tennessee. I lost my friends who had our stuff. My mom had misunderstood the directions and given them the wrong directions. This was way before everyone had cell phones and they were tired and cranky(with good reason) by the time we found them.
The best part is the new start offered by a new place. No dust in the corners or closets you haven’t seen the back of for years. The worst part is the heavy lifting and nicks and cracks that are inevitable when you are doing it yourself.
Lovely site. Can’t wait for the day I can call myself a spinner…
My hellish move was when I was travel nursing in Flagstaff,Az. The agency put me in an Apt. It was my first assignment as a travel nurse. My husband died there while I was at work. To make a long story short, I just couldn’t stay in the Apt that he died in. So the agency gave me another apt across town. My kids had come up to help me out. We had to move in 2 days during a terrible snow storm that dumped 2 feet of snow overnight. It was so bad, I got the Uhaul stuck in the snow. A couple of college kids kept standing around, laughing at us trying to get the Uhaul out. Actually it motivated me. I keep trying until I did it! It was the worst time of my life. My kids always remind me of that snow storm when I get down. They think that since I got through that, I can get through anything! (Me too!)
The worst part of moving, to me, is packing! In some ways, it is also a good thing, as it helps you to destash some of your excess clutter because you don’t want to be bothered to move it! I am determined to significantly downsize my belongings before the next move, because our last one was just so frustrating, due to the amount of stuff we had to pack.
The best thing about moving is making a fresh start in a new (to you) home in a new community. It feels like beginning with a clean slate and emotionally opens you up to new opportunities!
I am tweeting about your amazing spinners stash giveaway! Thanks for doing this! If I don’t win, I will likely come back and order some fiber, because I LOVE CORMO!!!
The best part of moving is getting a new start. When you walk into your new place, it’s a clean canvas and you can do anything! The worst part of moving is all of the work it takes to pack, haul boxes, and unpack. I always find about eight thousand pounds of “crap” I forgot I had that I can’t handle parting with. I usually think I did a good job of cleaning things out, but by the time I start filling up boxes I realize I was so, so wrong!
I think the worst moves I’ve had were when I was in college. Most of the apartments had ridiculous move-in, move-out schedules. There were a couple of years there where I had to move out of an apartment on July 31st, and I wouldn’t be able to move into my new place until nearly a week later. That’s hell when you’ve moved halfway across the country for school. It’s hell even when you haven’t, I’m sure. But in my case, it wasn’t exactly easy to run home to mommy and daddy’s for a week. Taking finals while living out of a Super 8, a memory to cherish.
The best part of moving is unpacking and finding all those things that were “lost” for years. The worst part of moving is unpacking all that stuff.
Our worst move was when we moved to a new house 2 blocks away. We thought it would be a piece of cake because it was so close. Wrong! You don’t realize how much stuff you need to move until you actually do move it.
Worst part: leaving and saying goodbye.
Best part: Decorating a new home.
We will be moving in May. The best part will be- not having to share a room with the kids.
The worst part -packing the endless supply of legos.
The best part about moving is the feeling of excitement and freedom. Freedom because you have finally made your decision and that in itself is liberating. Excitement because it is the chance to meet new people, start over in a fresh place. It is also a chance to purge all the crap that has been accumulating in the back of closets, the basement that is never used.
The worst part about moving if you are moving long distances is saying goodbye to the people & places you have come to know and befriend. I mean there is a reason you lived in the place you have lived for a while and it is hard to say good bye to that, even if ultimately it is the best decision for you.
The best part of moving is having a fresh, clean new place to go to (providing you were able to clean or have cleaned the new place before you move in. The worst part of moving is the slow realization that you have accumulated way, way too much stuff, and it is all HEAVY, as you are slowly buried in boxes and boxes of stuff and it looks like you haven’t even packed anything yet. On one of my moves, we backed the truck up to the front door of the apartment building, wheels on either side of the sidewalk. Well, it had rained and then snowed before this loading episode, and the van sunk in the mud. Yep, up to the axle, which was straddling the sidewalk. I had to call a company and get my loaded moving truck TOWED out of the front yard area of the apartment, leaving huge tire holes where the rear wheels had sunk into the mud, leaving a horrible mess of that yard. A little extra added expense I didn’t need at the time……. and then I had to have one of my brothers come with me to help unload, and the two of us did that entire truck up three flights of steps into the new place. Never again.
I find one of the worst part of moving is that moment when the boxes are all in the new place, you’re exhausted phys. and emotionally, you really need a good meal or at least a restorative cup of tea (or single malt, or whatever) and you don’t have any food or wherewithal to unpack your kitchen.
Also, I hired someone to help sort and get rid of stuff last time I moved, and she misunderstood my instructions and got rid of stuff I wanted to keep and vice versa. She also stole some stuff. Sigh.
Best part, especially if it is a move by choice, like yours, is realizing that you have actually accomplished the thing you set out to do, and the discovery and newness of the new place. Five years ago I moved across town from a falling down, hippie-built log cabin (dark!) to a brand new house I helped to build in one of my favorite parts of town. Never looked back.
Well, I may not be able to top having your moving van stolen, but…
In the era before cell phones, we were driving across the country with a 2 year old and a 6-month old (from Ohio to Southern CA). We called my husband’s mother about half way through the trip and discovered that our soon-to-be landlord (supposedly) had called her to say that he was getting out of the rental business and we no longer had a destination for our stuff or ourselves. . I hadn’t thought about that in a while. It all turned out reasonably. We stayed in a hotel for an extra week and ended up picking a much better area to live, I think. So it was probably good, but it sure didn’t feel like it at the time.
I’ve moved a lot of times and it wasn’t bad, although I’m not sure I’m ready to do it again. Went to some wonderful new places. But I’d love to have the cormo. The skeins I got in the Spring package were great.
best part…moving into your new space…worst part…going through years of accumulated crud! It’s amazing what you save for “someday.”
What I love about moving: discovering the perfect new places for my things. I love to have everything just so, right where it belongs.
What I hate about moving: everything else.
Worst part about moving: packing, packing, packing, more packing, and you never seem to be done.
Best part about moving: a new beginning!
Good luck!!!!!!!!!
My moving nightmare is that alot of personal favorite gift items were removed and I even heard the one packer say how cool something was…. so I took it and put it in my car to move… when I got my things later… other items were gone…not expensive but emotionally irreplaceable…yep filed a complaint but never got them back. The best thing about moving is its a new start, new friendships, new weather, new fun shops to discover, new local color… its worth it..
I’ve moved 18 times in the last 35 years, and every move has some aspect of hellishness. I think the worst was arriving late at night after three days of driving, to find that the sellers had removed *every* lightbulb and left no toiletpaper. We ended up in a hotel for another night.
Ever since, I’ve always left two rolls of toilet paper whenever we move out!
Moving rots. I have moved 37 times, and every last one has stunk. However, the last one had to have been the absolute hardest on record, even for me. We moved from 1800 square feet, three br’s to 2 br’s, under 900 sq ft. Wall to wall boxes for three weeks straight. You walked into the place and backed out. Of course, our truck, reserved online a month in advance, was not there so we had to make do with a truck half the size, and three subsequent trips. Cramped, miserable, car sick cat, three kids, and my father in law in the hospital…
We have since added 6 chickens and a goat to the menagerie, and our next move…
From NC to Colorado..
Shoot me.
Please.
It is a mercy killing.
When my husband and I bought our first house many years ago, we moved ourselves with only relatives helping. My husband’s brother suddenly stopped working and sat down on the curb. When we asked why, he told us that the beer was all gone and he was not moving any more of our stuff until we bought more beer!!
The worst parts of moving are definitely the packing (just like almost everybody has already said). I also had a Two Men and a Truck crew that left much to be desired: they weren’t stoned, but they did steal!
My favorite part is unpacking and arranging all of our stuff into the new house. I love how it starts out as a house and ends up a home!
Best part is having the opportunity to go through things, get rid of old baggage, slim down . . .
Worst part of moving is having to go through things, getting rid of treasures, etc., etc.
You get the picture. Moving is a double-edged sword. But I do love the new, fresh beginnings, so the other stuff is worth it!
Best love to you and Erin. You’re doing a Fab job!!
discovered your blog and love it. i’m checking in regularly ’cause we’d really love goats to go along with the bees and chickens.
moving – i think, overall, i wouldn’t categorize it in my fun column. however, i do enjoy packing and sorting if there’s enough time to do it properly. getting rid of crap, organizing. love it. unpacking is the same – getting to consider and place things is fun. this all is changed if there isn’t enough time. then it’s a horror and stuff gets piled randomly into boxes that then sit around for a year waiting to be unpacked.
the best thing about a move is the new place.
worst experience? movers getting tipsy and deciding that the stuff in the storage unit was not of value. they then decided that it all needed to be just tossed into the back of the moving truck in one big heap. we won’t say who the movers were… i ended up unloading the truck and reloading it because it was strenuously impressed upon me that there was absolutely no room left in the truck. since this made no sense to me, i opened the back of the truck and had a minor heart attack when i saw the disaster.
nothing like finding out at the last minute,,,
the best thing about moving- starting over. we all need this one time or another and where else in life do you get a completely clean slate with out someone remembering what you did last time this opportunity came about. When you move everyone is just excited for you and can’t wait to see what wonderfulness you will pull off!!
The worst thing about moving- is MOVING! no, really- there is so much work packed into such a small amount of time. An entire house (or apartment) to be dismantled, packed, labeled and moved unpacked and rearranged in usually 2 or 3 days time.. That is anyone;s nightmare.
Hope that helps! Now to plan how to spin all that fiber! LOL
Ten minutes to go until the deadline! EEEK!
Worst move: NY to Austin, TX for a year’s sabbatic, with an almost-4-yr-old who decided to get projectile-vomit stomach flu on the 4-day drive down. Many, many rolls of paper towels were our major defense against total YUCK. Poor kid, poor parents.
Best move: None? And I’ve moved 25 times in 53 years. They were all awful, but survivable, in one way or another.
2 worsts: #1 The warm up story – Having the professional packers pack the 1/4 pound stick of butter in with your bedspread when moving from Florida in the summer. #2 Having the moving van slide off of the road and over the cliff while filled with your belongings. Then not wanting to pay for the damage because – insert many ridiculous reasons here.
The best: The beautiful drive and delightful company on the trip from point A to point B on many a move. Adventure and anticipation can be terrific.
the best part of moving is moving. the worst part of moving is moving.
My favorite motto for packing and moving… If in doubt throw it out.
Although I hate packing more than anything. Moving is a good time to re-evaluate and unload all that ’stuff; you hang on to but really don’t need.
After 21 years in the military we have had our share of moves. The biggest lesson we learned was to leave the move to the professional movers. Our worst move was definitly the one we did ourselves.
So, sadly, I only just saw this, and the giveaway is over, but I thought I would share my horrible moving story, to make you feel better, I hope. I moved out of my parents’ house when I was 18. They had no knowledge that I was moving out, although my relationship with my parents and why I left is a different story altogether. I was moving 80 miles away, so I rented a storage facility a half mile away from my house, so that I could get things out of my parents’ house in case I needed to leave quickly. I didn’t have a license (not allowed) so I had to carry all of my belongings to this storage facility. I also couldn’t buy any boxes, because that would be suspicious, so I used bags. Tote bags, plastic bags, duffel bags – anything I could find in my room. It took me a week to move all of my things. I hope never to do that again, as you never actually realize how much stuff you have, and how much it *weighs* until you have to carry it in your hands, across your back, on your wrists, and the inside of your elbows for half an hour. Yes, I know half an hour is really slow for only going half a mile, but let me tell you, you can’t move that fast. Add to it that it was August, hot and humid, and it is no party. The worst was carrying my books in bags. I own well over 130 books. Big books. I have scars from the blisters I got moving all of my stuff. So, no matter how horrible moving seems to be, just be happy you don’t have to carry it
-First my favorite moving quote- “Friends help you move, Real friends help you move dead bodies.”
-Best part: finding out who your friend are.
-Worst part: Being confronted with the consequences of consumerism and personal packrattedness.